Deep with Jay

Gay Men & Body Image: The Pressure to Be Perfect in Fitness Culture

Pride House Media Season 1 Episode 109

In this week’s episode of Deep, Jay sits down with the multi-hyphenate Eddie Carrington—national aerobics champion, Equinox fitness instructor, model, and coach—to explore how gay men approach exercise, fitness, and body image. Together, they unpack the often skewed perceptions we have of our own bodies in pursuit of the unattainable.

Jay and Eddie dive deep into issues like how we see ourselves, our self-esteem, and the critical role of mental health in fitness. Jay also opens up about his personal struggles with body image and the journey he undertook to overcome them.

This episode is packed with practical tips, heartfelt advice, and motivation to help you redefine your relationship with fitness and yourself. In fact, the conversation was so inspiring that it became a two-part special—stay tuned for the second half coming soon!

Don’t miss this powerful, no-nonsense “kick in the ass” you didn’t know you needed!


00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:58 Eddie's Aerobics Journey

02:15 Training and Commitment

04:29 The Importance of Mental Readiness

04:56 Diving into Fitness and Body Image

05:20 Eddie's Fitness Journey

10:23 Struggles with Self-Image

15:07 The Impact of Social Media

21:19 The Struggles of Early Modeling

21:58 Authenticity and Charisma in the Industry

23:10 The Role of a Tough Coach

26:15 Success Through Small Goals

34:54 The Importance of Movement at Any Age

38:19 Conclusion and Next Episode Teaser

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