Healing Space
Where chronic illness meets mental health advocacy.
Join Cara Nethery (HS activist, social media influencer, and lived-experience advocate) for raw, unfiltered conversations about life with Hidradenitis Suppurativa (HS).
As a host who navigates HS themselves, Cara bridges the gap between medical expertise and real-world resilience.
Each episode dives into:
🔥 Mental health struggles and triumphs
🔥 Unspoken realities of flares, stigma, and self-advocacy
🔥 Expert interviews with dermatologists, therapists, and HS warriors
🔥 Practical tips for emotional wellness and community connection
This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a lifeline for the 4% living with HS.
Subscribe for stories that validate, resources that empower, and a space where isolation turns into solidarity.
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Healing Space
It’s Not Your Fault: Rewriting the Stories HS Teaches Us to Believe
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In one of the most impactful episodes of Healing Space yet, Cara speaks directly to the quiet fears and crushing self-blame so many people with HS carry alone. With honesty, clarity, and tenderness, she walks listeners through the harmful stories we absorb — that HS is caused by poor hygiene, weight, food choices, lack of discipline, or even moral failure — and systematically replaces them with truth and compassion.
Cara breaks down why these beliefs feel so convincing, how society reinforces them, and why none of them are rooted in science or reality. She names the shame, the comparison, the guilt, and the “maybe this is my fault” questions that live inside so many chronically ill people. And for each one, she offers a new narrative: You did not cause this. You are not dirty. You are not lazy. You are not being punished. You deserve care simply because you are human.
This episode is a grounding reminder that HS is a chronic autoinflammatory condition — not a consequence of choices or character — and that releasing blame is a radical act of healing.
A companion worksheet is available to help listeners unpack and rewrite the stories they’ve been carrying.
Explore more episodes, tools, and guided emotional support at hsconnect.org/healingspace.
This podcast was made possible by UCB.
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