Relive the Moments Podcast

🎙️ Build Real Confidence | Ep. 20

• John Lim • Season 1 • Episode 20

 Real confidence isn’t loud.
It’s not perfect.
And it’s definitely not something you’re born with — it’s something you build every single day.

In this solo episode, John Lim breaks down the truth about confidence:
why most people struggle with it, how fear actually helps you grow, and the small daily habits that turn self-doubt into self-trust.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, hesitant, or unsure of yourself… this episode will shift the way you see your own potential.

🔥 In This Episode, You’ll Discover:

  • The biggest myth about confidence (and what actually builds it)
  • Why fear never goes away — and why that’s a good thing
  • Small wins that create unshakeable self-belief
  • How to stop breaking promises to yourself
  • The power of presence and inner calm
  • How your self-talk shapes your reality
  • Why your environment builds or destroys your confidence
  • Six practical steps to grow real confidence starting today

📚 Books Mentioned

  • The Confidence Code — Katty Kay & Claire Shipman
  • Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway — Susan Jeffers
  • Atomic Habits — James Clear
  • The Charisma Myth — Olivia Fox Cabane
  • The Power of Now — Eckhart Tolle

đź’¬ Highlight Quote

“Confidence isn’t the absence of fear — it’s moving despite it.”