HOT AIR: LGBTQ Life, Mental Health & Modern Love

Say My Name (Right): A Lesson in Microaggressions

Joshua Robert: LGBTQ Podcaster | Self-Help, Culture & Queer Perspectives Season 1 Episode 56

In this solo episode of Hot Air, host Joshua gets real about a mispronounced name — yes, the one we all saw — and dives headfirst into what microaggressions actually are, why they matter, and how even the “small stuff” can hurt. From mis-pronouncing Zohran Mamdani’s name to responding poorly when you’re called out (“Hey, chill out!”), Joshua maps out the journey from defensiveness to accountability.
We’ll unpack:

  • Why names carry culture, history and identity.
  • Why people reacted so strongly (spoiler: it’s about more than one slip-up).
  • What microaggressions look like across race, culture and the LGBTQ+ community.
  • How to listen and teach better — without shame, without apology-tour fatigue.
    If you’ve ever thought “it was just a mistake, why are people so triggered?” — this episode is for you. And if you’ve ever been on the receiving end of a “small” comment that felt large — you’re absolutely seen.
    Tune in, and let’s all try saying each other’s names (and identities) a little more carefully.

Watch the full episode on YouTube HERE!

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