The Still Point

The Real Point — How authenticity becomes the ground where self-love and truth grow

Saij. Episode 3

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We often trade our truth for what appears beautiful the green grass on the other side. But real love—real self-respect—can only grow from the soil of what’s honest. This episode explores authenticity through Stoic and Sufi lenses, reminding us that clarity is not cruel—it’s freeing. Featuring the original poem From Reality.

hello deep thinkers you're in the right place 
somewhere along the way we started trading our truths for what looked good from a distance you know the grass has always greener on the other side they say we edited ourselves curated versions of who we thought we needed to be to belong to succeed and to be loved and that love can even mean romantic love or friendship 
but real love doesn't live in that edited version 
real belonging it doesn't rise from the filters it comes from the raw 
from the ground of reality 
from what's actually there 
you know the Sufis say 
that truth is a mirror fallen from the sky broken into 
countless pieces each of us holding a shard and each of us call to reflect a part of the whole 
and that wholeness that understanding that you are part of a shared reality 
is humbling it allows you to be present in a more authentic way 
and when we take the totality of our existence I think about what the Stokes remind us of to live in accordance with nature to live accordance with what is not with what we wish were true 
the urge is towards clarity towards simplicity towards truth no matter how inconvenient 
and can be scary liberating fun interesting and educational 
and truth is not comfortable it doesn't always flatter the ego it doesn't cater to the brand but it makes space for that self-respect that alignment and that peace 
we spend so much money and energy trying to hold an image but what if the most thing is what you are when you let go of that need to be seen 
there's a quiet kind of power in saying this is who I am 
no costume no cleverness just clarity not polished but real and in the soil in that dirt 
love can actually grow as a reminder not that performative love not transactional but something rooted inside 
of something home 
this poem is a return to that soil 
the place where we love and 
self-meat 
not in the image but in the real
from reality 
if you hope to close what you love grab truths colors 
let authenticity prove in the space of the real self love finds ground 
genuine bonds to authenticity or fueled don't fear the facade 
fading in light's reveal 
outward love thrives in the soil of what we call 
real
through it all 
authenticity is its own reward 
so allow your authentic self a chance to speak but also allow yourself a chance to listen you don't have to perform your way into love you only have to stand in your truth 
this has been the still point until next time stay honest stay grounded 
and root yourself. And what is real

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