Messy Genes
Two Sisters. Too opinionated. Zero Clue.
We’re Carly and Cindy, and we were raised to be obedient, modest, and quiet. Instead, we got divorced, left the Mormon church, and started a podcast. Messy Genes is where we unpack everything from religious deconstruction to dating after 7-20 years of marriage—with a lot of sarcasm, sister banter, and oversharing along the way.
If you've ever been labeled “too much,” “too loud,” or just plain “too messy,” you're in the right place. Grab a drink and join us as we laugh, rant, and unlearn the stuff we were told was sacred.
Messy Genes
The Birds, the Bees and Messy Genes
Messy Genes: Uncovering Awkward Sex Education Stories and Overcoming Religious Stigmas
In this candid and humorously insightful episode, sisters Cindy and Carly share personal anecdotes and listener stories about their experiences with sex education, or lack thereof, while growing up in a conservative, religious environment. From discovering misinformation about sex, dealing with awkward parental 'sex talks', and the personal journey of overcoming shame and taboo topics, this episode dives deep into the impact of religious teachings on sexuality, consent, and personal growth. As they navigate these sensitive topics, Cindy and Carly emphasize the importance of open communication, enthusiastic consent, and self-education in creating a healthier and more open approach towards sex and relationships.
00:00 Sisterly Bonding and Weekend Adventures
00:26 Concert Chaos and Lost Phone Drama
06:17 Podcast Studio and Serious Topics
07:14 Rave Experience and Mother-Daughter Moments
10:21 NXIVM Cult Connection and ELF Cosmetics
13:18 The S*x Talk and Growing Up Mormon
25:52 Listener Stories: Awkward S*x Education
31:50 Embarrassing School Story
32:43 Misconceptions and Confidence
34:08 The Impact of Repression
35:18 First Time Experiences
38:34 Lack of Proper Education
41:53 Parental Conversations
46:16 Misguided Beliefs
48:31 The Importance of Open Communication
58:11 Funny Misunderstandings
01:10:07 Healing and Moving Forward