Grace South Bay

Love Your Church Family - Romans 12:3-13

Rev. Bob Crossland

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3 For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned. 4 For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, 5 so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another. 6 Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, in proportion to our faith; 7 if service, in our serving; the one who teaches, in his teaching; 8 the one who exhorts, in his exhortation; the one who contributes, in generosity; the one who leads, with zeal; the one who does acts of mercy, with cheerfulness.

9 Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good. 10 Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor. 11 Do not be slothful in zeal, be fervent in spirit, serve the Lord. 12 Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer. 13 Contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality.


1.     Have you ever found it hard to embrace a church family? If so, why?

2.     Do you agree you need other Christians to help you fully experience God? Is that appealing or not?

3.     Is it easy or hard for you to let others serve you? What makes it difficult to receive help or show need?

4.     Are there people in this church not related to you who actually know what your life looks like?

5.     Would you say you’ve experienced the hospitality of Jesus? If so, how has that impacted you, or how would you like it to impact you?

6.     Hospitality is described as making space for others — which doesn't require a big house, just a willingness to share your life. What's one specific way you could extend that kind of hospitality to someone in this community in the coming weeks?