Touch My Bestie and It’s On: Why We Defend Our Friends Harder Than Ourselves

Touch My Bestie and It’s On: Why We Defend Our Friends Harder Than Ourselves 

You can insult us. We’ll probably roll our eyes and move on. 

But disrespect our bestie? 

Now we’re drafting paragraphs, standing taller, and deciding who needs to be escorted out of the group chat. 

In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie unpack the protective instinct that kicks in when someone hurts our people. Why is it easier to defend our friends than defend ourselves? Why do we forgive faster for our own pain… but hold lifelong grudges when someone crosses our bestie? 

This chapter dives into: 

Why women go full mama bear for their friends
 How loyalty can turn into fierce (and sometimes petty) protection
 The difference between healthy boundaries and permanent blacklists
 Why our “bullsh*t tolerance” drops as we age
 How childhood patterns of self-abandonment can turn into over-protection of others
 When sticking up for your friend helps — and when it complicates things 

Jennifer and Jackie share real stories from their friend group — girls’ trips gone sideways, shady behavior, teenage locker-room standoffs, Moscow Mule meltdowns, and the unspoken rule: if you hurt one of us, you hurt both of us. 

They also admit the hard truth:
 Sometimes we hold onto anger longer than the friend who was actually hurt. 

Because protecting your bestie feels powerful.
 Protecting yourself? That’s harder. 

This episode is about loyalty, love, projection, fierce devotion — and the beautiful, chaotic energy of women who refuse to let their people stand alone. 

🎙 Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie
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Listen in, laugh with us, and maybe text your ride-or-die just to say: “I’ve got you.” 

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Transcript

Jackie 0:00

Hey there, I'm Jennifer. And I'm Jackie.

Jennifer 0:02

And welcome to Slightly Unsupervised. We're best friends, business partners, and the chaos behind bestimony, a ceremony we created to celebrate the kind of soulmates who don't come with a marriage license.

Jackie 0:10

This podcast is all about that friendship energy, the deep stuff, the messy stuff, and the laugh to you snort stuff.

Jennifer 0:15

So whether you're driving, folding laundry, hiding in your car for some peace and quiet, you're in good company.

Jackie 0:20

Let's get slightly unsupervised. Today our episode is Touch My Bestie and It's On. You can insult us and we'll probably brush it off, but just disrespect our bestie, suddenly we're ready to fight, cry, and draft a whole text novel. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, me and Jennifer will dig into why women go full mama bear when their friends get hurt and why it's easier to defend our people than ourselves. It's loyalty, love, and a little bit of emotional projection, all wrapped in lipstick and chaos. Right? We are uh, and this is so true.

Jennifer 0:52

You and I in particular, in a friend group um that we, you know, we talk about it. We've been we are in a friend group of five friends that probably the most fierce is the two of us. Probably when we were younger, the most fierce was you. I'm getting a little more fierce now. So um I I will throw down too. Like I I just don't have patience or you know, I it it's true though, because I I would probably take abuse way more than I would allow you to take abuse in presence at least, right? So I don't know what what the the difference there is. I think we should you know be susceptible to both. You know, I know you and I, uh you and I in particular, our strong point on this one would be that we would be doing that for sure. Like I know one of us, we got all these friends group, they don't like just talking about their names, so we we won't talk about names, but one of them was having a problem with somebody. And um it was just a shit show. And she I'm I remember telling her she was telling us about it or whatever, and man, I wanted to go pounce on the girl. And you know, I throw a lot of F bombs when I get mad. So I think Jack's the same way, you know, it's all of a sudden is that we take a stance on something that is pretty we get pretty riled up about it and we take a pretty good stance on it, and then there's no backing down. We're not you and I are not gonna be ones that will make nice anymore about it, right? So No.

Jackie 2:20

And sometimes it's a default to me because sometimes our friends will like even though they've stopped that friendship, they still kind of talk to them, but don't. But then like I'm one of those ones that okay, I'm done. Yeah. And all of a sudden, so I'm still like you're all of a sudden hanging out friends again a little bit, but it's like I already said my piece. Like, I'm I can't come in. I'm not gonna apologize for what sticking up for you. You know what I mean? Um, so yeah, that's that's my my fault, my default, I guess.

Jennifer 2:51

Well, I think it's I think it's a it's the friendship thing. We just it's like you can't undo what you've done. What we think you've done is irreparable and unnecessary, and we're not going to forgive you because we're in a stance of protecting somebody we love. And if it was us that was on the other receiving end of that and it was happening to us, we'd probably be more willing to work things out or have things done. But, you know, that's probably where they're at. They have the friendship with somebody and they're willing to, you know, work on stuff or do whatever. And you and I are over here going, Oh no, hell no, let's beat her ass. Like it's gonna happen again, it's gonna happen again. Yeah, like that isn't a girl we're gonna hang out with, we're not doing nothing with her, and she's and you know, our friend is probably, you know, had a friendship with them, and so there's more invested in that. But you and I, um you've you've always been that way for sure. I can't think of a time where you were not willing to throw down for your friends. Um, you're still that way. Like I said, I've gotten way more protective as I've gotten older about it as well. But you know, I think too, as we old as we get older, the bullshit factor becomes a a thing. Like it's only so much bullshit we're gonna put up with. And we're younger, we're you know, more bullshit. You put up with more because you're younger and you're still navigating. You haven't figured out where that level of bullshit is okay and where it's not. And as you get older, you sort of define it. You're like, no, that's too much, and I'm not dealing with that. So I think uh that's why it it's gotten worse for me is that I no longer will tolerate things of seeing too much or have been around too many things now to realize that these are good people or bad people, I guess. That's kind of what I do, and I I'm sure you do that too, Jack, where you kind of decide if somebody's worth it or not worth it to be getting into a I because you in this particular instance, you were friends with that person too, right? I was never friends with that person. Y'all never did like her. So, you know, you had to lose that friendship too, right? To some extent.

Jackie 4:48

Right. But obviously the the one was more important and I didn't like what the other one was saying, you know, and especially when you bring uh children and stuff into it too. That's another you're you're gonna get the mommy bear too, because our best friends are kids. I'm gonna any of those kids I'm gonna defend also. Right. So now you're messing with, you know, the parents and the kids. Like, oh do no, no, don't even go there. That's double whammy right there. For sure. Yeah. Because I'm still that way with my kids.

Jennifer 5:14

I mean, I remember we all would be.

Jackie 5:17

Yeah. I'm still that way. Like social media, it was funny because when my kids were younger, um, there was an uh a situation with my son at one point with a girl, you know, breaking up blah blah blah. And some things happened. And I got on there and said, Don't mess with mama bear. That's all I put on on my Facebook. Don't mess with mama bear, like in big things, and just left it at that. My son's calling me, I was talking about's calling me, her mom's calling me, trying to do their side of the story. And I'm like, no. So you know who it's about. You're calling me, so knock it off. And then my son, he's like, Mom, you're you're not gonna no son, don't worry, I'm not gonna do anything. I made my point. They've already reached out to me. They knew exactly who I was talking about, so take it down a notch.

Jennifer 5:59

Yeah, for sure. That's that's a good I use it as a positive.

Jackie 6:03

I didn't like do anything, hurt anybody. I just put it out there. It's like if you're gonna come to me and be DMing me, you know, secretly and saying stuff, you know it's about you, obviously.

Jennifer 6:13

Obviously. Obviously, and you should. I mean, that's you didn't do anything wrong. All you did was put it out there and don't mess. And I'm sure that and they probably don't even know the old Jackie that would have thrown down, right?

Jackie 6:26

And it's kind of like the front with our friend that we're talking about too I think I kind of did the same kind of thing, like that's that's it, done. And she even tried to reach out. Well, I want to tell my set there, there's no side to be told, girlfriend. Yeah, I got one side and that's the side I'm sticking with. And no. Right. I think that And I probably also that I we had seen a few things before that even happened, I think, also on that situation.

Jennifer 6:49

Right. This person had a history of being sort of shady.

Jackie 6:52

Different little things that were kind of shady, yeah. And and actually it brought me in at one point and I let it go, if you remember when uh a girl's trip and calling my husband.

Jennifer 7:00

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Jackie 7:01

Which was just my husband's like, what was she trying to do? And I'm like, you know, so there's a there's a good instance.

Jennifer 7:07

Yeah, but there's a good instance, that trip, right? So I felt you were being too exposed. So what I do, I marched you in to put you to bed. I'm like, that's enough. Like you go to bed and you take a nap or whatever, because I didn't feel like the environment around you was safe for you and I was protecting you, right? So exactly. And you would get mad at me sometimes. You have you you do get mad at me, like, oh no, I don't want to. And I'm like, let's go to bed. Let's let's take a nap, let's get out of this situation.

Jackie 7:36

But keep in mind, girls, that this is a girls' trip with how many girls were there? Only girls.

Jennifer 7:42

It was like 15 girls or 20 girls.

Jackie 7:44

And we stayed at a place that was in the middle of the desert that nobody else could come to. Let's just say we're having a girl's time. We were so we were we could do whatever we wanted. You want to go topless, go topless. You wanted to go, you know, nude in the jacuzzi, go nude in the jacuzzi. I didn't go nude in the jacuzzi, though. I'm just throwing out some people did.

Jennifer 8:01

I'm sure they did. I was not one of them.

Jackie 8:04

So, yeah. But you did. Some of the girls that were there, you didn't feel safe. They were taking pictures, things that weren't supposed to be being done. Right. Exactly. And I was just too like having fun. Woo! I didn't know. I admit.

Jennifer 8:17

It's time for us to go take a nap so we could go to sleep and put you to bed.

Jackie 8:21

So, um and I appreciate you for that. That's that's why you guys are around. We all get there at one point, right?

Jennifer 8:28

Well, no, because if it was a reverse, right, you would do the same thing.

Jackie 8:31

Well, yeah.

Jennifer 8:32

Yeah.

Jackie 8:32

Yeah. Let's talk about when I put you to bed the toga night.

Jennifer 8:36

Toga night.

Jackie 8:37

Let's go to bed. Let's go to bed.

SPEAKER_03 8:38

Let's hide you in this bathroom first.

Jennifer 8:43

Poor toga.

SPEAKER_03 8:44

But I took care of you, did I not?

Jackie 8:46

You did. I should have taken care of you before that, though, when I saw the girl making drinks for you that were not like I'm like, she is not gonna be able to handle that many alcohols into one drink.

Jennifer 8:55

Oh my god. What was that? It's not your fault. Moscow.

Jackie 8:58

Oh, you started with Moscow mules, but then the one girl who supposedly used to be a bartender started making these other drinks, were more like long islandized teas. They had so many different alcohols in them. Oh my god. And giving it to you who you don't drink hard alcohol at all, really. Never. So of course, I I when that started, I knew it was not a good idea. Jen's not used to and I wouldn't even drink them what she was making. I'm like, uh-oh.

SPEAKER_03 9:23

I don't mix like that no more. I'm smarter than that.

Jennifer 9:26

I know. I I probably lasted a good hour and then I was down and I was out.

Jackie 9:29

That was our 45 is alive.

Jennifer 9:31

Yeah. 45 is still alive. Yeah. I went down. It was funny too because we grew up in an environment. We grew up on a um a mountain, and there's a girl that looks just like me. We we've always been like interchanged, you know. People think I'm her, she thinks they think she's me, or whatever. It's always been that way. We call each other twins. And it was funny because I got out of the bathroom after throwing up for hours to go to bed. And a girl that we went to high school with that was older than us is like, I think I came out and I said, somebody said, Oh, you know, do you know who that is? And she's like, Yeah, and she said the other girl's name. And I was like, should I correct her? I'm drunk. I'm just going to bed.

SPEAKER_03 10:08

So you're like, I am that person. So when you tell everybody the story that you saw coming out, that was not that was who you're saying.

Jennifer 10:16

Hi, how are you? Good to see you. My twin, my twin on the mountain had to take the heat for that one. So she's like throwing it around.

SPEAKER_03 10:25

I don't know what you're talking about.

Jennifer 10:27

I know, right? It was funny. I was just like, Yeah, that's me. Good night. Like, I just don't have the energy right now. So I apologize, twin. You're out there, I know, but you took the beating on that one. So, anyways, but that's what friends do, right? This is part of our protective mode. This is why we we protect each other. This is why we get more angry with each other with other people about things, because it's easier for me to be protective than it is to protect myself. And and I don't know why. Maybe that's just the way we grew up that you know, it's to look out for other people or to care about more about the environment around us than ourselves. But we definitely, I think all best friends do it.

Jackie 11:04

I mean, you I do think part of ours is from protecting each other too, growing up.

Jennifer 11:10

Yeah.

Jackie 11:10

With everything with, you know, our families growing up and everything that and then we got to where, yeah, we want to take care of other people because that's what we're used to doing.

Jennifer 11:18

Right. We were raised to do it. So, you know, we're we're so it's not a bad thing.

Jackie 11:23

I mean, it's a bummer, it does tire you out and gets extremely exhausting at times and sad, but it's just what it is, right?

Jennifer 11:31

I think it just self-abandonment is part of it, right? We just learn to self-abandon like what we care what we thought or well how we felt never mattered. So we don't equate that into much of anything. And and it's okay, I guess, but on the other hand, we could probably do ourselves a better service by caring more about those things than we did, but we just don't.

Jackie 11:50

No, but we have each other. So we have each other.

Jennifer 11:52

So we watch out for each other. I mean, you know, we don't like something going on or something's going on, we'll we'll stand up for each other. There's there's no doubt. I'm not worried. If I go out with Jackie and shit's going down, we're back up and fighting off whatever it is that need to be fought off. And and we will. I mean, I can be pretty mouthy, you can be definitely mouthy, and you know, we just will be that way. So we will also, you know, make sure that the other one is a in a good environment, just as we just discussed. There's a couple of incidents recently that we both had to make sure the other one was okay, and we do. You know, that's just uh the friendship that you know you get when you have a best friend is that they become sort of a protector, just like your husband will protect you, Dad. Same thing, right? In fact, I'm calling your husband, I've got her, she's in bed, she's fine. I take on her in one hour, and he's like, Okay, you know, so we sort of work together on that kind of stuff. So I think that's you know, that's a beautiful thing to have in a friendship. So if you are the overprotector, and it doesn't, I want to say Jackie and I are both this way to some extent, and we have some friends that are not really as protective as we are that would be more subtle in their their behavior, I suppose, about it. They wouldn't be so mouthy or whatever. But there is a variance there that, you know, maybe one of you's that way and one of you's not. It's common. It's just that in our instance, we're both kind of like that. But we definitely have some friends that, you know, probably it would take a lot more to get them all riled up. You and I rile up pretty quick. Definitely. They kind of do. So it's not like, you know, this this idea that you're both being this way is is something that is common. It's there's a variance there. So some of you might be more protective and some of you might not be as protective. And it it's not even about that, but I know that there are plenty of people in Jackie's life, and I'm just talking about Jackie now because we're having this conversation together, that I will never forgive ever for what they've done to her, ever. Like it's a solid no. You're not gonna change my mind. And I'm sure, Jackie, the same goes for you.

Jackie 13:54

Oh, yeah. Well, yeah, we know that from our beginning of our friendship.

Jennifer 13:59

Yeah. So we will hold on to a grudge way more than somebody than even you will or even I will, because we saw the pain that it caused and the hurt it caused, and we don't forget. And you know, ourselves we kind of forget about it and we move on, and so you hold on to that a little bit. So but you know, friendship teaches you how to be fierce and good friends will stick up for you. So that's kind of the episode. I'm sure that you all have a something you can relate this to that, you know, either you are the friendship that's like that, or there's a friend like that for you, and you know, and appreciate those people because they're they're beautiful to have. And I know I appreciate Jackie for being that way, and I'm I'm sure she appreciates me being that way for her too. So definitely. All right, Jackie, you want to do the best of rapy question?

Jackie 14:44

Yeah, since we just unpacked our inner bodyguards, let's lighten it up with some bestie rapid questions. All right. All right, number one, who's more likely to start the no, she didn't rant. Both of us. Both of us. I don't think there's one of us. Because it might be different things that we noticed. You know what I mean? Right.

unknown 15:02

Right.

Jackie 15:02

Like they're more sensitive to certain things that they're saying, and I'm more sensitive to other things sometimes. You know what I mean?

Jennifer 15:08

We almost can't say anything because if you're sensitive to part of it, I'm sensitive to part of it. And they're like, there's grew.

Jackie 15:13

You're like, you're gone. Good luck.

Jennifer 15:17

Because man, we're tough crowd to please. Yeah, we will both go, oh no, she didn't. Uh-uh. So all right, Jackie, who writes the angry text draft and never, but never sends it. Who writes an angry text draft? Probably me.

Jackie 15:30

Yep, but never sends it. That's me. I'll sit and keep doing it back and forth. Finally, I'm like, oh wait, no, that one uh and I'll even go in and read it to my husband. How does this sound? He's like, that's fine. Like, why what are you so worried about? Never mind. Then why'd you ask me? I swear I cannot tell you how many conversations like that we've had. I'm sure.

Jennifer 15:50

I will write it and send it. Send and then let the shit fall where it falls, but I'll say it because man, if I have the if I'm gonna go through the part of writing it, then I'm gonna send it. I am, I I want to bring this up. I am my sister's angry texter. I'm like on the I'm a ghoster, a ghostwriter for her. Like I've broken up with many men. I've had many long discussions with men about the relationship they're having. I have sent text that will, you know, I am a ghostwriter for my sister because my sister doesn't really formulate words well. She doesn't express herself well.

Jackie 16:22

So when there's a breakup, I'm up there with her on that, but I could still do it myself.

Jennifer 16:27

Yeah. Well, for sister, she's like, we need to break up with this guy. I'm like, what do you do? And then I write, you know, some letter for her. So it's, you know, that's my sister's like kind of an introvert, so hard for her to articulate, but I'm her sister, so I'm very protective. So same thing. So I'm more used to writing angry texts and sending them. So all right, Jack, you go. Who's calmer when someone hurts them and who's ready to roll? I think we're ready to roll.

Jackie 16:54

I think we're both ready to roll.

Jennifer 16:55

Yeah, we'll roll. I think some of our other friends will be calmer in our group.

Jackie 17:01

Yeah.

Jennifer 17:02

They won't be ready to roll as quick as we are. More we get ignited faster. Yeah, let's go. Yeah. All right. Who's gotten in more trouble defending the other? So they were pretty even.

Jackie 17:14

Yeah, I think we've got when we were younger, it probably would have been me. You for sure. Yeah. Because I definitely I people you don't even understand. We shared a locker even in high school. I know some of you don't know what a locker is anymore because you don't have them anymore. Where do you put your books in? But you went to your locker every in between most classes. It was everybody met at your locker. And then she had a boyfriend that I just did not agree with. So if he even stepped 500 feet within my locker space, my voice raised, and he just turned back around. Get out. Again. Go away.

Jennifer 17:56

She did not appreciate this human and the way he treated me. And so she was not willing to step down. And I wasn't willing to do it. Yeah, it's vice versa, too. I was willing to put up with more shit than she was ready for me to put up with shit. So she just, you know, he's one of the ones that she's never gonna forgive, and vice versa with the one she had. So it is what it is. We saw enough shit, so we have an opinion about the other one for sure. Okay. What's the pettiest thing you've ever done to defend your bestie? Pettiest?

Jackie 18:26

The pettiest. Oh, it'd be like petty. Um thing you've done to defend petty. I don't know what they mean by petty. Something small or something just dumb. You probably didn't need to do that.

Jennifer 18:39

Yeah, you didn't need to do it. It's it's petty.

Jackie 18:41

Is that what they're saying? Okay. Petty.

Jennifer 18:43

Like, did you ever kick? I don't know either. I can't really think of anything. I know like you would kick people out of parties. You're like, get out.

Jackie 18:48

Oh yeah, I was good at that. Yeah. I was very good. You don't blog hair. Go.

Jennifer 18:53

That's kind of you're like out. Get out.

Jackie 18:56

That's true. And I really didn't need to. I could have just let them all kind of mold in and just So you used to do that a little bit.

Jennifer 19:03

I kicked you out of a car once. I mean, that was kind of petty, although I wouldn't have picked you back up again. But that wasn't against each other. That was an inter internal fight between the two of us. But oh, I guess I I ripped the phone card, phone card out of the wall for you. Remember the one time?

Jackie 19:17

Oh, that's right. You didn't want me talking to him anymore. Keep making me cry, and you yanked the phone line out of the phone.

Jennifer 19:24

Good night. Bye. So I guess those were some petty things that you and I've done. So I wouldn't point anything past us, y'all.

Jackie 19:29

Like it's all on the table for us. And some of it we forget. So when it comes back up, we're like, oh yeah, I did do that. Kind of put that in the vault, but okay. Who's more likely to say let it go? Our friends. Well, yeah, not us.

Jennifer 19:44

Not us. I wouldn't say let it go too much.

Jackie 19:47

And I think they know, yeah. So if there's they've got a problem with someone, they know maybe not say it to us if they don't want us to hear our two cents over and over and over again.

Jennifer 19:57

They're like, uh, don't tell those two. They're gonna get themselves wound up about it. Okay. Who's more likely to say absolutely not? We're burning it down. Me, you.

Jackie 20:06

Both of us. Yeah, we're gonna be able to do that.

Jennifer 20:09

We are the fierceness behind the uh protection mode. So yeah, we we both say that, that's for sure.

Jackie 20:15

So yeah, Jack. What's your signature? Don't mess with her move.

Jennifer 20:19

Me, I am really good at giving off a good vibe of fuck with me and find out.

Jackie 20:25

Oh yeah, my face, I don't have a poker face. So you're gonna see it in my face.

Jennifer 20:29

You're gonna see it, yeah.

Jackie 20:30

You're gonna or the way I start standing. Remember, you guys I'd get all like worked up and I'd get a certain stand. You're gonna start like I'm gonna start fighting. And I didn't realize it until like I'd start doing it. Um, oh my goodness, they're right. I do do that. And I did not realize it. Because I think we had another friend that we made fun of that she kind of was like that all the time. Do you remember who we're talking about? She kind of stood and walked like that all the time. You're talking about. And so when you guys said it to me, I'm like, no, I don't do that.

Jennifer 21:02

You're like we're imagining her move. I think mine is just like, you know, I don't like you. It's just the vibe I put out to you. So I don't think it's I have a vibe.

Jackie 21:12

Yeah, you have a idea.

Jennifer 21:13

Yeah.

Jackie 21:14

So I haven't you'll you'll know.

Jennifer 21:15

If you're around us and we don't like you, you'll know it for sure. All right. Who would actually win in a verbal smackdown? Ooh, probably you, Jack.

Jackie 21:22

No, I think these days it would be you. Maybe in the old days, it probably would have been me when we were younger, but it's changed.

Jennifer 21:29

You think I'd be better at a verbal smackdown?

Jackie 21:32

Yeah, yeah. I think I'd be a little scared. I can't come up with them as quick as I used to. I mean, sometimes I've got it, sometimes I've not. It depends how riled up about it, I guess you are.

Jennifer 21:41

How mad I am too.

SPEAKER_03 21:42

Yeah.

Jennifer 21:42

Yeah. I guess I could probably be kind of for sure doing that. Right.

Jackie 21:46

Okay, so one word that describes your protective love for your bestie.

Jennifer 21:50

That's for loyalness.

Jackie 21:51

Loyal loyalty. Yeah. Yeah.

Jennifer 21:54

That's you're gonna know. You're gonna know that I'm not gonna back down. And you know, again. We're not always related to what we said. We're not gonna say it again. We will be related to something that will still protect you, and then we will discuss it later. Maybe that is a good idea. We probably weren't related to the related, but we're not gonna have that discussion in front of a group of people. We'll deal with that later.

Jackie 22:19

So like when you talk to your kids growing up, like you want the parents to be united. They might not feel the same way, but you need to back me out. And then we'll go talk to the other room. Because that's what a lot of parents don't do anymore. That's for sure.

Jennifer 22:31

We need to get back to that though, because otherwise you get one playing against the other, which is all the time with kids.

Jackie 22:38

All the time. We're around a lot of different people with little kids.

Jennifer 22:41

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Jackie 22:46

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Jennifer 22:49

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Song 23:13

And no amount of space could ever come between us two. The reuniting's like we've never been apart, and every single time we're out of eye and heart to heart. Through heartaches and ups and downs in this life, you've stayed right next to me. I've ought to make you laugh till you cry. Look at everything under the moon. The definition of a best friend. Everything will keep on going every day. What you made a made. The heartache and ups and dance and this life don't stay right next to me. I'll bottom make you laugh till you pray. The definition of offensive. It's good. It's good. It's good. Trust that says loyalty. You and me love trust. That says loyalty.