Illinois Family Law Insider

Guardian ad Litem in Illinois: What NOT to Do During Your Custody Case - #59

Sterling Lawyers

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The Illinois court appointed a Guardian ad Litem to investigate your custody case and you're treating them like a therapist by venting about your ex, or you're coaching your child about what to say. Guardian ad Litem attorneys gather facts through interviews, home visits, and record reviews to make custody recommendations based on the child's best interests, not parental emotions or preferences. Sterling Lawyers Lead Attorney and CEO Jeff Hughes reveals the critical mistakes that destroy credibility with Guardian ad Litems and cost parents custody.


In this episode, you'll learn about:


  • GAL role differences from therapists or advocates focused on fact-gathering not emotional validation
  • Credibility destruction through lies, hidden information, or downplaying past issues
  • Child coaching detection when children parrot adult phrases or contradict themselves
  • Response requirements treating GAL requests like court orders with quick cooperation
  • High-conflict behavior flags including badmouthing, aggressive communications, and cooperation refusal


Listen in to discover how to protect your Illinois custody case through honest GAL cooperation, child-focused communication, and responsive participation instead of venting about your ex, coaching your child, or delaying requests that make you look uncooperative to the court.