Say no to other people's mental battles

Free your natural creative energy 

Choose YOUR peace 

And set GREAT boundaries 🙂

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I want to share with you today some what I believe to be really helpful insight to have radiant energy, to experience your own natural radiant energy. Stay out of battle dynamics that other people's minds attempt to engage you in. And in my experience, these are happening in family, in culture, in people you interact with, like on close personal levels, but also you know, it can be inner or outer circle people. So it's possibly an uncomfortable truth to face, but the more that you do this, the happier you're gonna feel. So become more and more aware, and this is something that I help my clients do big time, but become more and more aware of when somebody else's energy wants to engage in a battle with you. Okay, so this is gonna be the type of mind, the type of personality that's walking around constantly in a fight. And I'll tell you, it's it's easier to navigate if it's very obvious. Okay, it's easier to navigate this and to stay out of other people's fights, other people's battles when they're outwardly abrasive, when they're outwardly abusive, if they're you know, it's very obvious that they're trying to pick a fight, whether that's with their fists or with their mind. But where this is more difficult, and I think this is where I'm really helpful for my clients and maybe for people listening to this podcast as well, is if it's covert, if this person might portray themselves as nice and sweet, but you can feel, and maybe you've always been able to feel, that they're not really on the inside, and they are always wanting to like put hooks in you to engage you in a battle of some kind or another. One thing I've really noticed is that people, some people will have a pattern of constantly putting themselves down, and they unconsciously, usually it's unconscious, they'll want to they want to get you to put yourself down constantly too. Like oftentimes this will be like a virus in a family. Um, I think it's like a virus in a culture or in a family where self-deprecation is the norm, like constantly depreciating the self is the norm. And so you're expected to do that as well. And if you don't, they actually get upset with you. Um, yeah, so that's something to really look out for, and I think that's pretty prevalent in society in general, um, experiencing connection through like one person putting themselves down and them expecting the other to put themselves down as well, and then kind of bonding through that self-depreciation, um, which is just icky. Like, we don't want to do that anymore. We don't want to be in that anymore. I don't want that for you. Yeah, that feels like a pretty complete message. I'd love to hear how this lands for you. I want you to feel good about yourself, I want you to have an inner self dialogue that is kind and loving and that supports you on your path.