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Internalized Homophobia - Where It Starts and How to Stop It

Joshua Robert: LGBTQ Podcaster & Self-Help Enthusiast Season 1 Episode 8

🏳️‍🌈 Why do so many queer people still struggle with self-acceptance—even after coming out? This week on HOT AIR, host Joshua Robert dives deep into internalized homophobia – what it is, how it shows up in our daily lives, and why it continues to impact so many in the LGBTQ+ community.

We kick things off by breaking down a viral pop culture moment: a photo of 18 white, shirtless, hyper-masculine gay men that recently blew up social media, sparking intense debates about representation, body image, and the muscle gaze in queer spaces.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

🔥 How internalized homophobia manifests as gay shame, toxic masculinity, and fear of being “too much”
💪 The impact of body image issues and the unrealistic standards in the gay community
Ways to unlearn self-rejection and build authentic self-acceptance and confidence
💡 Why society teaches queer people to judge themselves – and how to break free from these toxic beliefs

If you’ve ever felt like you’re too femme, too loud, too different, or not gay enough, this episode is for you. Tune in for raw, honest conversations about queer identity, mental health, and reclaiming your power.

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