Kindness: The Blueprint for Raising Resilient Kids

ConnectForHealth - Cigna Healthcare

ConnectForHealth - Cigna Healthcare
Kindness: The Blueprint for Raising Resilient Kids
Jun 16, 2025 Season 1 Episode 2
Cigna Healthcare / mentl

In this heartfelt episode of ConnectForHealth, host Scott Armstrong, founder of mental health advocacy platform mentl, and co-host Maissa Al Khafajy, Head of Government Affairs and Strategic Communications at Cigna Healthcare, sit down with Christine Kritzas, psychologist and Director of Parenting & Family Services at The LightHouse Arabia, to explore how kindness is a foundational skill for building resilience in children.

With wisdom drawn from over 15 years of experience and her SmartHeart platform, Christine shares evidence-based strategies for modeling empathy, navigating digital distractions, setting boundaries with compassion, and breaking intergenerational cycles in parenting.

Whether you're a parent, educator, or caregiver, this episode is packed with relatable insights, emotional honesty, and actionable tools to support your childโ€™s emotional well-being - and your own.

๐ŸŽง This conversation is a must-listen for anyone raising emotionally intelligent, confident kids in todayโ€™s complex world.

โฑ๏ธ Chapter List:

01:11 โ€“ Todayโ€™s Topic: Why Kindness Builds Resilience
03:18 โ€“ What Is Resilience? Why It Starts with Relationships
04:55 โ€“ Real-World Kindness: Modeling Behavior as Parents
07:03 โ€“ How Early Kindness and Empathy Begin
09:29 โ€“ Teaching Empathy: Pillow Talks and Perspective
13:40 โ€“ Supporting Emotional Regulation in a Complicated World
16:49 โ€“ The Matryoshka Model: Why the Whole Family Matters
21:24 โ€“ Poll: Biggest Challenges to Teaching Kindness
22:30 โ€“ Digital Distractions & Co-Creating Boundaries
26:19 โ€“ The Smartphone Analogy: Would You Hand Over the Car Keys?
32:28 โ€“ โ€œItโ€™s OK If Your Kids Donโ€™t Like Youโ€: On Boundaries & Discipline
36:33 โ€“ Reparenting vs Parenting: Breaking the Cycle
42:45 โ€“ Assertiveness and Kindness: Why Language Matters
44:48 โ€“ Parenting by Values: The Values Wheel Tool
47:32 โ€“ Discipline โ‰  Punishment: Raising Future-Ready Kids
53:19 โ€“ Raising Teens: Side-by-Side Connection, Not Face-to-Face
57:46 โ€“ Closing Q&A: Jealousy Between Siblings & Concrete Tools

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