Pigmented Taboo
Pigmented Taboo is an unapologetic series where three Black gay men and their guests lay it all bare. Discussing identity, intimacy, joy, rage, healing, and everything in between. Broadcasting from London, we cut through the noise to centre the voices, stories, and experiences too often pushed to the margins.
From navigating queer nightlife and dating politics to family, faith, masculinity, and mental health. No topic is off-limits. This isn’t about respectability. It’s about truth. Loud, layered, and lived-in.
Pigmented Taboo
Gay Self-Esteem
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In this episode, we explore how identity, body image, dating culture, social media, rejection, and community expectations shape confidence and self-worth. We discuss where these insecurities begin, why external validation so often becomes addictive, and what it actually takes to build lasting self-esteem.
Joining us are two guests with very different perspectives.
ROM-1 is a pop artist and former RuPaul's Drag Race performer, who shares his personal experiences navigating confidence, visibility, and authenticity. We also celebrate his latest single, Haymaker!
Also joining us is Andrew Akuruka, author of The Gay Blueprint, who offers practical insight into developing healthier relationships with yourself, building confidence beyond appearance, and creating a more intentional life.
Whether you've struggled with comparison, confidence, dating, or simply feeling "good enough," this conversation offers honest perspectives on one of the most important and often overlooked topics affecting the LGBTQ+ community.
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