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The Breaking Financial Chains Podcast
Are you tired of feeling anxious about money despite working hard? Do you avoid opening bank statements, feel trapped by financial decisions you don't understand, or struggle with someone else controlling your access to money?
You're not alone.
Join chartered accountant and financial coach Tanya Ibberson for Breaking Financial Chains – the podcast that combines practical financial guidance with psychological insights to help you transform your relationship with money and recognise when others are using money to control you.
Unlike traditional finance podcasts that focus only on the numbers, Tanya understands that financial freedom isn't just about budgets and spreadsheets. It's about healing emotional barriers, breaking unhealthy patterns, recognising financial abuse, and overcoming the shame that keeps us stuck. Whether you're dealing with a controlling partner who monitors every penny or simply need to understand the warning signs of financial coercion, this podcast provides crucial insights for protection and recovery
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Whether you're a successful professional who secretly struggles with money management, someone experiencing or recovering from financial control in a relationship, or ready to break free from generational money patterns, this podcast offers a safe, non-judgmental space to learn, heal and grow.
Each week, through solo episodes, expert interviews and transformation stories, you'll discover practical tools and emotional support to help you build genuine financial confidence and independence. Because financial empowerment is possible for everyone – regardless of your starting point or past experiences.
Remember: financial freedom isn't just about the numbers – it's about breaking the chains that hold you back from living a life aligned with your values.
The Breaking Financial Chains Podcast
The Lifestyle Audit: Is Your Spending Aligned With Your Values? Ep.20
The Lifestyle Audit: Is Your Spending Aligned With Your Values? Ep.20.
Welcome to Breaking Financial Chains, where we combine practical money guidance with emotional healing. In this episode, I tackle the often-avoided topic of the lifestyle audit – a deep dive into where your money is really going and whether those choices still align with your values and goals.
This isn't about shaming yourself for past spending or slashing your budget in punishment. Rather, it's about bringing awareness to autopilot spending, understanding the true cost of your lifestyle (emotionally and financially), and creating space for more intentional choices. I walk you through a practical framework for categorising your spending into essentials, values-based choices, autopilot habits, and regrets – all through a lens of compassion.
Are you buying convenience but craving calm? Recognition when you really need rest? This episode will help you identify where your spending might be misaligned with your deeper needs, creating a path toward financial clarity and peace. Remember, you don't need a new life – just a clearer lens through which to see your current one.
Key Takeaways:
• Conduct a lifestyle audit by examining 1-3 months of spending and categorising into essentials, values-based, autopilot, and regrets.
• Notice emotional triggers around spending – are you seeking recognition, convenience or access when you truly need something else?
• Make adjustments with compassion, understanding the "why" behind past choices while creating space for intentional change.
• The true cost of your lifestyle may not just be financial, but also in time, energy, and missed opportunities.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction
00:52 What is a lifestyle audit?
03:02 The true cost of your lifestyle (beyond money)
06:22 Questions to ask yourself about spending habits
09:37 Step-by-step guide to conducting your own audit
12:58 Making adjustments with compassion
15:17 Reflection prompts for deeper insight
17:30 Final thoughts on finding your path to peace
Useful Links
Website: www.financialwingwoman.com
Email: tanya@financialwingwoman.com
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/financialwingwoman
Instagram: www.instagram.com/thefinancialwingwoman
Facebook: www.facebook.com/thefinancialwingwoman
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