BILFPOD
The BILFPOD (Boss I'd Like To Follow) takes a deep dive into the lives and 'drives' of others. This weekly show, hosted by Mara Dorne, features unfiltered conversations with business leaders, influencers, and BILF's in their own accord. Branded segments such as "BILF Breakdown" "What's in your BILF bag” and many more that will keep you entertained, inspired and bring on allll the feels- LIVE from our studio- in 6 inch heels!
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BILFPOD
“I Had to Find Myself First”: Kelsey Adams on Motherhood & Self-Love
We all chase a dream.
But no one talks about what happens when life asks you to carry more than one at the same time.
Kelsey Addams joins us for a deeply honest conversation about becoming a woman, an artist, and a mother—all at once. From moving to NYC with a lifelong dream of acting to discovering how content creation became a bridge rather than a distraction, Kelsey opens up about the realities behind the journey people don’t see.
We talk about dating yourself before expecting love from others, how self-love isn’t something you wake up with but something you practice, and why motherhood doesn’t soften you—it reveals you. She shares what it means to build a life piece by piece while raising a child, navigating ambition without guilt, and learning to give yourself grace while still moving forward.
This episode explores the identity shifts no one prepares you for, how becoming a mom reshaped the way Kelsey sees herself and her purpose, and why you don’t need to have it all figured out to be on the right path.
If you’re balancing dreams, responsibilities, and the quiet pressure to “have it all together,” this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.
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00:00 – 01:20
Intro: Authenticity, Energy & First Impressions
01:20 – 03:30
How Modeling Started & Breaking Industry Rules
03:30 – 05:10
From Music Videos to Creative Expression
05:10 – 06:40
Why Quality & Intentional Content Matter
06:40 – 08:30
Fashion, Identity & Cultural Influence
08:30 – 10:20
Confidence, Motherhood & Self-Respect
10:20 – 12:00
Dating Yourself & Emotional Independence
12:00 – 13:40
Motherhood as a Mirror for Growth
13:40 – 15:20
Creative Evolution: Acting, Hosting & Vision
15:20 – 16:50
Trusting the Journey & Letting Go of Control
16:50 – 18:00
What’s Next & Closing Reflections
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Follow Mara Dorne → @maradorne
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