Recoverycast: Mental Health & Addiction Recovery Stories

Hilary Phelps | From Alcohol Addiction & Depression to Outpatient Care & Holistic Recovery

Recovery.com Season 1 Episode 20

Hilary Phelps shares her addiction recovery story after a 15-year battle with alcohol, depression, and perfectionism. From high-achieving athlete to struggling with secret drinking and shame, she opens up about her long-term sobriety, healing through 12-step recovery, and building a new life as a recovery advocate and mother. This mental health & addiction recovery story is powerful, honest, and deeply inspiring.

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Key topics:

  1. Hilary’s early experiences with alcohol, marijuana, and depression at age 14.
  2. Hiding her addiction behind academic and athletic success as a competitive swimmer.
  3. How perfectionism and people-pleasing contributed to her emotional decline.
  4. Escalation of blackout drinking and destructive behavior during college.
  5. The impact of addiction on her romantic relationships and personal identity.
  6. Navigating recovery while being part of a high-profile and famous family.
  7. Her decision to seek help through outpatient treatment after multiple failed attempts.
  8. The recovery tools that have supported her 18 years of sobriety.
  9. Parenting with emotional openness and discussing addiction with her young son.
  10. Launching The Right Room to help women in recovery and life transitions.


00:00 A Smoking Dilemma at a Funeral

00:37 Introduction to Recovery Cast

01:33 Meet Hilary Phelps

01:40 Swimming Beginnings

04:12 First Encounters with Alcohol

04:54 High School Struggles

11:27 College Challenges

17:01 Blackout Drinking Explained

17:53 The Shame of Addiction

25:07 Relationships and Ultimatums

26:37 First Steps Towards Recovery

30:24 Recovery.com: Your Path to Mental Health and Addiction Treatment

30:50 The Power of Shared Experiences in Recovery

31:12 The Journey of Self-Reflection and Acceptance

33:03 The Turning Point in Treatment

34:18 Navigating Emotions and Feelings in Recovery

35:08 The Importance of Support Systems

37:52 The Challenges and Triumphs of Long-Term Sobriety

43:51 Open Conversations About Addiction with Children

48:01 The Role of Community and Support in Recovery

50:17 Finding Identity and Purpose Beyond Addiction

53:49 Non-Negotiables and Boundaries in Recovery

58:17 Empowering Women Through Shared Experiences

01:02:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts