4 Women and a Funeral
Sponsored by Funeral Women Lead -
4 Women and a Funeral is a bold new podcast exploring the real experiences, challenges, and triumphs of women in the funeral and deathcare profession. Each episode invites listeners into candid conversations about leadership, purpose, gender dynamics, grief, and the evolving future of the profession.
Hosted by four trailblazing women with deep roots in funeral service Lisa Baue, Ellen Wynn McBrayer, Melissa Posey Loose, and Alicia Carr, this podcast brings a powerful mix of experience, insight, and heart to the table. Together, they have led businesses, trained professionals, challenged industry norms, and mentored the next generation, all while staying grounded in their shared commitment to serve families and support each other.
This is not another industry podcast focused on business as usual. It is a space for truth telling, connection, and empowerment. From navigating bias and burnout to building legacy and leading with compassion, 4 Women and a Funeral offers honest insights and a fresh perspective for professionals who care deeply about the work they do.
If you are ready to hear what others are not saying, this podcast is for you.
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4 Women and a Funeral
Safe Spaces, Strong Leaders: Grief, Grit and the Surfer Mindset
In this heartfelt episode, Lisa Baue, Alicia Carr, Melissa Posey Loose, and Ellen Wynn McBrayer trade the highlight reel for real talk about how vulnerability builds leadership, why every woman needs a trusted safe person, and what it takes to stay steady when life’s waves crash.
Alicia shares what it was like to step into ownership after losing both parents at a young age. Melissa opens up about her lifelong struggle with perfectionism. Ellen reflects on the grit behind her NFDA campaign and her “surfer mindset.” Lisa discusses the deeper meaning behind Wake-Up Calls and how proceeds are helping fund women’s education in funeral service.
The conversation also celebrates new voices rising in the profession and how sharing our stories helps us see ourselves more clearly and lift one another higher. This episode is a reminder to find gratitude, name your wins, and keep supporting women who are leading with heart and courage.
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