Care Visions Talks

Care Visions Family Talk – Carly Kingswood: Understanding & Responding to Childhood Aggression

Care Visions Season 1 Episode 13

Why do distressed young people sometimes become aggressive or violent? In this powerful conversation, Lucy Johnston talks with Carly Kingswood – Attachment and Trauma Therapist, DDP Practitioner, former foster carer, and co-author of The Unofficial Guide to Therapeutic Parenting for Childhood Aggression and Violence – about the underlying reasons for violent behaviour and how caregivers can respond with empathy and skill.

Together, they explore the complex biological, psychological, and environmental factors that can lead to aggression in children, from trauma and disrupted attachment to challenges with emotional regulation. Carly shares practical, therapeutic strategies for de-escalating difficult situations, rebuilding trust after conflict, and creating safer, more connected relationships with young people in distress.

This episode offers compassionate, evidence-based guidance for foster carers, parents, and anyone raising or supporting young people, helping listeners move beyond fear and frustration to truly understand the needs driving challenging behaviours.

About our Guest:
Carly Kingswood is an Attachment & Trauma Therapist, Consultant, Trainer, Author, and DDP Practitioner with over a decade of experience supporting adopted and fostered children, kinship placements, and their families. A former foster carer herself, she now works with families and organisations to embed trauma-informed, therapeutic care.

About our Host:
Lucy Johnston is an award-winning journalist, broadcaster, and the host of the Care Visions Family Talk podcast. With a career dedicated to amplifying stories around social care, health, and children’s welfare, Lucy brings insight, empathy, and investigative rigour to every conversation.