Unmasking Social

37: Boundaries That Build Connection with Jillian Bober

Sharon Baum, MA, CCC-SLP Episode 37

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Boundaries don’t start with rules- they start with the language we use.

In this episode of Unmasking Social, we’re joined by parent coach Jillian Bober, a SEIT, Kindergarten teacher and parent coach at Coachable Change. She brings a grounded and compassionate lens to setting boundaries, creating structure, and supporting children in a way that actually feels safe and sustainable.

Jillian shares how clear limits, paired with specific and consistent language between parents and children, become a powerful gateway to setting and maintaining those boundaries. We explore how this approach reduces overwhelm while building trust, especially for children who struggle with regulation, flexibility, and attention. Jilian also reflects on how her own experience with ADHD shapes the way she shows up for families, offering both empathy and practical strategies. 

This conversation highlights the balance between holding boundaries and maintaining connection, and what it really looks like to create a home environment where kids can feel secure, understood, and capable.

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