Four Titles, One Truth
Four Titles, One Truth is a raw, real, and often hilarious podcast hosted by two retired Army veterans — a Sergeant Major and a Colonel — who’ve lived, led, and learned through decades of service, fatherhood, marriage, and manhood.
Tommie and Lance explore the real conversations that matter: life after the military, raising families, confronting loss, staying grounded, and navigating the world as Black men in America.
This isn’t just a military podcast. It’s a lot more. Join the conversations between two friends, two men who’ve seen it a lot, learned even more— and have something to say.
Veterans. Husbands. Fathers. Black Men.
Four Titles, One Truth
Marriage in the Military: Balancing Love and Duty
Welcome to Four Titles, One Truth. Hosted by retired Army Sergeant Major Tommie Jones and retired Army Colonel Lance Taylor.
In this episode, we’re talking about one of the hardest assignments we ever took on — marriage in the military.
We dive into:
•How military life shaped our approach to marriage — for better and worse
•The challenges of staying connected through long deployments and time apart
•How we handled big life decisions like raising kids and moving every few years
•And the lessons we learned about maintaining love, trust, and partnership under pressure
Balancing love and duty isn’t easy. But when you figure it out, it becomes one of the most rewarding missions you’ll ever complete.
