Navigating Disability

Parenting Autistic Kids & Late Diagnosis: Mel Spencer’s Story

What happens when your child’s autism diagnosis becomes the mirror that reveals your own? In this moving and empowering episode, we sit down with Mel Spencer OAM—fierce Autistic advocate, CEO of Different Journeys, and mum to three Autistic teens.


Mel shares her personal journey from initial resistance to diagnosis, through grief, PTSD, and burnout, to building an award-winning support organisation. Her lived experience—both as an Autistic woman and former Victoria Police officer—drives her bold vision for creating inclusive, strength-based systems for Autistic individuals and their families.


We explore the trauma of Australia’s education system, the healing power of diagnosis, and how self-compassion is a revolutionary act. Mel’s honesty, humour and hard-won wisdom are a lifeline for carers, educators and neurodivergent people alike.


🎧 Whether you’re navigating your own journey or supporting someone else—this episode offers connection, clarity, and hope.


📛 Trigger Warning: Discussion of PTSD, mental health, and systemic trauma.
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🔗 Connect with Mel:
 Different Journeys on Facebook
@differentjourneysautism
Mel Spencer on LinkedIn
Different Journeys on LinkedIn