Playing The Fool

Welcome to the PLAYING THE FOOL Podcast, I am your host Jarna Saunders.

I am a proud as fuck Life and Relationship Coach and personal development nerd, with a HUGE passion to get every single woman in the arena of their own lives.

I have over 10 years’ experience coaching 100's of women and couples.

I've been where you may be right now: for years I sat on the side-lines of my life, stuck in fear, in my head, in the past of that ONE TIME I was put back in my corner and I let it cripple me with fear.

That was until one day when the PAIN of staying hidden was too much to take and I made the choice to get my butt in the ARENA of MY OWN life.

To take the risk of looking like a beginner, looking silly and GOD forbid looking like a FOOL.

My promise to you is to show up here in all my parts and seasons with my heart proudly on my sleeve, gate keeping nothing but asking us all to WALK OUR GOD DAM ARSES out of the corners we were never born to exist in.

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Playing The Fool

Haylee Guiver: Hot Girl Walks, Anxiety and her Deep Love for The Heart is the Bar.

July 17, 2025 • Jarna Saunders • Season 1 • Episode 6

This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt like they were the problem.

Hayley and I sat down to talk about something that’s been showing up a lot. You know those pesky stories that “we must be the issue”.

That feeling of constantly questioning yourself, wondering if maybe you’re the reason things didn’t work out. The relationship, the job, the friendship, the dream that didn’t land the way you thought it would.

We talked about how easy it is to carry other people’s pain and blame as our own. How sometimes self-awareness turns into self-blame. How trying to grow and heal can quietly become another way of proving your worth.

But here’s the truth I’m sitting with right now:

It is always both.

This episode isn’t about fixing anything.

It’s just a real and honest conversation. A moment to pause. A reminder that maybe you don’t need to carry it all anymore. Maybe you were never broken to begin with.

If you’re tired of trying so hard to be okay, this one’s for you.

Come sit with us.

You can connect with Haylee in the links below. I know she still has a few more space for her stunning book. She also has the most beautiful offerings and sassy Reels so make sure you go and follow her. She is an absolute creative goddess.

www.instagram.com/hayleeguiver

www.hayleeguiver.com.au

The Heart is the Bar is now open.

12 weeks to dropping the masks and the stories that are keeping you stuck. The doors Close next week.

If you’ve been craving a way back to yourself, it’s here.

All the details are here: [https://www.jarnasaunders.com/]

✨ Continue the Journey

If this episode cracked something open in you, don’t let it close.
Explore coaching, resources, and upcoming offerings at www.jarnasaunders.com

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This isn’t just a podcast - it’s a movement back to yourself. Are you ready, babe?