Our Life Is A Honeymoon
What if you could intentionally create the romantic relationship of your dreams? Great news- you can. On Our Life Is a Honeymoon with Tim Obert and Amy Considine, this fun and loving couple shares the real-life practices that keep their connection not just alive, but thriving. They give their love a 10/10 and want the same for you. Whether you’re calling in your dream partner or deepening an existing relationship, this podcast offers conscious, practical ways to nurture love and watch it grow stronger every day.
Our Life Is A Honeymoon
Healing Together as a Couple | Therapy, Vulnerability & Finding Support in Relationships
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Can healing happen not only within ourselves, but also through our relationships?
In Episode 24 of Our Life Is a Honeymoon, Tim and Amy share the individual healing journeys that brought them together and the practices they use to support one another today. From therapy and meditation to weekly check-ins and honest conversations, they discuss how vulnerability, accountability, and emotional safety have strengthened their relationship.
Tim opens up about the unexpected breakthrough he experienced after simply asking for help at a grocery store, while Amy shares how divorce, Al-Anon, and years of inner work prepared her for a healthier partnership. Together, they explore what it means to heal alongside another person while still honoring your own individual journey.
In this episode:
💛 The healing journeys that shaped Tim and Amy before they met
🧠 How therapy, meditation, and self-reflection support their relationship
🗣️ The importance of creating a safe space for difficult conversations
🌹 The FANS method: Feelings, Appreciations, Needs, and Struggles
🛒 Tim's emotional breakthrough after asking for help in a grocery store
👨👩👧👦 How practices like "Roses and Thorns" can deepen connection with family and friends
🎲 A round of The Couples Game featuring bookstores, documentaries, and burrito ingredients
We'd love to hear from you: What practices help you feel supported and connected in your relationships?
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Hello, everybody. Welcome back to episode number 24. Today we will be discussing ways that we come together as a couple to support each other on our healing journeys. And all the fun that comes along with it.
SPEAKER_01All right. Let's do this.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. Universe brought us together.
SPEAKER_00That we know.
SPEAKER_01And together, we want to share that story with you.
SPEAKER_00As well as all of the practices we do to keep our relationship drive.
SPEAKER_01Because to us, it feels like our life is a honeymoon.
SPEAKER_00We want that to be enjoyed for all of you. I'm Tim.
SPEAKER_01I'm Amy. And this is our podcast. This podcast is brought to you in part by Considine Homes, proudly serving your real estate needs in South Florida with honesty and integrity and offering trusted referral partnerships in all 50 states and beyond. Hey everybody, welcome to episode number 24. And again, today we are talking about ways that we come together as a couple to really help support each other's healing journeys. I just want to add if you are not in a romantic relationship, this does not leave you out. You can do this with a friend, you can do this with a mentor, an accountability partner, anybody that you feel comfortable with, you can do these practices with them as well. So this doesn't have to be a romantic situation.
SPEAKER_00And the topic of healing and our healing journeys individually as and together, to give you a little backstory of the journey that I started before I met Amy, and she'll share hers after.
SPEAKER_01A hundred percent.
SPEAKER_00And so I'll kind of share a little bit about that. My brother passed away in 2014, and that was a huge wake-up call for me as far as a direction in life and of taking life seriously. Um I was living alone for the first time in Seattle. Uh I'd never lived alone in my entire life up until that moment. Um the girl I was seeing moved away, and my brother passed away, I think, in the same month. And it was just a really powerful month where just it was literally the universe saying wake up. And I moved in with a vegan couple, Ben and Amelia, around that same time. And they were vegan and they were very nice. And I think we started talking about being present, and I found meditation around that same time. Uh, I was definitely depressed from a lot of binge drinking at the time. I was in my 20s and coming to the end of my 20s, and where that kind of behavior wasn't as common. You know, people drink till they're 90, but I feel like they I mean, I feel like some people can just drink and drink and drink, and they live till, you know, it's not common. You know, anyway. And so I was letting go of alcohols and escape. I was becoming president for the first time around age 30, and I wasn't an alcoholic, but I knew I had uh, you know, just abused it because I was I was hurting, and I it was all from early childhood stuff that I eventually started working on around um, you know, uh uh later in life after this, but that was kind of like my initial healing journey of of uh the individual.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, yeah, get it. So yeah, get it. Okay.
SPEAKER_00How about you?
SPEAKER_01Well, for me, um I mean the healing journey is lifelong, but I guess I'll start with um I got divorced. I was in a relationship that felt toxic, it did not feel healthy or supportive. And um I tried dating after that, and it did not go well at all. Um I realized that I had a tendency to attract addicts and alcoholics. And um that was not what I wanted for my life. So I decided to stop dating for gosh, I mean, I feel like a couple years. I don't even, I can't remember time, you know, lengths of time back then, but I just decided to focus on my kids, which was awesome. I love those memories. We had a lot of road trips, a lot of great time with my kids. And I also decided to go to Al-Anon at that time. And what is Al-Anon? Al-Anon. Thank you for asking that question. Al-Anon is a group that supports um people that are in relationship with some sort of addict, an alcoholic, or drug addict. Um, and it really helps them to look at their part in everything and how to release codependency and how to um just really participate in self-care instead of always giving to the addict. And I just really felt like I needed to be in those rooms to see where my part was in all of this. And um I highly recommend it. It's like free therapy, it's really good. And um so I think going through all of that, and I also spent a lot of time in meditation and taking you know new age classes, just spiritual classes, and I just had to really get healthy by myself before I could enter into a relationship. And that's what happened, and that's when we met.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, yes. I uh I really feel that the things that we've shared before we met, with pausing and really focusing on like what's going on inside of us, uh, really set a good foundation for once we met that those journeys continued. And now that we're together as a couple, uh, we've intentionally, as we talked about through these episodes, we really focus on creating a safe space with each other. And that's something that happens weekly, whether it's uh we talked about our meditations, where after our meditation we'll sit for an hour and a half on the weekend, meditate, and then it's almost like a uh we each take a turn sharing about what we experienced in our meditation, and it's it's like a open, just an open-ended discussion where I'll share about X, Y, and Z, and Amy will you know, ask, like, hey, like, can I say something? Or like, hey, let me finish what I want to say, and then and then she'll share. But it's really it's a really beautiful, safe space that when I was meditating by myself, that I didn't have that, you know, it's like, oh, my meditation's done. I'm just gonna go on with the day. But now that we have this this partnership, that is like a uh another layer deepen a deepening layer to it is, it's really supportive. Yeah. And um it's something that that just kind of evolved over time that we didn't really before I think we would meditate and then we would just get up. Like, I really don't we also celebrate each other's growth. That's something that like I'll share my meditation and then she'll be like, Oh, I'm so proud of you, or I'll say the same thing. Like, I see you you're make you're this like an older version of you would have done things this way, but now you're showing up this way. Uh, you know, it will ask questions of each other rather than giving advice. We give each other permission to feel emotions. Um, you know, like Amy will say, like, oh, I this is so stupid that I think this, and I'll be like, wait, you know, it's not stupid that you think this. This is this is like where we are right now, this is where you are. And we both are very strong proponents of therapy. And so we know that some of the stuff that we're going through requires professional help. Yeah. And we're not, you know, there's no shame in that game. Yeah. Um and something that I think that maybe it's like a societal thing where someone will share something that they're going through, and it's automatic, like, how can this other person fix it? And sometimes it's just good to just sit there and listen to someone share and sit with them in their in their pain or their um, you know, whatever they're going through, and just be there and just show up and say, hey, I'm here. Let's just sit in this.
SPEAKER_01I struggle with that. I'm a natural fixer. So that's something that I'm learning to just zip it.
SPEAKER_00No, but yeah. And so that's that's something that we're on this journey together and we get to uh learn together. So yeah, but that's that's my piece on kind of how we are as a couple.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, yeah. Well, one thing you touched on like that we're big big proponents of of therapy, and so that's another way we support each other. Um, Tim, Tim has his own therapist. We have a couple therapists, which we haven't seen in quite a while. We're feeling really good and strong as a couple. Um, I do not see a traditional therapist, I see a hypnotherapist, and he is amazing. Um, so that's what I do for my therapy. And then we actually just started seeing a family therapist for overall family health. Um, so one thing that we do, we always know when each other's going to have therapy. And um, it's never required that we share, but we know that we we love to listen about each other's growth. So we might ask if we have something to share about that session or just offer it up. And um it just feels really nice to to know if one of us has had a breakthrough, an aha moment. Um, you know, often there's tears and emotions that come up, and and it just feels really good to know that um, you know, we're not going through this journey alone and that we have somebody that cares about us a lot and is there to listen and um offer support.
SPEAKER_00Mm-hmm. Yeah, and as Amy was talking about, I'll go to therapy and as soon as I get out of the session, I'll call Amy or later in the day we'll talk about it. But we'll all share like, hey, you know, this thing happened in therapy. Um, let's say I'm just I'm going through a tough time within a personal or relationship. And once I share, like, I you know, I I vomit all the stuff out that I'm like, oh this is all the stuff happened. And she's like, wait, like, you know, this, this, uh I'm just gonna try to say think how to say it. When she reflects back to me, I'll hear it in a different way. And she'll be like, hey, this is what's happening, this is the way I see it. And um, she'll notice something that I'm not saying, like, hey, like an old version of you would have would have responded this way, and I see you're showing up this way. And she'll be like, hey, I noticed this pattern that like this keeps happening. Like you'll you're expecting someone to do this, and this happens. And um, I've heard people say, like, you're going to uh the an empty well, you know, looking for water or something. Yeah, like just just kind of calling something out that I might be blind to. Um, and something that I just thought of that I thought was kind of like an example of the ways that we share healing. Um when I went to the grocery store the other day, oh yeah, I just a quick backstory of my own, kind of my own, one of my own issues is something that I I I struggle with. And it's related to self-esteem, to confidence, to shame. I don't, it's just tied to like a deep core part of me where if I go to a grocery store and I can't find the item I'm looking for, I would rather wander around the store than ask somebody for help. And it's something that I've I've struggled with since I can the earliest I can remember. And I I worked at a grocery store and I remember avoiding people because I knew they want to ask me and just like interacting with strangers.
SPEAKER_01Oh, you never told me that.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. And I as a former employee of a grocery store, I remember like I'm I'm trying to get to the break room. And to get to the break room from the front of the store to the back of the store, you have to walk through the store. And if like I saw a person, I was like, nope, not that aisle, not that aisle. Oh wow. Yeah. And so, and I didn't realize there was anxiety behind that. I just thought I didn't like people or something. As a kid, you just don't know.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_00So here we are many years later. I'm in a grocery store as a customer, and I'm still struggling with interacting with the workers. And so I wander, I wander, I wander. I'm like, all right, I'm the item I was looking for was a uh some sort of ice cream topping. I we went to Disney and I had a uh peanut butter chocolate like topping, and I was like, I need this for home. And so, you know, we go, I go to Publix, which is a local uh grocery store, and I'm like, I'm going to ask for help. Like I've decided I'm going to do it. And I know it's to me, to some people, like this isn't a big deal. And to me, this is a thing that like I struggle with. And so I walk up to the self-checkout and I'm like, all right, I'm going to ask for help. Here we go. And it's this probably like teenage girl that's just there, that's like doesn't, you know, just maybe in La La Land. I'm like, hey, I need some help. And and she was really nice and just said, hey, check over there, it should be over there. And so I'm like, all right, I'm doing it. I'm asking for help. This is great. And I go to the aisle, I find an item. Well, actually, she said we don't have what you're looking for, but if we did have it, it would be over there. And so I was like, oh man, but I'm still gonna check. And I ended up finding an item better than I thought I wanted. It was this Reese's chocolate, and it was vegan, which is even more rare. And so I grab it, I'm all excited, I walk back to the self-checkout, and um I'm like, all happy and excited that I, you know, I did it. And um this song comes on that reminds me of my mom. It's uh a song by Annie Lennox called No More I Love You're. It's uh a song that came out in 1995. My mom passed away in 1995, and so it's a song that like I not intentionally stay away from, but like I don't seek it out. And so as I'm checking out the self-checkout, it starts playing, and I was like, oh my god, you know, this like you know, just like you know when things are happening, like I'm like, all right, I broke through like a you know, this major thing, this like um, you know, self-limiting belief, whatever you want to call it. And I just remember I'm like, I'm only gonna start crying because it was just so emotional. And so I get to the car, and I as soon as I get, you know, I turn the car and I call Amy and uh I just start crying, and I just start sharing with her just everything I just told you guys. Yeah, but um, it was something that that was if I would have experienced this on my own and not I don't know, I felt sharing it with Amy. She knows me, she knows the story. It was a really emotional moment for me that I got to share with her, and it's um to me, it's kind of like what we're talking about here of healing together as a couple. Like she knows, like we talk about these things, she knows my issues. And um again, if I was alone, you know, maybe I wouldn't have the breakthrough. Like just being able to talk about these things with people, it really helps helps me feel more comfortable and and uh and yeah, so I ended up buying the vinyl record of the of the the the artist. Haven't listened to it yet, but it's the record is sitting you know right behind me on top of the record player, and so it's been a journey. And so that's just an example of of you know sharing and healing together as a couple.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, and as you bring that up, it makes me think also because we have each other to talk about, and and your therapist also, but because you have somebody else to talk about these things with, you know, if you weren't talking to people, it might not ever become conscious that you have this issue where you're pushing away from people. And so by bringing it, I mean, because I've known this about you for many years, but because you shine a light on it, it is showing you an area where you can have growth rather than just having it kind of playing in the background and you're, you know, you just leave the store. Like, I mean, I think you knew what you were doing when you asked her. It's not just I'm asking for this, like I'm having a breakthrough right now. And I think when you're yeah, when you're sharing that with somebody else, it helps ourselves to really be conscious of how powerful things are. So, yeah, thank you for sharing that. Um, one more way I wanted to bring up um in ways that we support each other. We talk about this a lot. And again, in episode number three, um, we talk about our fans meetings, which is um talking about our feelings, ways we appreciate each other, and then we discuss our needs and our struggles. And um it's just such a sacred part of our week every week to do so, um, because it just really shows us, especially, well, in feelings, you know, if I it's helpful for me if I hear that you're feeling anxious about something. It just helps us to know where to support. And if we're telling each other our needs, like if I'm just feeling like my week ahead is really stressful, it just gives you a way to maybe say, hey, let me step up and I'll I'll cook on this night, or you know, and then our struggles that we're going through. It just really helps us to understand um just ways to show up for each other and ways that that we can offer support. And I I just think it's absolutely beautiful.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, it's it's wonderful. And I was gonna say, um there was something um fans, oh, instead this gives us a lot of clarity, like the the fans, just to add that that like we're not assuming like, oh, Amy's feeling good about things, and when really she's struggling because life is so busy, we don't have the time to like to like align. And I really feel like um these talks, it really helps us just get comfortable with just it's like a routine of checking in, and rather than waiting till something explodes, yeah, and uh there's a crisis and it's like it's challenging, like, oh I I I thought this, and well, no, I've been thinking this, and it it's like, well, this whole time you weren't doing this, we never have that because it's like we're just we're always on point with not ever.
SPEAKER_01And I'll hear my friends in relationships and they just are not bringing things up because there's not a safe space or time. So I think it's crucial to have a set time. We can bring things up anytime we need to, but maybe if you're a little bit shyer about discussing your needs, at least you know, okay, once a week it's a safe space, and that's where we're gonna get to really, you know, get get past being uncomfortable and talk about the things that that we need from our things that we need from the world, from ourselves and our partners. Yeah, no, or our friends.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I was thinking about the way that this could relate to somebody that's not in a you know a romantic partnership with with these feelings. The fans method is feelings, affirm or appreciations, appreciations, needs, and struggles. And let's say you do this with a non-romantic partner, just because a lot of times, I I think I've said this before, it's like, what am I feeling? Like I haven't sat down and thought about what am I feeling and friend, sponsor uh therapists, anybody to to routinely check in with yourself, how am I feeling right now? And if if you want to change the affirm or appreciations to something, you can even change it to yourself. Like, what do I appreciate about myself? Yeah, just to to make because like if it's a therapist, I mean you could even do what do I appreciate about this other person.
SPEAKER_01I'm thinking you could do it with your kids.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_01That that would be what have we been doing? Why are we not doing it with the children? Um, you can check out our social media. I'm going to um put a picture of the feelings wheel that we use on our social media. So um it's really helpful to actually have a resource, not just think of what am I feeling? But if you can read all of these feelings, it helps you to really pinpoint that feelings wheel is is a powerful tool. So I'll put that up on our social media.
SPEAKER_00And I just thought of another one that we've discussed. Oh boy. But I mean, we have time. We're still Yeah, no.
SPEAKER_01I'm this is exciting. Yeah.
SPEAKER_00I thought of um, we'll just continue with that fans thing. So with needs, like sometimes I don't even know what my own needs are. That's something I've struggled with. True. As far as like what like as a recovering people pleaser, what are your needs? Like, don't think like don't put the spotlight on me. Like, I I it's easier for me to take care of you, you, you, and you, and then I just fall apart. And then it's like, wait, what do I need? And so, so it to me, it's like a a weekly practice of turning the spotlight on me and saying, like, what do I need? And that can be what do I need from you, or that could be what do I need from myself? What do I, you know, what do I need in general? And the same thing with the struggle to sit down and intentionally think, like, what am I struggling with right now? You know, you might not if these things aren't um again, we wouldn't have the space to share it. It's like the you know what we know this space is going to be here. And then the next thing I was going to say is the roses and thorns. That's something we do with the children.
SPEAKER_01Oh, yeah, that is. Yes.
SPEAKER_00And that's um a way to connect and I feel like it is healing because it's um it's like a game almost. Uh to me, it really feels like something you could that a therapist came up with because it's I'm sure because it's so powerful. And so simple. If you want to explain sure, sure, sure.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, I'll explain roses and thorns. So Tim actually taught me roses and thorns.
SPEAKER_00From Lisa, from Pete and Lisa from uh Washington.
SPEAKER_01So the first time that we ever played this, we were on our first date, which was in North Carolina. And y'all have to go back and listen to other episodes if you want to learn how a girl from Florida and a guy from Seattle had their first date in North Carolina. Um, we had met online and we had gotten close before meeting in person for a few months. So we meet in North Carolina and we have this beautiful five-day date. And uh on day number four, Tim was leaving. There was a hurricane involved, so I was staying in North Carolina for a while, but Tim had to fly back to Seattle on day number five. So day number four, we go out to lunch, and Tim is um telling me about this game where you say one great thing that's happening in your life, that's a rose, and then the thorn is maybe something you're struggling with or a negative, yeah, just some kind of thing that that's causing maybe a little pain. And so I'm not sure who went first. But anyways, what I do recall is that you know, my rose was how fantastic it was. The chemistry that we had in person just was even better than the 10 out of 10 chemistry that we had from afar. So that was fabulous. But then of course I start crying at lunch because the thorn is I was so excited to get to this point. And now what do we do? Now we are 3,000 miles apart again. And um, anyways, Tim's response was he was moving to Florida, and then we can talk about that at a different time, but um, it worked out well. Um, but anyways, it it's a great game. So, like Tim said, we do that sometimes um at dinner time or if we're having a snack together as a family, and we'll just talk about our days, like what was or or what was the best part of your day and the worst part of your day, or you know, roses and thorns. So it's um, you know, these these quick little games are just it's just such a good way to to know each other because how easy is it for your kids to come home from school? You know, you maybe talk for a few minutes, but if they really have to like let you know, like, what is the hardest thing that you went through today? That might not be something that the kids are gonna bring up naturally, and uh you can really see how to support them, and you might be surprised by what their favorite part was. So yeah, I love it. I love it very much.
SPEAKER_00Yes. Um, so yeah, we we really are intentional, as you can tell, with the ways that we support each other and don't just we we really try to stay out of autopilot, like that's the the name of the game here is is how do we stay present with each other, with ourselves, with our friends and family, and um, all of these things that we're talking about really help with that. And to zoom out, why this matters is these things that we do together offer an additional level, an additional level of support so we can deepen our healing process, as we've talked about. And uh, as you can tell, the healing happens within us, but also within the relationships that we have with friends, family, therapists. Um doing things alone. I mean, it's it's good to be independent in some ways, but but relying on each other through these practices is for me. I used to think like, oh, being the lone wolf is cool. It's like you're you're the guy that like you know is like mysterious, but really that like I did not know it's like lone wolf. I thought that was when I was in my early 20s. I remember thinking that like and uh just you know that's how much I don't think about it anymore is because I don't talk about it. Yeah, it's just like it's just like that is a like when people in the old days, it's like to be banished from the community is like death in like to be as isolated, to be solo, and like even um what's the word I'm thinking of? Um in in like prison, like so uh solitary confinement.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. It's the punishment.
SPEAKER_00The worst punishment you can have is to be by yourself. And so doing things together to me is like is is the only way to be.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I I agree with that. So um I'm curious if anything that we've talked about has resonated with you. Um and if not, I think we'd like to challenge you to find somebody to do these practices with. Uh again, like I said in the beginning, it can be with a romantic partner, but if you're not in a relationship, it could be with a friend, with a sibling, even with a parent, well, with a child, if you know there's you don't want to lay too much on your little ones, but um, you know, maybe a um a mentor, a sponsor, your therapist, an accountability partner, your neighbor. I mean, just anybody, anybody that you want to create a safe space with. Um, because not only are you supporting another person, but you're also getting very supported and it's a beautiful thing.
SPEAKER_00Uh-huh.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. Yeah, definitely. All right. So I think that's okay. I think that that is it for today. Um, we like to wrap up with a quick little game. And so we are, we did this last time, but we again are going to play the couples game. You can buy this on Amazon.com. And it's called the Couples Game That Is Actually Fun. And you just draw some cards and answer questions. So, oh, oh, we have a meowing cat behind us. Oh, Ezra. Hi, buddy. Okay, so Tim, you know what? Why don't you read the first one this time? We'll do three.
SPEAKER_00All right.
SPEAKER_01Okay.
SPEAKER_00We'll take it away here.
SPEAKER_01Take it away.
SPEAKER_00What is the most boring thing we like to do to do together?
SPEAKER_01Normal life. The most boring thing we like to do together. Okay. Uh we like to do together.
SPEAKER_00Nothing we do is boring.
SPEAKER_01I mean, if we ask Star, everything we do is boring. Um have an answer. Okay, ready? One, two, three. Go to the bookshop. The only TV we watch are documentaries, usually on aliens. Or secret societies. That's not boring. It is not boring. It's so fun, but like a lot of people like these Netflix series, and we're just like, no, we don't watch series. We we only like history too.
SPEAKER_00Well, we did watch uh the worst X ever.
SPEAKER_01That is a whole nother light. Oh boy, that is a scary, scary program. Yeah, we did watch it.
SPEAKER_00We don't do boring things.
SPEAKER_01Oh my gosh, Ezra. Oh, can you get him? I think he doesn't want to be picked up. Oh okay. Okay, here's another one. Who is funnier? Me or you? Let's just say the name. One, two, three. Tim. Really? You're funny.
SPEAKER_00You're funnier.
SPEAKER_01Oh, you're a very funny person. Well, that is part of a healthy relationship. Two funny people. Ezra.
SPEAKER_00All right. Okay. I'll do the last one.
SPEAKER_01Okay.
SPEAKER_00Which ingredient would we each be in a burrito?
SPEAKER_01What? A dumb question. Which ingredient?
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_01Oh my gosh.
SPEAKER_00Alright, I got it.
SPEAKER_01Okay. Well, so then I would just. Oh. Would we each be? Okay, Tim. Are we saying what we would be?
SPEAKER_00I think what you would be, and then you say what I would be.
SPEAKER_01Oh my gosh, Ezra.
SPEAKER_00You don't can't think too much about it.
SPEAKER_01Oh my gosh. Well, I knew what I thought I would be. Okay, so how about did you know what you thought you would be?
SPEAKER_00No. I'm just thinking you only.
SPEAKER_01Well, think about yourself too. So then we'll say what we think each other would be, but then what then we'll say if we were correct.
SPEAKER_00Okay, so then who goes first? About which person? I'll go first. Well, you said what we thought I'm gonna be.
SPEAKER_01Okay. Read the question one more time. Oh no, I I'll just say it.
SPEAKER_00Which ingredient would we each be in a burrito? Oh my gosh, Ezra.
SPEAKER_01Okay. Um we're doing it. This is about Tim?
SPEAKER_00Guacamole.
SPEAKER_01Black beans.
SPEAKER_00Why black beans?
SPEAKER_01I don't know. It's like a safe tasty staple. It's healthy and fibrous.
SPEAKER_00That's what I thought about guacamole. Because I'm it's tasty and healthy and guacamole is kind of fun.
SPEAKER_01Oh, oh, okay. Okay, okay. Well, okay. Now, which ingredient would I be in a burrito?
SPEAKER_00Three, two, one jalapeno.
SPEAKER_01Pico de gallo. Jalapenos, okay. Why would I be a jalapeno?
SPEAKER_00You just said why. You're spicy and cloud.
SPEAKER_01Shut up. I don't eat jalapenos though, but yeah, I thought pico de gallo because it's like fun and flavorful. Oh my gosh, Ezra. What uh we have a cat that will not stop meowing, but also will not get picked up.
SPEAKER_00We've had 24 episodes, and this is the first time this has happened. I think that's pretty good.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, yeah, yeah. He's looking for his moment, moment, uh, his uh minute of fame, whatever that's called. I'm losing it now. Anywho, thank you guys so much for uh spending time with us today.
SPEAKER_00Our segment we call our happily ever after for today. I think that's what it's called.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. We gotta wrap up here, Tim. It's time. All right.
SPEAKER_00So thank you guys for uh sitting through this 20 uh episode number 24, healing together as a couple.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
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