Playing The Fool
Welcome to the PLAYING THE FOOL Podcast, I am your host Jarna Saunders.
I am a proud as fuck Life and Relationship Coach and personal development nerd, with a HUGE passion to get every single woman in the arena of their own lives.
I have over 10 years’ experience coaching 100's of women and couples.
I've been where you may be right now: for years I sat on the side-lines of my life, stuck in fear, in my head, in the past of that ONE TIME I was put back in my corner and I let it cripple me with fear.
That was until one day when the PAIN of staying hidden was too much to take and I made the choice to get my butt in the ARENA of MY OWN life.
To take the risk of looking like a beginner, looking silly and GOD forbid looking like a FOOL.
My promise to you is to show up here in all my parts and seasons with my heart proudly on my sleeve, gate keeping nothing but asking us all to WALK OUR GOD DAM ARSES out of the corners we were never born to exist in.
Let's Play.
Playing The Fool
Episode 43: Becoming Insufferable: The Fastest Way to Find Your Worth.
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In this episode, I share a concept that has completely shifted my perspective lately: being "insufferable."
After buying a new microphone and joking that I was about to become insufferable, I started reflecting on what that word really means. While the dictionary paints it as something negative, I've come to see it very differently.
To me, being insufferable means being unapologetically yourself. It means taking up space, owning your voice, honoring your needs, and refusing to shrink to make other people comfortable.
I dive into why so many of us are afraid of being seen as "too much" and how that fear keeps us playing small. Whether it's in our relationships, our work, our parenting, or our dreams, we often silence ourselves to avoid criticism, rejection, or judgment.
I also share personal stories about my journey from making bold decisions for myself to showing up visibly online, building my business, and creating the life and relationships I deeply desire.
My message is simple: if you want more peace, more joy, more fulfillment, and more alignment in your life, you have to get comfortable with being misunderstood. You have to trust yourself enough to be seen.
You are not too much.
And maybe the life you're craving is waiting on the other side of becoming a little more "insufferable."
If this episode resonates with you, I'd love to hear your biggest takeaway. Come share it with me on Instagram @JarnaSaunders and let's continue the conversation.
If you're ready to make a courageous choice and finally do the work, I'd love to support you. Join me inside Tender or through 1:1 Relationship Coaching, and let's begin creating the life, love, and peace you truly deserve. 💛
Your next chapter starts with one brave decision. Let's do this, babe.