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RSVP Thanks
RSVP Thanks is the wedding podcast for brides who’ve had it, vendors who’ve seen it all, and anyone who needs a laugh with their event planning.
We’re talking real stories, real chaos, and actually helpful tips from the pros. Dress disasters? MIL meltdowns? Vendors who ghost? Yep, we’ve got receipts.
New episodes drop every Wednesday.
Have a story that’s too good not to share? Call our hotline: 320-558-RSVP — and maybe your drama will make the next episode.
RSVP Thanks
#24: We Said What We Said: Wedding Hot Takes That Might Offend You
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In this episode, we’re sharing some of our biggest wedding hot takes from years of working in the wedding industry. Some of these might be controversial, but they’re all based on real experiences and things we see couples stress over during the planning process.
We talk about the trends we love, traditions that might be worth rethinking, and a few wedding planning opinions that might ruffle some feathers.
Whether you're newly engaged or deep in the planning process, this episode is a reminder that your wedding should reflect what matters most to you — not outdated expectations or internet opinions.
In this episode we discuss:
• The pros and cons of destination weddings
• Combined bachelor and bachelorette parties
• Requiring bridesmaids to pay for hair and makeup
• Skipping bridesmaids and simply getting ready together
• Why your wedding shouldn’t double as a family reunion
• Why B-lists can create unnecessary stress
• Whether champagne toasts are worth the cost
• Wedding party etiquette during the ceremony (including letting them sit!)
• Brides walking down the aisle alone vs. honoring family traditions
• Why a cash bar can negatively impact guest experience
• Why the groom should absolutely be part of the planning process
• The benefits of couples taking a private moment to eat during the reception
• Brides sharing and crediting their vendors on social media
• Why people outside the industry should stop telling couples what weddings “should” cost
At the end of the day, wedding planning should feel exciting, intentional, and personal — not dictated by outdated rules or outside pressure.
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