The Heart-led Leader

Leadership Clarity Starts From Within: Stress Less Achieve More

Melissa T Season 1 Episode 19

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If you’ve ever second-guessed yourself in high-stakes situations or walked away from a meeting thinking “I didn’t say what I really meant,” this episode is for you.

True clarity in leadership doesn’t come from more data or better slides - it comes from your internal state.

In this episode, I’ll guide you through a 30-second clarity check-in you can use before key conversations, meetings, or moments that matter. 

We’ll also explore a simple breath technique (known as coherent breathing) that helps you regulate your nervous system and access your natural leadership presence.

In this episode:

  • Why internal clarity trumps over-explaining or performance mode
  • A 3-step embodied practice to centre yourself and speak with impact
  • The physiology of leadership presence -and how to tap into it fast
  • How to ground your message in values, not fear

Practice included:

→ The 30-second Inner Clarity Check-In

→ Coherent Breathing (inhale 5 counts, exhale 5 counts) for nervous system regulation

Reflection prompt:

“What state am I leading from?”

Whether you’re prepping for a boardroom conversation or a tricky one-on-one, this episode will leave you with something immediately useful-and deeply centring.

 Key Takeaways

  • Clarity isn’t just cognitive - it’s physiological and emotional.
  • Regulating your nervous system is the fastest way to find your ground.
  • Coherent breathing improves focus, calm, and communication clarity.
  • A centred leader inspires more trust than a reactive one.
  • One of the most powerful questions you can ask before leading: “What state am I in right now?”

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If you're ready to deepen your joy - whether you're in a tough season right now, or expanding into more light - explore my 'Joy is Medicine online, self-paced course. Just $27 it's a beautiful foundation for living with heart. Access Course HERE

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