If You Only Knew The Half

You Never Know Who’s Watching: Life Lessons from a Beloved Coach, Mr. Spencer | EP7

Soulja and Wild

What does it mean to truly see someone and to be seen in return? In this heartwarming episode, Mr. Spencer joins the show to reflect on 40 years of working with students with disabilities, coaching track, and mentoring youth. He shares how his journey began without formal training and how it transformed his views on patience, purpose, and human connection. Mr. Spencer opens up about the unseen struggles many kids face, especially those with disabilities, and the deep impact of just showing up and staying positive. His wisdom on parenting, teaching, and living with intention will stay with you long after the episode ends. It's not just about diplomas or coaching, it’s about purpose, respect, and love.

Episode highlights:
(0:00) Intro
(2:09) Background and prison time
(3:32) Challenges of reentry and mental adjustment
(6:01) The shift in prison culture and youth mindset
(10:30) Respect, gangs, and surviving inside
(14:26) Coming home to a changed neighborhood
(17:43) What does freedom mean after incarceration
(19:44) The trap of poverty and staying focused
(21:19) Importance of support during incarceration
(26:53) Message to the youth: jail isn’t what it looks like
(31:03) What real rehabilitation should look like