The Still Point

The Self Point — On reintroducing yourself, healing what you once hid, and claiming worth

Saij. Episode 4

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We lose and find ourselves in often repeating cycles. This reflection invites you to pause, listen inward, and meet the self you’ve outgrown or forgotten. With pieces of Sufi surrender and Stoic self-awareness, this is a soft homecoming. Featuring the original poem For Myself.

Hello deep thinkers. You're in the right place. 


There are days that you don't recognize the person in the mirror, not because of age or because of time, but because the self you are now 
was built to survive, not to be known, 
and
somewhere along the way 
you 
tug parts of yourself away. You compartmentalized, 
softness, rage, wonder, desire. You edited the edges just to fit someone else's frame, someone else's mold, and now you start feeling the distance 
between who you've been and who you are now. 
But selfhood 
isn't static. It's not a single truth to find. You evolve. It's not a momentum that you keep on a shelf. It's a relationship, an ongoing conversation with yourself, with your own becoming, and sometimes you reintroduce yourself 
to the parts of you abandoned. Not because they were wrong. You abandoned them because you weren't necessarily ready to hold them yet. 
The Sufis say that the journey is inward. 
To know the self is to know the beloved 
and to offer a stoic perspective. They ask us to examine our minds daily. Not to punish, not to 
reexamine, but to realign. Because self-awareness isn't a self-obsession. 
It's clarity. 
It's a kind of coming home, 
and sometimes that home has been quiet for years. 
But when you nod gently with patience you find something. Still alive there waiting to be remembered. 
This poem is for that return, for the slow reclaiming of the self 
you've never lost. But only that version of you that you paused 
for myself. 
How many times do I reintroduce myself to myself? 
Is where I locked too much of myself blindfolded in the dark. 
Spending the value of myself squandered you to allow me to reintroduce myself. 
You don't need permission to remember who you are. 
This has been the still point. Until next time, stay patient, stay curious, and come home to you

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