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Inside a Real Coaching Session: Purpose Factor, Enneagram Triggers & Hard Truths (Part 2)
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In Part 2 of this unscripted live coaching session, Enneagram and Purpose Factor coach Darin K. Newbold takes host Dani Raschel Chou and her best friend Nicki Ketcham deeper than either of them planned to go. They unpack their Purpose Factor assessments, identify the patterns holding them back, and walk through a real-time framework for managing emotional triggers at work and at home, all in the name of personal development and personal growth.
This isn't a polished interview. It's the real thing, with all the awkward pauses, the breakthroughs, and the moments where someone has to stop and say, "Oof, that's for my journal."
In this episode, we explore:
- The four pillars of the Purpose Factor: Natural Advantage, Acquired Skills, Pull Passion, and Origin Strength
- Nicki's Builder Advantage...and the printer story that will resonate with every Type 3 listener
- Dani's Truth Teller Advantage...and the uncomfortable question Darin asks about why she isn't being heard
- A four-step framework for managing triggers in real time: recognize, pause, reframe, release
- Why "frustration" is a cop-out word, and what's actually underneath it
- Enneagram stances explained: feeling dominant vs. feeling repressed, and how they shape your relationships
- A practical communication hack for Type 4 and Type 3 types
If you've ever felt like people only take you seriously when you raise your voice, or you're the one quietly getting everything done while quietly resenting it, this conversation is for you.
About our guests:
Darin K. Newbold is the founder of Bold Solutions and creator of the Bold GPS framework, a guided purpose system combining the Enneagram with the Purpose Factor assessment to help leaders and teams find clarity and direction. He's a certified Enneagram coach and licensed Purpose Factor facilitator.
Nicki Ketcham is Dani's best friend, a Type 3 Achiever, a Builder by Purpose Factor, and the woman who keeps Dani's emotions (and projects) on track.
Special offer for listeners: Darin is offering $50 off his Bold GPS Starter Map — normally $297, available to With Hat and Cattle listeners for $247. Mention the show when you book a discovery call with him on LinkedIn.
Mentioned in this episode:
- The Purpose Factor by Brian and Gabrielle Bosché
- The Road Back to You by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile
- Part 1 of this conversation (listen first for full context on the Enneagram)
🎧 Make sure you've listened to Part 1 before jumping into this one.
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Connect with us:
- Darin K. Newbold on LinkedIn and at Your Bold Solutions
- Nicolle Ketcham on LinkedIn and at Big Future Consulting
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