Life Of Joy & Purpose With Vicki Gardiner, LPC

When You Ask, “Is This All There Is?”—You’re Not Ungrateful, You’re Waking Up

Episode 36

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Have you ever found yourself wondering, “Is this all there is?” — and then immediately felt guilty for even thinking it?

If you’ve built a good life…
 If you love your family…
 If you’ve done the responsible, faithful, steady things…

And yet there’s a quiet longing you can’t quite name — this episode is for you.

In today’s conversation, we’re talking about midlife awakening, identity shifts, and the science behind why longing often increases in your 40s, 50s, 60s, and beyond. You’ll learn why this feeling isn’t ingratitude or discontent — it’s evolution.

We cover:

  • Why meaning becomes more important than achievement as we age
  • The neurological shift from performance to purpose
  • How overfunctioning and responsibility can quietly disconnect you from yourself
  • A simple curiosity question that sparks clarity without blowing up your life
  • One small weekly practice to realign with who you’re becoming

This isn’t about reinvention.
 It’s about rediscovery.

If you’ve felt restless, invisible, or quietly unfinished, you are not behind — you’re waking up.

Listen in and take one small, courageous step toward alignment this week.

Because longing isn’t a crisis.

It’s an invitation.


Thanks so much for joining me today on Life of Joy & Purpose. If this episode spoke to you, I’d love for you to subscribe, leave a review, or share it with a friend who’s on the journey too.

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Until next time—take a deep breath, stay true to yourself, and remember: joy and purpose are already within you. You’re just uncovering it—one step at a time.

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