Sandy Galea on kids & grief

This is a description of MBM kids from Sandy Galea: Two babies died, two mums have breast cancer, One baby was born profoundly deaf, another with down syndrome, we have a child suffering from multiple benign tumours, another in remission from cancer and we have kids suffering from anxiety and depression.  How can we help these children better deal with this?What do you do with all this pain and suffering?