Own Your Essence

Unveiling The Mysteries: Psychic Insights And Paranormal Talk With April DeMille

April DeMille Season 2 Episode 34

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Host April DeMille welcomes Stephanie Webb to an unscripted “true or false” Q&A on psychic abilities, mediumship, hauntings, and paranormal topics, while also noting April’s private psychic medium readings and one-on-one coaching for grief, trauma, and toxic relationship recovery. They discuss how full moons can heighten experiences, whether spirit contact can be opened unintentionally, and April’s view that fear-based beliefs attract negative experiences but personal authority can end unwanted spirit interactions. April shares claims of Bigfoot as interdimensional “peoples” with experiences and communication about “Maldek,” explains cleansing tools like sage/salt as optional rituals, and says hauntings can attach to objects. They cover universal psychic ability, government UFO secrecy and alleged DNA experiments, differences among guides and angels, energetic imprints versus ghosts, how skepticism can affect readings, and spirits or human energy influencing electronics.

00:00 Podcast Welcome and Guest
01:04 Surprise Paranormal Q&A Setup
01:36 X Files Nostalgia
03:14 Rapid Fire Rules
04:04 Full Moon Psychic Boost
06:00 Accidental Spirit Doors
07:14 Fear Beliefs and Possession
10:38 Bigfoot Interdimensional Tales
16:28 Cleansing Rituals and Tools
19:19 Haunted Objects and Authority
21:26 Claim Your Authority
22:32 Firm Boundaries Work
24:13 Hollywood Fear Myths
25:15 Hypnosis Consent Explained
25:57 Everyone Has Psychic Sense
27:24 UFOs Government Secrets
28:27 DNA Experiments Allegations
31:04 Guides vs Angels
33:54 Ghosts and Energy Imprints
35:53 Skepticism and Readings
39:52 Electronics and Kinetic Energy
43:38 Closing and Booking


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SPEAKER_01

Hey guys, welcome back to another episode of Own Your Essence Podcast, where we get to have deep transformational conversations with some of our favorite people. I am your host, April DeMille, and as you can see, I have one of my favorite peoples here, Stephanie. Hello, welcome. Welcome, welcome, my friend Stephanie Webb. For those of you that are seeking intuitive insight, I provide private psychic medium readings. These sessions are designed to bring clarity and direction across areas like money, career, relationships, family dynamics, spiritual evolution, and emotional well-being. If you are ready for a deeper, more personalized support, I offer private one-on-one coaching for those navigating grief, trauma, and the complexities of toxic relationship recovery. You can schedule a discovery call using the links provided to ensure it's a comfortable fit. You'll find all booking links in the show notes of every episode. And as always, thanks for tuning in. And also, we have a little surprise for you. Um, Stephanie's gonna take over from here, and we're gonna have a little bit of unscripted fun.

SPEAKER_00

Yes, I'm gonna ask you questions about psychic abilities, mediumship, ghosts and hauntings, paranormal stuff. We're gonna just get like whether these things are true or false according to your experience and what you know. And this is gonna be super fun. Yeah. I'm actually I'm currently going through X-Files watching X-Files for the first time. So did that help prompt any of these? No, but it it makes me laugh because I always think of you in certain episodes. I'm like, oh, Abraham would love this. Totally.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. X-Files, I feel like, so I didn't ever back in the 90s, right? It was definitely a thing.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

And um, I feel like I watched like maybe a couple episodes when I was younger, but I wasn't really big on TV. But I remember being like, oh, this is so my vibe.

SPEAKER_00

Yes, yeah. Well, and I wasn't allowed, I had two friends, I still have two friends who love it. They they would get together and watch it every week, and I was super evangelical and like that's that's the devil. It's the devil, and TV. Jeez, Louise. So I'm enjoying just watching the stuff.

SPEAKER_01

You're like, I feel liberated here, exactly.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, so I'm pretty hot. So there you go. Oh, yeah, he was a cutie.

SPEAKER_01

Like, I remember in the 90s thinking, like, that is a good looking grown man. I was like 12, dude. Um, but maybe I was 14. I don't remember. We were teenagers, high school. Right. And it was like having the crush over like one of the high school teachers or something, it's kind of had that vibe behind it. But I'm like, that is an attractive man, like he's a good looking dude.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. And and because his personality is very um gentle, I just yeah, it's very attractive, you know, in the character moving. Anyways, okay, April, are you ready?

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. So as far as I know, guys, like I don't know anything about these questions. I know that I'm gonna be asked mostly true or false questions, but I have no idea what's coming. So this is uh my answers are gonna be bet based on what comes up immediately and what I can um express based on my own experiences.

SPEAKER_00

So and I got three pages of questions, so we think we got enough material here.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, like I feel like we don't. I mean, we can 30 minutes is good, like we don't have to drag it out forever for sure, but like also there's no like limit. We can go as long as we want to. So yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Okay. Oh, okay. I like this one. Okay, full moons make psychic experiences stronger.

SPEAKER_01

I think that's true up until a certain point. Um I think that well, I'm just gonna say full moons are impactful regardless. But I think there becomes a point where you're awake enough that it feels more balanced, like all around. But when I was, there were definitely moments where I would feel more heightened and more piqued at certain times like that.

SPEAKER_00

Oh, okay. And does it bring out werewolves? Totally. My God, yes. Absolutely. I worked in customer service off and on during the years, and oh my goodness, we I I never used to believe that that the full moon caused the crazies to come out. Yeah. But holy shit, it was every time we'd be like, is it full moon? Yes, it's full moon. Oh, that's why this day is whack. It's wild.

SPEAKER_01

So I used to work in hospitals and I had family members that were police officers, and both during full moons were fucking wild. Like the amount of crazies that came out, that the arrests that were made, um the accidents and wild stunts and all the things like it in at the hospitals and ER, like both were definitely um impacted.

SPEAKER_00

Yes. There's some sort of scientific explanation, although I don't know. Um all right. Um, do you have anything more to say about the full moon? Or are you ready for the next question? No, no, no, you can move on. Okay. Let's see. Oh, it's possible to accidentally open a door to spirit contact.

SPEAKER_01

I don't really believe in accidents, so I'm gonna go with no on that because our souls gravitate towards experiences that we need, so it might feel like an accident or coincidental, but there's not really such a thing because everything is for our soul's expansion. So I'm still gonna stick with no. So it's not like Does that make sense? Like it's like, yeah, is an accident really an accident? No.

SPEAKER_00

But you can unintentionally you can unintentionally knowing, but it's for a purpose.

SPEAKER_01

But it's because your soul knows more than you do, right? Like your human might not have that intention, but your soul most certainly does. Okay.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. Interesting. And that could be for good and bad spirit. It's um what are you what are your thoughts on that?

SPEAKER_01

Like the opening for because so I don't want to sound dismissive of other people's experiences when it comes to beliefs of negative bad spirits. I've I've even experienced some of that on my own years and years ago. But that was also because I didn't know my own authority. And once you have a grasp of who you really are and your own authority, those things disappear. They're not real, those are just um things that you attract based on the mindset you're in at the moment. And and so for me, it was appropriate that I had had experiences somewhat like that because that was my mindset. Once I graduated from that version, um, or or uh the beliefs in that version of April, and I realized how empowered and how much authority I really do have, those things disappeared. So I'm not impacted that way. That doesn't mean other people don't get impacted that way. It's really based on what they believe, what their core beliefs I think are, or even what their soul's experience is in need of. And that's not where my soul is right now. So that's kind of I don't did. I even answer the question. Yes. Oh, okay. I'm like, did I get I think I went off this trailblazing journey and I'm like, wait, did I even fucking answer the question? I don't even know anymore.

SPEAKER_00

It's kind of like, okay, in the movies, that's all I know. Um, is they're actually trying to conjure up like some serial killer murderer. Yeah. Um, but generally somebody like you is not trying to do that, and you're bringing in what calls to you with who you are and where you're at.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. And also it's I think it's worth stating too, like some people will be like, if you're channeling, it's you're opening the doorways to possession. Okay, well, if that was the case, then 8 billion people on this planet would be possessed because we all channel even when we don't know we're doing it. Um, so fuck off. But also, it's appropriate for somebody to have that fear if that's their belief around it, right? So, but like, hey, I can't wait till you graduate from that belief because you'll feel so much more like aligned and free, you know? And like they might even be like, oh, tarot and Ouija and all these um divination tools are gateways to hell. I mean, that's your story, not mine.

SPEAKER_00

Yep. Oh, I grew up in that.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. Like even playing Dungeons and Dragons is supposed to open the or if you watch a movie that is a thriller or PG 13 rated R, well, then you're gonna go to hell because you're inviting whatever. I mean, I guess if that's what you're into, if that's your belief, then have fun with that. It's super fear-based.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, okay, let's see. Um, oh, interesting. Bigfoot may have some form of psychic or intermension in start over. Bigfoot may have some form of psychic or interdimensional ability.

SPEAKER_01

Totally, absolutely. I've actually had experiences with Bigfoot myself, um in the physical and other dimensions, and Bigfoot is wild experience. Wild, like so they're an amazing people.

SPEAKER_00

Oh, it's people, it's not just one dude, right?

SPEAKER_01

It's like a it's like a it's like almost like a tribe, like they're a people's, like their own, yeah, collective. Um, they're not even from here. So that is something I've discovered based on my own conversations and experiences with Bigfoot. I learned that uh actually it was wild because this is how I learned it. Um, in 2022, so I had had a Bigfoot, a couple Bigfoot experiences before that, but it was still new territory for me because I'd been experiencing other beings and other dimensions for a while. But I wasn't still in a place where I was willing to like admit out loud that was happening. I was like, oh, this sounds as crazy as fuck as like my fairy experiences, but they're still real, right? Like just like my angel experiences and anything else. And so um, I remember um just being like point blank, where are you even from? Like, what the fuck? Like they they explained to me where their smell came from because I was like asking questions like people say you stink, what's that all about, right? They explained to me what that was, they told me where they were from, and this was the conversation. I shit you not. Where are you from? And the way I can't even do the voice that they did, like I can't even make the sound in my throat that they did. It's called Maldek, but there's like a click, like this deep kind of like click when you move when you move from like the D to the ek, it's there's like this weird thing that our humans can't do. And it was pronounced that way. And I was like, Maldek. I was like, I feel like I'm just making that shit up in my head. Am I playing Dungeons and Dragons? Like, what the fuck is happening? Right. And then I called some friends and I was like, hey, have you ever heard of blah, blah, blah, blah, blah? And literally, there's this one guy that's really famous, and he died, I think, a year ago. And they were sending me information about that. And he wrote a book that talked about Maldek and how the planet was destroyed, and it's now the asteroid belt between, I think, Jupiter and Mars. And so the big foots that did survive were transplants here, right? And and and so I was like, holy fuck! Like, there's no way I could have made that up. There's no way I could have known that Anne had the validation immediately to prove that Muldeck was a thing. And I was like, oh damn, okay, now I know I'm actually speaking to you. Like I know that I'm in line because this is not something I would have ever known. And and then it's just it's no different than if I'm speaking to a spirit. Like they give you validation, things that you can prove, um, evidence, right? That here's how you can prove that you're talking to me. And then you go to your client and you're like, here's what I'm being offered. And they're like, yep, yep, yep. That's your evidence, right? So when I had that conversation and then the evidence was presented, I was like, okay, now I know I'm in line. Like, like now I know that we're talking. Um, the smell thing, if you want me to go one step further, I'll go ahead and explain. Because that's some of those, like, I don't know, like daily monotonous things that some people might ask about. Um, I asked, like, just randomly, I was like, why does everybody say you stink? And this was the this was the explanation I got. So Bigfoot can dematerialize and they can warp between dimensions. So what happens is when they are warping, a chemical reaction happens and it produces that smell. And I was like, oh, I just thought you were a stinky animal, right? Like that.

SPEAKER_00

But it's hairy.

SPEAKER_01

Like, I don't know their their habits, or I don't know, right? Like they're just like eight foot beings that live out in the woods. I don't fucking know. And I think most people are like, oh, they're just stinky animals, like a bear or something, right? Um, but no, the the explanation blew my mind. I was like, what the fuck? And I'm listening I'm no science guru. I could I'm not even creative enough to come up with some bullshit like that. So I was like, wow, that's wild. So they were like the chemical reaction is what produces a smell. And I was like, fucking fascinating, dude. That's amazing. Like, and so I'm like, okay, that's the answer.

SPEAKER_00

Well, you might not understand this reference then if you didn't watch TV before, but um was it Harry and the Henderson's you talked to?

SPEAKER_01

No, I've actually seen that movie though. That's okay, such a cute movie. It is an adorable movie, but no. Um, but I will say that the I've never had a Bigfoot experience with something that was negative. They're actually very loving, very calm. But you know the whole the whole idea of gentle giant, totally that.

SPEAKER_00

Oh, I love that.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, absolutely that.

SPEAKER_00

That's fun. Something to cuddle with, actually. A big teddy beer.

SPEAKER_01

They definitely think we're interesting. I don't know if they'd want to cuddle with us, but they definitely think we're interesting.

SPEAKER_00

Maybe we smell to them.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, I was gonna say they kind of think we're gross, maybe, but like I don't know.

SPEAKER_00

Oh my gosh. Okay. Oh, all right. Cleansing a space using things like sage and salt actually works.

SPEAKER_01

It works if you think it works, and it works if you think you need it. So there was a time rituals, there's always a place for rituals, right? Like even weddings and uh blessings of you know, or christening babies. Like it is, it's really about more like tradition and what just makes you feel good. Do you absolutely need it? No, you're already the most powerful source. Um, you are the most powerful god God source. So do you need it? No, does it make you feel good? Then do it. And I guess the same would also be for crystals, because like just it's these things that you can have, and yeah, and I think crystals can put off some really good frequencies and vibes, and and they were probably used in Egypt and all these things for a good reason. Um, I've never really like I like crystals here and there, but I'm not like the rock girl. Like, I'm not that. It's it's just it doesn't do the thing for me. But also, I've already come to a place with everything else. Like, it's like prayer. Do you you know it's just no different than a ritual like that? It's like if you feel like you need it, that's fine, but you're already the God source, so like you already have all the authority, you already have all the protection without having to ask for it. It's already yours, yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Gotcha. I actually bought, I went to like a witchy store. Those are fun. I was like, and I had a conversation with the girl. I'm like, I grew up evangelical. This is really cool, though, coming in here. It was like me being rebellious, yeah, even though it's not, but you know what I mean, like from my background. Yeah, um, and I bought sage and I came home and I just started. I like the smell though. It's really cool. Sage is great.

SPEAKER_01

You know what else is really good? Palo Santo. It smells so fucking good. Um, I've never heard of that. Oh my god, it's so good. You need to get you some sticks of that and cinnamon together and burn those. So good. I have a ton of sage and Palo Santo and cinnamon sticks, and I usually give them as gifts for like, you know, just like gifts. Um, good luck, like you can people like to use those things for clearing their space. I have them like here in as in decoration form, but I don't burn them.

SPEAKER_00

I was nervous doing it though, because I was like, okay, just make sure nothing catches on fire.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. Like it's really strong. Like if you're gonna burn it, you gotta like air out your house after that because it's really, really strong.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, let's see. Um oh, okay. I used to watch a show called Supernatural, and this was always they always had to burn the things of people to get rid of the ghost. Um, some hauntings are tied to objects, not places.

SPEAKER_01

True. That would be true. Um, because sometimes, like maybe your grandma likes to sew and she wants to imprint her energy on that sewing machine. Sometimes that's true. They might have something that they favored in life and they've got a lot of passion and energy wrapped up in that.

SPEAKER_00

So would it be okay, this is my brain. If you wanted to get rid of a ghost from TV, you'd have to burn that thing.

SPEAKER_01

No. What would that in your experience, what would no, that's not no, that's definitely a ritual that somebody might feel empowered by. Um, and it's it's like that's only getting rid of the scary ghosts. Well, it's just producing like a feeling like here's my way of saying I'm done with this, right? Like, here's my closure. I'm closing this connection. But you don't have to do that. Like, literally, you can just tell it to fuck off and go away. And that's yeah, in my experience, that's all you have to do. Now, I have had with that being said, I have had an experience. Um, and this was 2013, I think. And again, I was still in a place where I did not know my own authority. I wasn't in I wasn't empowered, I hadn't remembered yet, right? And I did live in a haunted house at that time. Um, there was a lot of activity, and I did do a cleansing ritual, like I had blessed the home and I did some things to move the energy out, and that still worked, but did I need to do all those things? No, I could have just said fuck off and leave. I didn't know that at the time.

SPEAKER_00

Okay.

SPEAKER_01

Does that make sense? Like we have we have the authority and and working hours, right? Like, we have house rules, and if you don't like your guest, you tell them to fucking leave. You know? But you have to have here's the one thing though you do have to believe it. So it's shaky territory if you still don't know or remember your own power. That's where people are like, Well, I did that and it's not gone. Well, that's because you still don't believe in yourself.

SPEAKER_00

Kind of like when you're setting boundaries with a physical, it takes a lot of practice. Because I used to be like very sheepish, and then people I said to people it didn't work, and they're like, Stephanie, you're not doing it confidently in your own power. And I was like, But what do you mean? And then when I start, oh, oh, yeah, they're sensing that energy of me not being like right.

SPEAKER_01

No, that's what it comes to. It's like if there is flexibility in that line, it's not going to be taken serious. If you can't take you serious, nothing else is going to either, period.

SPEAKER_00

Right.

SPEAKER_01

And and there was one time, and actually, this just happened like a week ago. Um, I had a spirit for 12 fucking hours poke me in the right side of my ass for 12 fucking hours that day. And I'm usually fine with being touched. Like that's normal for me. That's like my okay, every day, whatever. Um, but after 12 hours, I realized it was still going on. I'd just gotten so used to it that I was like, you're still fucking poking me in the ass, dude. Like, fuck off. This is annoying. So I laid down in bed around midnight and I was very firm. And I said, look, if you can't translate what you want from me into words or visions that I will understand, don't fucking touch me again. Immediately, I was not touched again. Immediately.

SPEAKER_00

Wow. So they try to communicate with you? No.

SPEAKER_01

And that's why I was like, you're just annoying me at this point. Get the fuck out. Like, if you don't have um some way to make sure that the communication is being translated between us, that I will understand what you're saying, then get the fuck out. You're wasting my time, dude. So I that window was there. They could have sent me messages in other ways through visions, through dreams, whatever. None of that happened. So I was like, if you can't do that, do not fucking touch me again. And immediately it stopped. And I was like, thank you. Now get the fuck out. So you do really have to like know that you hold all the cards because you do. Right.

SPEAKER_00

Awesome. And that's that's very encouraging for for people who are have been in a very fearful space.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Because TVs and movies and the stories we hear, like all of that is fear-based. Right. So then you're like, oh my god, a ghost. And then it could be like, oh, just or it's like Casper, the friendly ghost. Sorry, I really a lot to TV because I just grew up with that.

SPEAKER_01

Well, and a lot of people do. Like they only, when it comes to like psychic stuff, hauntings, mediums, they really only have like Hollywood to look at, right? And actually that can be really damaging because it's all edited, it's all TV magic, it's all hyped up and over-exaggerated or under-exaggerated, um, just for you know, ratings, right? And so you just have to be very careful and selective about what you're absorbing. You got to take what works and leave the rest no matter what you are exposing yourself to, whether it's books, you know, entertainment, um, whatever.

SPEAKER_00

Same with like hypnosis. So I went to a hip hypnotherapist five years ago. And she was, I was like, Oh, what if you make me do something I don't want to do? And so she was explaining that's what Hollywood has said. That's the you know, that doesn't matter.

SPEAKER_01

That's a picture that people like to paint for you. That is nobody can hypnotize you and make you actually like cluck like a chicken. That's some bullshit. Yeah, um, you have your soul has to agree to um the guided meditation and imagery, regardless. And nobody has control over that but you power.

SPEAKER_00

You are empowered, totally. Um, okidoki. Everyone is born with some level of psychic ability.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, true. Everybody can do it, not everybody knows how to do it willfully, right? Like some of it's just a natural uh part of our natural senses. So even though everybody can do it, not everybody's meant to do it like out in an outward service way. Does that make sense? Like, not everybody's meant to be the psychic medium that you can go to to get readings, or not, but not everybody's meant to fulfill it in that manner. But is everybody gifted the same? Totally.

SPEAKER_00

And that not a lot of people are not even aware or believe that.

SPEAKER_01

So then they would not get to that place where they and they might not even need to in this uh for this evolution of their soul anyway. It might be the next time around or the next experience that they decide, okay, now I need to latch onto this more. It's like, can anybody play an instrument? Yeah, but you still have to practice and you still have to perfect the art and you still have to put in the work. And so everybody can do that. Not everybody will, not everybody wants to be a musician.

SPEAKER_00

That is a good example, yeah. Okay, I'm gonna go to this page here. Ooh. Okay. Governments know more about UFOs than they disclose. Billion percent.

SPEAKER_01

Yep, 100%. Uh, they also know more about the hybrids that are happening, um, or been happening. They also know know a shit ton more about Jesus Christ than they ever care to admit. Um they know uh yeah, that that's yes, hard yes.

SPEAKER_00

So Roswell, was that a UFO landing?

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, but there's been more than that. Um and the government actually works with uh galactic federations. Um so yeah.

SPEAKER_00

That is literally X-Files um storyline.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Oh my god. Um see, that's why when I watch it, I think of you all the time. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Okay. Oh I actually want to add one thing to that that I discovered through a I'm gonna call it a team meeting with some other guides and galactic beings. Uh, they showed me some very like classified information about how government was experimenting with uh our DNA in ways that felt very dehumanized. So I'll give you an example of what I was shown. I was shown a human embryo that was carried in a cow's womb. The uh experiment did not go well, so there was a massively deformed being that came from that that was walking on all fours like a cow but had the human head and face, like it was still human as well. And because of that, they didn't, they it's like they take those experiments, and instead of immediately uh euthanizing or ending that outcome, um, I was shown that it would be let out to feed and graze and pastures and stuff like that in areas that were secluded and only at nighttime. And so that was how the information was presented to me as an example of um government involvement in some things that would make people very sad.

SPEAKER_00

Interesting. Yeah, so like they have labs and they're doing this stuff.

SPEAKER_01

Are they like underground labs? They have labs, not just underground, they have them in mountains. Um there are labs under the ocean floor. Um yeah, so yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, let's see. I'm trying to find like different so we go to different uh things.

SPEAKER_01

Different things, different subjects, y'all. Oh, there was one on spirit guides. Okay. Well mine's fired, so um, I'm just kidding.

SPEAKER_00

She is and she's not like oh this is this is one thing I'd be curious to know. Guardian angels are different from spirit guides.

SPEAKER_01

Um I think they can I think the term gets used interchangeably a lot. Um archangels can be different from guardian angels and spirit guides. Like there's always like even if you think about cherubim and seraphim, and uh, there's different levels of different worker bees for for the universe, right? And uh a lot of times because archangels are almost like the highest frequency, like almost like our our uh highest form of self, right? Um, they forget or or they've never even experienced being human, right? So they don't know like sometimes what we need when we're transitioning and evolving. And so our spirit guides are basically the translators. Hey, fucker, like here's why, like, you know, like when we need translators for sign language and stuff like that, right? We need those uh medium points to help advocate for us sometimes, um, in between uh in between dimensions and levels. Hopefully that helps.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. I feel like at least from my understanding and experience, people talk about guard angels like just they're watching over you. Whereas when you when I hear spirit guides, it's more like personal.

SPEAKER_01

It's more personal. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, I would agree with that. It's like more individualized personal experience as opposed to guardian angel. But we are all being watched over by guardians, we're all very, very protected. Um, but again, that's not to diminish our own authority. We don't, we're already there.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, I think they're what do you think when when somebody uses a spirit guide to ask every little thing? Is it do you think that they don't trust their own?

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, I think, well, maybe. Yes and no, because it is, I mean, it's a learning experience, right? And until you get confident in your skill, um, that's what you're gonna do. Like, you need a math tutor until you fucking know what you're doing. And then once you get to a point where you're like, okay, I've got this, you don't really need the math tutor anymore. Right. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Um, ghosts are always the spirits of people who died. No.

SPEAKER_01

Um there can be animal spirits that have crossed over. There can be uh human spirits, there can be um other activities from other beings and dimensions, there can be just what's called an energetic imprint, which is not the same thing as a spirit or a ghost. Um, so there are different variations for sure.

SPEAKER_00

So what would an energetic footprint sorry, did you say footprint?

SPEAKER_01

Imprint.

SPEAKER_00

Imprint. Um, what would that would that be like an aura? Like what does that look like or foot sound like or it's more like a fingerprint.

SPEAKER_01

Like evidence that you've been there, but you're not there. So it's like it's like let's say you move into this house, and there was a lot of death in this house. Like maybe there was a morgue in the basement and somebody worked for a funeral home, right? So there's a lot of energy about endings and death already as a massive theme and imprint in this home and on this property. So does that mean that the spirits are there? No. But does that mean you can walk into that place and feel like you're surrounded by like death, demise, whatever? Yes, it's like it's it's ingrained all the way down in into the woodwork, like it's it's perpetuated into everything. So again, it's like a fingerprint, but it doesn't mean you're there, it's just evidence that something's been there.

SPEAKER_00

Okay.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Oh, that's very cool. Um can skepticism interfere with a reading?

SPEAKER_01

Uh yeah. Yes and no. Um, I hold on, let me think this through. Skepticism is healthy. I'm just gonna say that. Skepticism is we always are humans, our egos get in the way, and we always need validation and proof and all the things until we build our muscles, right? Um, that's how we learn to evolve in confidence. So skepticism can be very healthy. What's interesting is you might have a reader that only works with people at a certain frequency. So, like, if you're a skeptic and you're still like got your training wheels on, so to say, so to speak, you might have to work with certain types of psychic and mediums that are okay with that. That's their specialty. And then you've got other psychic mediums that are like, I'm I'm not trying to make you a believer. I already work with people that are at a different frequency than that, right? And that's where they specialize. So can it can it impact um a reading in that way? Sure. Um, can it impact the reading in the sense that you're sitting with someone and they feel very closed off because they're testing you as opposed to being open to receiving, that can um create a little bit of disturbance in the flow, especially if their soul's saying, I'm not ready. And then you're you're forced to reckon with that.

SPEAKER_00

Because if you're trying to get uh a reading like through them and they're blocked, you're not really getting much.

SPEAKER_01

Sometimes, yeah. So or or what you get, it's not even necessarily always that you're not getting much. It could also mean that what you get feels feels very hard to get. Like it can be very exhausting. Like sometimes you'll sit down with a client and again, they're already at a frequency, they're already believers, they've already like they're already very open to that world. So then you sit down and like it's just flowing, like the magic comes. But then you've got somebody that's dealing with you know, ego in that moment, or the hef, the healthy, the heavy skepticism, healthy, heavy skepticism, or maybe they're even like really grief stricken and energetically like that takes up so much, so much space for them that it's hard to be um open to much else. And in those moments, it doesn't mean you won't get anything, it just means that it's like fucking trekking through mud sometimes because it's like, hey man, we gotta clear the clear the air. And so that in that in that content context, sorry, yes, it can it can change the outcome of what happens, but again, regardless, what happens is because it's your soul's need at that moment. So if your soul saying I'm not ready for this, then that's what you're gonna get.

SPEAKER_00

It's kind of like with therapy and and coaching somebody, they have to be open and want to, otherwise, it's like, okay, well pissing in the wind here if you're not.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly.

SPEAKER_00

All right, I think we have time for a few more questions.

SPEAKER_01

Uh let's just do like yeah, maybe just like one or two more, like some one or two, and then we'll wrap it up. I think that's good.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, let's see. Ooh, spirits can communicate through electronics, like flickering, flickering lights, oh my god, TV.

SPEAKER_01

100%, like all my life. Now you're talking my vibe. Um yes, but also we have kinetic energy of our own. And sometimes our own energy can impact those things, and you'll think that, oh shit, there's a spirit around, which is true because you're around and you have a spirit. Um, but sometimes it can just be that you don't know how to manage your own kinetic energy, and you'll just unintentionally or what you consider accidentally blow out phones, which I've done. I've also uh blown out light bulbs, done that. Um, I've done all kinds of weird shit with my own kinetic energy, especially when I was pissed off. So that's fun. Um, I have seen my daughter. This really happened. This was so wild. Um, I was sitting in a Barnes and Nobles, and my daughter was furious and really upset. And the moment she called me to like unload and tell me what was happening, the power in the whole fucking building went off. And then when I answered the phone, it came back on. And I was like, damn, girl, you mad as fuck. Like, I was like, holy shit. So like I've seen wild things happen with people's like energy when they don't even realize that I'm observing. Um, so yes, I would agree with that, but back to spirits. Um, spirit can uh what's the word I'm looking for without it sounding like a negative connotation? Okay, so spirits can manipulate whatever they need to to bring the messages forward in a way that you will witness, recognize, understand. Does that always mean that we understand? No, but that doesn't mean that they won't use every possible outlet to get your attention.

SPEAKER_00

Like throwing a book, and then you're like, what? Why did that book, you know? Um, and okay, another movie thingy. Um, do ghosts have to do they have to practice having enough strength to actually touch an object?

SPEAKER_01

I don't know if it's considered strength because we don't have bodies anymore once we graduate, right? But I do think that it takes time for a spirit to remember how to navigate without a body and to remember how to communicate without a body. And that also depends on how open the person is to understanding how to make connections through different worlds, right? That's where the confusion can come in. Um, and that, and that, and everybody's got a different reference to some. So can a spirit uh you know take time get better at things and take time to remember how to do absolutely.

SPEAKER_00

Very cool. See, everything I've learned has been from the movies and TV, yeah.

SPEAKER_01

And the only thing, the only reason why I say time, let me just be clear about something. It's time for us, right? Because time's just an illusion, it's not even a real thing. So, but for us, um, because we live in a matrix of 3D and timing, that's why I say it takes time. Right. Amazing, amazing, amazing. All right, do you want to end it there? Yeah, is that it? Are we good?

SPEAKER_00

I think so.

SPEAKER_01

Okay, guys. So if you loved this episode and uh you would like to book some one on one time with me or reading, you can find the booking links in the show notes as always. And thank you, Stephanie, because it's always fun when you get to come on here and vibe with me.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, super fun. And I learned a lot. Thank you, bro.

SPEAKER_01

Okay, see you guys next time. Bye.

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