Would You Trade Love for $20 Million?” – Boundaries, Big Backs & Real Talk

In this hilarious and heartfelt episode of The Feed Watchers, hosts Eric and Renita dive into a wild hypothetical: would you let your partner sleep with someone else for $20 million? The duo shares strong (and funny) takes on loyalty, spiritual exchange, and relationship boundaries. They also explore relatable topics like gym intimidation, body image, hidden phone secrets, shower Twister, and the meaning of gratitude. With moments of laughter, vulnerability, and real-life wisdom, this episode balances spicy takes with grounded reflections on love, trust, and knowing your worth.

Transcript

UNKNOWN 0:01

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SPEAKER_01 0:11

Alright, alright. Welcome back to the Feed Watchers. This is Eric checking back in with you. Checking in with my co-host, Renita. How are you today, Renita?

SPEAKER_00 0:20

I'm doing wonderful. Alright, alright.

SPEAKER_01 0:23

You recovered from that last week's episode?

SPEAKER_00 0:26

Yes, I did. I had a lot of fun, didn't I? Yeah, it was...

SPEAKER_01 0:30

Yeah, uh-huh. I ain't bringing in no more people for you to just roast me with. No, not happening. I'm about to even score on that one. So let's jump into the vibe check question of the day today. Okay, so this is an interesting one. Very – I'm going to say this one is a very hot topic type question because it has a variable sense of – opinions and how people feel about it but I know my stance on it and I stand on it so here's the question would you let your partner sleep with someone else for 20 million dollars um Renita I'm gonna go ahead and get your answer to that first because I already know my answer and like I said I'm standing on it

SPEAKER_00 1:25

my opinion is hell no

SPEAKER_01 1:30

see you're right there with me right there with me on that one uh Nah, that ain't happening. Why not for you? I know my reasons for why not. I wouldn't do it. Why wouldn't

SPEAKER_00 1:43

you? See, I got a couple reasons. I mean, I'm going to start with, like, I'm the kind of person, I'm going to be honest, I love money, but, like, money don't really move me in a situation like that.

SPEAKER_02 1:53

Right.

SPEAKER_00 1:53

You can't put a price on it. Okay. Because I'm a firm believer, like, when you sleep with someone, you are exchanging, like, spirits. Like, it's more than just a physical part. So it's like, man, like, it's enough energy is already going on with the tools I ain't trying

SPEAKER_01 2:12

to invite no other. Yeah, okay. If that's my girlfriend, I'm going to take that $20 million and I'm going to run. She ain't going to no longer be my girlfriend after that. But if it's my spouse, if it's my wife, nah. She can't do that. Nah, because I can't stay married to you now. We got to go get a divorce now. I'm about to split that $20 million. Nah. Nah, that's just not going down. So, yeah, that's a good question, I think. Y'all let us know what y'all think out there. Would you let your partner sleep with somebody else for $20 million? Like, I'm still sticking on no. I believe Renita's stuck on no. Hell no for me. So, yeah, y'all let us know, man. Hit us up on Facebook. Let us know. Check us out at Feed Watchers on Facebook. And hit us up on our page and let us know what y'all think. Would you let your partner sleep with somebody else for $20 million? You

SPEAKER_00 3:26

know, I got a plot twist to that. It's crazy, though. Like, I meant to say this earlier, but I didn't. The crazy part is, like... Since the question was would you let, you know, that's my answer. But in our reality, you can't control what somebody do. I mean, you know what I'm saying? I haven't really thought about that. Yeah, like they're going to do what they want to do, but you asking me what I, nah, nah.

SPEAKER_01 3:48

That's a different perspective. I didn't think about that. Yeah, if that's presented to you and your partner, your partner could decide to just go and do that and get that $20 million and not even tell you about it. You just notice they start showing up with new things at the house. It's just like, well, you What the hell? How we just get that new Bentley? Yes, I had to move some things. I had to do some things. Do something strange for some change. But that's good. Yeah, you're right. Depending on who your partner is, if you don't have the right partner, they could do you dirty like that. So, yeah, that's a good way to look at it. Yeah, let's jump into these reels and fees and see what, Renita, what's your first one for this week? What you got?

SPEAKER_00 4:33

alright the first one I have is kind of like hilarious so I saw this I was scrolling or whatever and um it says I'm trying to keep my back a decent size but OMG I be so hungry and for me I can relate yeah for me I can relate because like I'm telling you when you get older it be hard to get that weight off and it's like I might cut out a little of this a little of that but look I love my starch you know give me some rice give me some bread And I don't be doing that cardio like I'm supposed to. I'm like, man, that back and arms just getting wider and wider.

SPEAKER_01 5:11

First thing in the world. And kids will humble you. Big back. Big back. Trust me. That don't take much for a kid to humble you and call you a big back. So you got to start watching them carbs.

SPEAKER_00 5:24

I'm telling you. Or just work it out. Do something. Yeah, do something. There's

SPEAKER_01 5:28

some type of action. It don't take much. Just walk around a little bit. You know, just take a couple of laps around. every now and then. It don't take going into the gym and busting out. Now, the gym is one of those places. It's nice to go to the gym and get a good workout in. That's a good thing to do every now and then. The gym can be intimidating because if you got them people in there that's in there every day working out next to you, you don't want to be working out with them people because they out there busting out them weights and they, and just throwing the weights all around and stuff like that. And you just looking at them like, man, what is you doing? What kind of working out is you doing? I'm just over here trying to drop a couple pounds. Like, what is you over there doing, man? Like, you're making it work out his life. But yeah, the gym can be very intimidating. So I suggest like Just like I said, take a little walk here and there. Find a local field or something, track or something like that, and just take a couple laps around that. Get your little weight off. But, yeah, the big backs is real. I swear these kids with that big back stuff, man. On to the next feat I saw. I saw this one. It was a picture of a shower with a – It has Twister made up in the shower. And the caption says, I have no time for games and relationships except for Naked Shower Twister. I have time for that shit. Okay. I like the idea because, hey, in relationships, you got to keep things interesting. You got to keep it spicy. But that's probably, like, not the best place to try that. Like, in the shower. you got a slipper in there. You're going to fall. You're going to bust your ass. You're going to be trying to be all sexy and doing all these new moves and stuff like that. Think you're getting one off? You're going to be done broke your damn hip. Use that one with caution. I like the idea. Overall, I like the idea. It's a great idea, but use that one with caution. How do you feel about that one, Renita?

SPEAKER_00 7:44

For me, ladies... Balance. Stand sturdy. In the shower, though. It's wet. Put one hand on the wall. Brace yourself.

SPEAKER_01 7:58

The wall is wet, too, though. You better grip it. You're going to grip

SPEAKER_00 8:02

a wet wall. Put your palm on it, yeah. Hold on to the edge. You know the edge of the shower right there? The edge of it? You can put your hand there.

SPEAKER_01 8:12

Your stance is go ahead and do it. Just be careful. Oh, yeah. Yes, yes, yes. Full, full flesh. Go on and do that. Just be careful. Like I said, you're going to break your damn hip. Keep on listening to Riddity. You're going to break your damn hip. I'm telling you. Don't be in no shower talking about you doing no damn naked twister. Red, red, right hand, red, left foot. blue, uh-uh, your ass be on the floor. Don't tell me.

SPEAKER_00 8:35

With your partner, though. I mean, with your partner,

SPEAKER_01 8:38

with whoever you, you know, yeah, it's fun as a partner, you know, thing to do with your partner. Like I said, keep things spicy. It's just something nice and spicy to do. I get that, but just be careful, people. Please be careful. Renita, what's your next

SPEAKER_00 8:54

one? Okay, my next one. So I saw this one, and it stuck out to me. Never let the things you want make you forget the things you have. And for me, I can relate to that because just in general, like, um, like reading the news, I don't really watch TV a lot, but like I do read a lot. So like where everything is going on in the world, you know, like people losing their lives, these, you know, the little kids out in Texas or whatever, it's just so grateful to, you know, have like, if I wake up in the morning, that's a blessing already. Exactly. My kids. Okay. Hey, that's another blessing. Right. You know, I got a little bit of, you know, changing the account. We ain't wanting for nothing. Like it's, I feel like a lot of times, um, we get out of our zone. Like, man, we always want more. And I mean, that's okay, you know, too, in a way. But at the same time, I feel like we appreciate just the small things, like being healthy, like you alive. You know, you can see, you know, like you can move around how you want to move around. Your kid's okay because it's just like, imagine, you know, your child going off to a vacation or whatever the case may be or just around here going to work or whatever the case may be and something happening and it's gone. So now the whole time you sitting up, Oh, I want this, this materialistic thing, or I want this, that, and the third, but you already have like God already providing everything you need. Like you got life, your kids have life, you know, like this, Hey, that's the biggest blessing.

SPEAKER_01 10:21

Right. And, um, to add to that, um, basically with that quote is saying, and, um, what a lot of people don't realize is some of the most richest people are the most miserable people. Because once you get to a point in life when you can buy any and everything that you want and need for yourself, and you don't have to think about, oh, I want that new pair of shoes, I want that new car, I want that new house. You can just go get it. It's just that easy. You don't even appreciate stuff anymore. So... Yeah, you definitely should appreciate the little things at all times because it gives you much more self-gratification when you can appreciate the little things more. It really does. I don't think anybody should look at anybody else's lifestyle and say, I want that person's lifestyle because you don't know what they had to go through to get a lifestyle. And you might not want to go through the things they had to go through to get those things that they wanted to get. just because it looks nice to you. So you definitely have to appreciate what you have. Like you said, your kids, your family, all those things are more important than all these materialistic things that you can wish for and want to have. So, yeah, I agree with that. I like that statement. It's a very good one, very positive. I'm going to jump on into the next one. This one is, I would say... For some people, common relationship issue, and it's another one that can be debated as to whether or not it's good or bad. There's pros and cons to it, I will say that. So here's the quote. Checking their phone does not mean you're insecure. It doesn't mean you have trust issues. What it does mean is that you refuse to be played like a fool because in this day and age, a person can call you their world while texting 10 different people behind your back. A faithful partner has nothing to hide. A loyal partner won't panic when you pick up their phone. A good partner protects your peace and instead of giving you reasons to question them, let's be real. I'm just going to say... I don't believe in going through phones. That's the most dangerous thing you can do in a relationship is go through your partner's phone. Because if you go looking for something, the old adage, if you go looking for something, you're going to find it. True word has never been spoken. So I don't believe in going through phones. But there are people that just feel like I just need to know certain things. So I got to go through that phone. All the information I need to know is in that phone. So I'm going to go through that phone. I just don't suggest you do it unless you're trying to get your feelings hurt. How you feel, Renita?

SPEAKER_00 13:09

So my take on that, yeah, I mean, I'm not going through no phone. Like, basically piggybacking off what you said. I mean, if you go looking for something, you're going to find it. And to be honest, once you're dealing with a person, especially if you've been with that person, like in my case, for years, several years, certain things you already kind of know. You see what I'm saying? So it's like you already know certain things, what to expect. And then you can say, okay, I'm going to go through his phone or whatever the case may be. I'm going to go through her phone. They might be so... skilled with it like you wouldn't even find nothing in the phone so it's like you weren't about going through the phone man go through them bank accounts go through you know what I'm saying like if you try the phone because now it's like so much stuff like that people can like you know go around and do things with phones like especially if they tech savvy like me personally I am not tech savvy so I ain't trying to create no different little codes or what all this different files and stuff I ain't got time for that so I don't do that but But, hey, it's people that do. So you trying to go through a phone trying to see, oh, I'm going to catch him up in something. The whole time he got – stuff stored in a calculator you thinking it's a calculator it's a whole different file so ladies we ain't trying to be like I'm going through the calculator you know what I'm saying like so

SPEAKER_01 14:32

shout out to Apple with the calculator app the hidden features with the phone numbers the pictures the messages all hidden in the calculator that was the dopest thing ever created man shout out to that

SPEAKER_00 14:44

yo I used to work with this dude right Fernando if you listening

SPEAKER_01 14:49

dang she called him out by name

SPEAKER_00 14:50

yes direct I told y'all that already I am direct no indirect over here um he had put some people on to that you know so I'm like me once again I'm not a tech I'm like what in the world he's like yeah that's what I'm like oh okay

SPEAKER_01 15:08

I haven't seen. I'm pretty sure that's. But that was years ago, like 2018, 2019. That's not too far. But I'm pretty sure that app still exists. I don't know how many people still use that. Women don't start going through y'all phones, y'all men's phone now looking at their calculator. Some of them do just have the regular calculator. And I'm going to tell you right now, if it ain't, you ain't going to find it. It's ways around it. Trust me. You're not going to just go in there and find that calculator. No. I'm not putting nobody out there like that. But on the flip side of the question though, how do you feel about somebody going through your phone like you wouldn't go through a phone but how would you feel about your partner going through your phone

SPEAKER_00 15:55

I mean I wouldn't care if he does because there's nothing in there like nothing to hide right but I would think like what you like if you really feel the need to do that like after all this time and just what why are we even dealing because yeah again like it just makes no sense to me you know what I'm saying Like, we not, like, just starting off. You know, we ain't, like, getting to know each other or whatever. Like, we all the way in. So, if you really feel the need to do that, like, if that's what you thinking, your energy is on that. So, why even deal with me then?

SPEAKER_01 16:26

Yeah, there should be enough trust in the relationship that you don't feel like you need to go through my stuff. That's why I was completely going to agree with you on that. Yeah, don't go through my stuff talking about I just needed to see what I needed to see. No, that means you don't trust me then. I'm one of those type of people, if I feel like you went through my phone looking for something, even though I don't have nothing to hide. that just shows you don't trust me. And we got a bigger issue if there's no trust in that relationship. And that's the same thing on the other side, too. If I feel like I don't, that's why I don't go through phones because that shows that I don't trust you if I feel like I have to go through your phone. And that's a way bigger issue if I feel the need to go through your phone because there's a lack of trust in the relationship. So, yeah, like I said, that's just not me. I know some people are phone gurus and just love going through phones. And, oh, I'm going to get my information. I need to get anything I need to get. I'm getting it out of that phone. Okay, well, like I said, when you get your feelings hurt, that's on you. You did that to yourself. Don't be mad at nobody but you. But, yeah, we're going to go to the next one. What you got up?

SPEAKER_00 17:33

Okay, next. With a real man, you never have to ask. They just do. They study you and just do.

SPEAKER_01 17:45

So, that can... Okay, so I'll say this about that. Some men do get to know a woman right in the beginning when y'all first start dating and everything like that. You're taking your time to get to know a woman, her likes, her dislikes, all her favorite things and all of that. And some men can hold on to that knowledge and keep it and that lives with them. That becomes a part of them. Some men, when they're first starting to date a person, they kind of just... They're listening, but not listening with intent. I'll say that. And basically they're just listening to get enough of the basics to find out. All right. I know if I like this person, but I don't know if I trying to like make her my wife or nothing like that. So I don't feel like I need to retain that all of that information. So you're going to have some guys that are going to go above and beyond for you. But then you're going to have those other guys that are just there for a good time. And they're just like, you said your favorite color was red. I wasn't paying attention to that enough to know that. So I know women take offense to those kinds of things and say, well, you know, you don't listen to me. You're not trying to get to know me or understand me. But for some, you got to understand, you got to look. place where you're going with that particular relationship or whatever. Are we building or are we just having fun? So there's a big difference. If you're in a situation where you're just in a situation with somebody who you're just having fun with, you can't expect them to know those things and, you know, stand on knowing all of those different aspects and stuff of like trying to how to, all the best ways to make you feel good and make you happy. But how do you feel about that? You know, that statement.

SPEAKER_00 19:32

Well, yeah, that statement, I totally agree with it. And then, like, I'm not a biased person, so I feel like it goes both ways. So, ladies, like, if you're dealing with a man, you know, you're in a relationship, that's your spouse, that's your significant other, you know, your babe, whatever that he is to you and it's serious, I feel like it goes both ways. You know, like, when I was younger, I was so, like, you know, just... on the receiving end as far as like okay it has to all be about me me me me me me me but you know getting older or whatever you realize that okay it goes two ways like you can expect to be appreciated all the time studied all the time and then you don't pour that back out into your person you know so I feel like okay the same way I'm expecting you to study me do different things for me or you know what I like you know what I need or just do provide you know surprise me or like you say I'm an action person so and I expect those things like in a relationship and so in the beginning stages of my relationship, it was always like, okay, I'm so used to receiving. So it's like, you don't really... I wasn't like trying to be giving, you know what I'm saying? But the older I get, I'm like, dang, like, you know, he needs little small things too. And it's not all about financial. It could be like, um, um, emotionally, you know what I'm saying? Physically or whatever, just show some appreciation, you know, study your guy too. You know what I'm saying? Because as ladies, I think we feel like, okay, it gotta all be about us or we, you know, doing certain things, you know, physically. So, you know, that, that, that's enough. Nah, like, They go both ways.

SPEAKER_01 21:03

You said it, not me, because I agree 100%. Yeah, it goes both ways. There's a lot of women that feel that way. Like, hey, I'm doing my part. I'm here. And it's like, well, that's not enough. No. I had a rough day, too. Like, I need a hug. And it's like, I'm going to sit down somewhere. You don't need no hug. You'll be all right. So, yeah, I definitely think, yeah, that should go both ways for sure. both parties have to keep up their end if you like you said trying to be in a committed relationship and it's not just like I said remember there's a big difference between a committed relationship and a fun time people got to know the difference and you can't be expecting one thing and you got to know what you're in and have your expectations level up to what you're in at the time so yeah I definitely like that one um going on to the next one um This is a good question. I thought it was kind of funny, especially this day and age. But the question is, y'all picking cotton for $350 an hour, or is y'all pride too good for that? I say that's funny because the times we live in, especially with our president being who he is and the craziness he gets us involved in as a country, people laugh about slavery and slavery times and stuff like that. Are we going to end up back in slavery with somebody like Trump running the country? Well, I mean, y'all joke about that, but it's not really a joke. That's like real life. We probably could end up being right back in there with somebody like him who believes the things he believes in saying and doing the things that he does and so he being in the office in the you know being the president of the United States and you know having his beliefs and saying his beliefs just in a way that makes people feel like he's racist at times but people laugh it off and say well that's just who he is as a person Like I said, picking cotton, if that could be a job still, do I think our president would allow for that to be a job? Heck yes. Oh yeah, for sure. But how many of us out there are going to stand our ground as black people? Well, for sure. And anybody in general, honestly. I would hope would take some form of offense to that because of the history behind it. How many people are going to stand up and say, hey, that's a good wage, $350 an hour? Shoot, I'm finna get out there in them fields. Or how many people are going to say, oh, man, that's just completely disrespectful. I'm almost positive it's more y'all picking up that doggone cotton than it is not doing it. What you think, Renita?

SPEAKER_00 24:05

For me... I wouldn't do it again. Cause I mean, and I could see why some people would do it because like where I'm from, um, it's like a farming community. So I know like my, my great uncles, my grandma, I remember when I was little, you know, like we would go to the farm, you know, like tobacco, cucumber, peanuts, that type thing. So it's not like, I can see where some people like that. I know people that still do that. You know, I got family members that still work on the farm, so they wouldn't see nothing wrong in it because they doing it. They're not picking cotton, but I mean, tobacco, peanuts, whatever. So, I mean, I, I could see how it go both ways. Me personally, I wouldn't do it. Um, I remember my mom, um, and I was growing up when I got older into a teenager, even to my adult life. One of the things she would always tell me is that, you know, I want you to be better than I was, you know, like I do certain things. I work, you know, so you don't have to experience certain things that I, she had to experience as a child. You know what I'm saying? I remember stories she would tell me, you know, about like working in the field and stuff. So me personally, I, I wouldn't do it. But I could see why someone that currently is doing it You know, like not cotton, but working in the field. I could see why they would do

SPEAKER_01 25:24

it. Yeah, yeah. And like I said, it's just more so the overall narrative. Field workers, that's totally different. That's people who are making a living for agricultural purposes. But to say out loud, hey, go out here and pick this cotton. I'm going to pay you $350 an hour and expect that to just be, oh, well, boy, get out there and get that cotton. You need that $350 an hour. That's the way I feel like it would come off the tone. It would come off as boy and, you know, brings up. all these tones that just don't sit right with me. And so I couldn't personally do it. Anybody that would see that money and think that's a good wage to make off of doing that job, hey, to each his own. But it wouldn't be for me. I'm sorry. I would never. So, yeah, we're going to jump off over to the next topic. What you got, Renita?

SPEAKER_00 26:13

Okay, next. I saw this and I was scrolling. And it says, so long-distance relationships work if both parties put in the work.

SPEAKER_01 26:30

Yeah, that's true. Long-distance relationships are difficult. I don't care what nobody say. Everybody try to make it seem like, oh, you can make a long-distance relationship work if you want to. Both people have to be willing to. to make a lot of sacrifice to make a long distance relationship work. It is not for the weak. I can say that for sure. It is definitely not for the weak. I don't know how you feel about long distance relationships.

SPEAKER_00 27:00

I agree with the guy that posted it. I feel like we both have to work on it because it's like, and that's just with any relationship. I feel like any kind of relationship is possible if if both parties like putting the word, it can't be like one way where, okay, you're not here. So I'm gonna do certain things. Cause I know you're not here. You're not going to know, or I'm gonna be deceitful. You know, I'm a, that's not right.

SPEAKER_01 27:26

Yeah, but I mean, when you're not seeing a person on a consistent basis, that just brings all these thoughts in your head. It clouds the relationship a lot because you just can't put eyes on that person to know, like you said, they could be doing God knows what when you're not around them and you wouldn't have any idea because you're not there to see physically for yourself what it is they're doing and what they're not doing. All you have to go on is their words and what they're telling you and that can be really difficult to do. I know trust is very important in a relationship, but distance and it just, I don't know, distance just seems to bring out the worst things in your mind, I think, when you're in a situation where distance is involved. It really just seems to bring out the worst things in your

SPEAKER_00 28:14

mind. But no, it's... It's like you said, in your mind, if it's in your mind, it's like it's an action thing. If that's something that you want to do, because also I would alone this relationship. I mean, in today's time, you know, OK, you got, you know, technology, you know, and then you got all these airlines, pretty much every airline offer like, you know what I mean? Like,

SPEAKER_02 28:35

yeah.

SPEAKER_00 28:36

So it's kind of like because I look at it this way. You could be in a relationship and see that person every day. And then that person could also be deceitful.

SPEAKER_01 28:45

That's right.

SPEAKER_00 28:46

You know, so it's like you could be – because think about it. Most people, unless you have a work-from-home job or you're just into retirement where you don't work so you're pretty much home, but most of us, we still go out and work. Right. So if you're gone working for 8 to 10-plus hours – Your spouse, you know, and you're not really seeing your spouse that much. The people at work see your spouse more than you do.

SPEAKER_02 29:08

That's

SPEAKER_00 29:08

true. So it's like, you know, you never know. And if that person already have that energy in their mind or whatever the case may be like, you never know. I feel that's why my take on it is. We both have to put in the work if it's going to be long. That's for long distance. That's for the same distance. It's just one of those things where we got to work at it. It's a job too. Relationships are, believe it or not, it's a job. That's what I think.

SPEAKER_01 29:30

Relationships are 100% a job. If you don't believe a relationship is a job, then you're in the wrong relationship. Just being honest. If you don't believe a relationship is work, then okay, I don't know what relationship you in. Just being honest. While we own relationships, it brings me to my next one and And this is a funny one to me because of when you're talking relationships and how things can get real trippy in relationships. This one says, she told me to call my other girl, so I hung up and called her again and asked if I can speak to personality number nine because personality number four is trippy. So, Renita. How many personalities are inside you at any given time?

SPEAKER_00 30:22

One.

SPEAKER_01 30:23

Don't even do it. No, I'm so serious. Like one. Don't even do it. Don't even do it. No. One. Are we being honest?

SPEAKER_00 30:33

Very honest. Are

SPEAKER_01 30:34

we being honest?

SPEAKER_00 30:35

Very honest. So it's no,

SPEAKER_01 30:37

it's no, you know, I wake up one way one in the morning and then sometimes in the afternoon I'm a little bit different. I'm a little bit off centered and then I come back and I'm a totally different person you know

SPEAKER_00 30:48

nope I'm the same like since you've been working around me it's the same like I have the same energy like long as you don't I'm

SPEAKER_01 30:55

not your

SPEAKER_00 30:55

partner though

SPEAKER_02 30:56

that's

SPEAKER_00 30:57

different but that's still but you can't flip like that's one of those things you can't really control you know some people be like oh I'm in control of my personalities or whatever the case may be it's like if you're that kind of person you can't like turn it on and off you might think in your head that you can't but in reality you can't so it's like he's gonna say the same long as I'm good he good basically like and when I say like good it's not like oh if I'm not good I'm gonna flip into somebody else no I'm gonna speak my mind like I'm gonna be direct but that's not me oh turning into this psych person or doing some crazy type stuff I'm gonna tell you you did this or this happened I disagree with it you might tell you might ignore me you might not want to speak on it but I'm I'm gonna get it off my chest I'm not the kind of person to keep like in a relationship I'm not keeping nothing on my chest you know what I mean because when you you man you keep stuff on your chest that thing fester up

SPEAKER_01 31:48

and that's when the other personalities come out

SPEAKER_00 31:49

no but it just gets to it just it could go crazy you know what I'm saying because like depending on the kind of person like you might be the kind the kind of person you just smack somebody you know hit somebody like that's not a different personality though that's just like build up that's yeah

SPEAKER_01 32:06

so you're just naturally abusive as a person no not abusive no I am not abusive that's abusive as a person and I I might smack you from time to time. I might cuss you out from time to time. That's just me as a person. That's not a different personality over here doing that. That's just me. I'm just saying women do have multiple personalities. I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_00 32:30

Some of y'all have like

SPEAKER_01 32:31

all these.

SPEAKER_00 32:32

That's guys. Some guys do. Yes. Yes.

SPEAKER_01 32:37

But see, that's them dudes that be walking up the street talking to they self, though. That's totally different.

SPEAKER_00 32:42

That's something out of health. No.

SPEAKER_01 32:45

You think, guys?

SPEAKER_00 32:45

No, because you got dudes, like, most times, let's say your partner asks you a question. You done did something, whatever that may be, you know, to trigger her. Mm-hmm. see what had happened was you

SPEAKER_01 32:57

already that's not a multiple that's not a different personality

SPEAKER_00 33:04

I was with I was with no that's another personality though

SPEAKER_01 33:10

no that person is the same person they just lying to you as themselves

SPEAKER_00 33:13

dudes do crazy stuff too though y'all be on some crazy stuff

SPEAKER_01 33:18

too I think women do it a little bit more I'm sorry I think the women go a little bit left level more left with the personality deficiencies and traits and stuff like that when like I said he said personality number nine and he wanted to speak to personality number because personality number four was tripping he wanted to speak to personality number nine that's a lot of different personalities man in one person it is like and the fact that he knows which one is the best one to talk to and the most reasonable one to talk to is kind of sad I I feel bad for this brother. Like, man, you need a hug, man. I'm sorry for you. But, yeah, like I said, man, nah, yeah, we good over here. We don't do the switching it up. When you get us, you get us. You don't get that 10 million different people in one. That's a one thing, I think. Just me saying that. But, Anita, what you got for your next

SPEAKER_00 34:21

one? Okay, my next one. I saw this one, and it kind of stood out to me. A lot of you men would be disgusted if your daughter ended up with a man like you.

SPEAKER_02 34:31

I'd

SPEAKER_01 34:35

be in jail. I'm just going to put that out there. I'd be in jail. No way in the world I wouldn't be in jail. Yep, I'd be locked up somewhere. Yeah. No, neither one of my daughters could ever bring a guy home and be like, well, I'll say that back. My oldest daughter, her boyfriend, he reminds me a little bit of me, the good parts of me when I was younger, his age. But if he had any of the other qualities, if I saw any of the other traits, yeah, I'd put a foot up his ass a long time ago. Like, yeah, you can't come nowhere near my daughter. talking nah bro nah heck nah what are you talking about me nah nah I know me no no no no no no nah your baby girl you always want for her better you want her to have a guy that's gonna be respectful not to say that I'm not respectful I should make that clear but you want a guy that's gonna be respectful caring nice and you know always make sure that she's taken care of I'm all of But I also know that I have some very negative qualities in myself as well that I would not want my daughter to have to deal with and her partner. So yeah, no, no dating guys like that. That ain't okay. What do you feel about girls who would date guys that are like their dad?

SPEAKER_00 35:58

I mean, I feel like it all depends on how... how their dad is you know what I mean like and back to what I always say I know it sounds kind of repetitive but it's like and I'm a girl so it's like we can't really choose you know what I mean because like what our daughters you know dads like your dad you can't really choose you can give your opinion for your daughter Oh, so if you tell your daughter, you cannot date this guy, she wouldn't do it?

SPEAKER_01 36:35

I can take him out of the equation. He can make that real simple. I can get rid of him. She can try to date him, but you can't date him for six feet on the ground.

SPEAKER_00 36:46

That's another one of those. What was our previous topic? Multiple

SPEAKER_01 36:51

personality stuff. That's just me. That's all one personality stuff. You can try to date him, but if he in the hospital and doesn't care, good luck.

SPEAKER_00 37:04

I think it goes with what you said too like because um and I feel this way about every person like I feel like we all have like good things and we all have some kind of sort of not so good things whatever that may be so like how you say like in one of your oldest daughter you can kind of sense a little bit of the good parts so I feel like you know if it's the good parts and dad feels like same like you said if it's the good parts then hey why not but when like you say when them bad parts I remember my dad He told my partner when I first introduced them to like face to face in person, he was like, yo, I don't like get into, you know, business or whatever. As long as she good, I'm good. I'll just let you know, you know, I've lived a good life, so I don't have a problem. You know, jail, prison, it's not. Right.

SPEAKER_01 37:55

See, see, me and your dad can rock, see. I rock with your dad because

SPEAKER_00 38:00

that's exactly how I feel. So I laughed about that thing.

SPEAKER_01 38:06

Renita's dad is right. Yes. And Renita's wrong. You don't have children. Y'all don't have choices in the matter. We can get rid of that little boy. You bring him in the house with his pants hanging off his ass and talking all that slang. Yo, what up, my nigga? And all that. Oh, yeah. Yeah, bro. You going out. You going out. Trust me. You going out of this one way or the other. Trust, believe. So, nah. I mean, but you do have to let your children grow up and kind of make their own bad decisions, but sometimes you got to save them from themselves, too. So, you know, with my daughter, it was trippy to me because my daughter, they introduced me to my daughter's boyfriend for the first time, and it was like, hey, guess what his name is? And I was like, what is his name? And they was like, Eric. And I That's my name. What are you talking about? His name is Eric. You dating a boy the same name as your daddy? Yeah. Okay, that's not weird to you? No? Okay, cool. If you like it, I love it. But like I said, as long as that Eric is understanding that this Eric will put a foot in his ass if he ever do anything wrong. A foot in his ass. If he ever do anything wrong by my baby girl, then we good. Yeah, there's no confusion, no need to twist nothing or mess nothing up with that, but yeah. Yeah, so let's go on to the next one. Starting today, well, whenever this was posted, I can't tell. I don't remember when this was actually posted, but starting this week sometime, lottery players can now use a debit card to buy tickets in South Carolina. Renita, how do you feel about that? Do you buy lottery tickets, Renita?

SPEAKER_00 39:52

I mean, from time to time, maybe like once every two months. Never

SPEAKER_01 39:56

hit?

SPEAKER_00 39:57

Not for nothing, over and above. The most I've ever hit four is 500. Don't

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text people listening. Remember that. I don't buy lottery tickets. I used to buy scratch off tickets back in the day. Um, not really a big every now and then if the power ball gets up to that like billion number it's so hard to avoid buying the ticket then because it's like that's a billion dollars man like i got a chance to win a billion dollars so sometimes i'll think about it then but other than that i'm not like an avid like lottery ticket guy so um to me that news was interesting because i knew It used to be a really hot topic for people to go into the local stores where they go to and try to buy tickets, and they wouldn't have cash on them, so they wanted to use their debit card, and that was always a big thing. Why can't I use my debit card? It's the same as money. Like, why is that a big deal? So I wonder what made them change their stance on letting people use debit cards now. But, um... It's different. I see the sales going up tremendously. I definitely see the sales going up astronomically with people being able to swipe that card. And so, I mean, that's a good thing for the lot. Well, I guess a good thing. I mean, gambling, you got to think about it as gambling either way. So for mental health purposes, I mean. People, you win some, you lose some. Don't go out here spending all your money on these lottery tickets thinking you're going to hit millions of dollars and be out there spending every dime you've got trying to get this million. It's not going to happen for everybody. Just got to understand you got to play responsibly. They put that in the ads, play responsibly. Do people listen to that? Hell no. They still go out and buy all these damn lottery tickets and as soon as they sit and they broke, I don't know what happened to all my money. I thought I had this money and I can't pay this bill now? Well, if you wasn't buying all them damn lottery tickets, you would have had that money. But yeah, I think that'll be interesting to see how the state handles the new system of using debit cards to buy lottery tickets. That'll be interesting. So, Renita, what you got for your next one?

SPEAKER_00 42:14

My next one, I saw this one and it was funny to me. I'm at the age where I realize my mom really needed that chicken when thawed when she came from work.

SPEAKER_01 42:26

He was trying to get killed. If your mama told you to pull that chicken out and you didn't have that chicken out, it was about to be a problem.

SPEAKER_00 42:35

Exactly. I saw that and it was funny to me because as a kid, growing up, that was the thing. Especially in the summertime, school out, you better have that chicken, that pork chop, whatever she told you.

SPEAKER_01 42:48

Whatever she told you to pull out that freezer, you better pull it out. You better not have it.

SPEAKER_00 42:52

And don't think you're going to pull it out like two hours before she's supposed to get home. Don't you

SPEAKER_01 42:56

do it.

SPEAKER_00 42:56

You better pull that thing out. Like me, my mom used to tell me, like in the morning before she go to work, she have a little ritual. You know, she playing gospel music, praying and whatever. I just go ahead and pull it out. Like right then. Okay, mom, it's in the sink.

SPEAKER_01 43:11

You got to. Yes. But as an adult, as you got older, you understand why that is. Yes, yes. It's not you cooking for yourself. It's like that's the worst thing to do is to come in in there and you ain't got your stuff ready to prep to cook and you gotta sit there and wait for it to thaw out and it's like now I get it yeah that sucks now I gotta go rethink my whole menu now I can't even cook what I wanted to cook

SPEAKER_00 43:35

man y'all about to get a fried egg

SPEAKER_01 43:37

sandwich not a fried egg

SPEAKER_00 43:40

sandwich yeah I'm from the country fried egg sandwich yes you

SPEAKER_01 43:43

gonna stick a little bit of bologna on that

SPEAKER_00 43:45

joint I mean if you want bologna I should like just a fried egg

SPEAKER_01 43:49

sandwich fried egg sandwich Or

SPEAKER_00 43:53

some maters and grits.

SPEAKER_01 43:55

Oh, you are from the country,

SPEAKER_00 43:56

for sure. Oh, yeah, I'm from the country. Maters and grits. I will eat grits every day. I still do. I eat grits every day. Every day? Every day. I can't get tired of grits. Can't get tired. Grits and maters, grits and fish, grits and eggs, grits by themselves, grits and okra. Every

SPEAKER_01 44:14

day?

SPEAKER_00 44:15

Every day I eat grits.

SPEAKER_01 44:17

Oh, okay. Well, I mean... Okay. And that goes back to big back, big back. That's exactly what them kids be talking to. Big back, big back. Grits right there. You got to leave them alone. It's hard. Yeah, I know. It definitely is. All right, guys. We have reached the Watchers hot take of the day. So we got a real hot one for you today. This one was presented to me and shown to me, and I thought it was an interesting question. It says, Meg Thee Stallion got a new rich man every season. Is that goals or gold digging? What y'all think? What do you think, Renita? Now, Meg Thee Stallion is a rapper who has her own money. She's famous. She has her own money. She has her own career. But she does seem to date a lot of rich men, rich, influential men with money. Do you look at that as her looking for a rich man, or do you think she just attracts a certain type of man?

SPEAKER_00 45:26

No, I mean, because like you said, Meg got her own money. So it's like, you know, you got to realize that's who she's around. You know what I mean? And that's who she's around. Like you said, that's who she attracts. So it's not like she trying to gold dig. I mean, she have her own money.

SPEAKER_01 45:40

But what would you say to people that would think that that's a version of gold digging? Because... even as a person who has her own money. Okay, say she's got, you know, she's worth about $2 million, but she's only dating guys that are worth $10 million or more. Do you feel like that's a form of gold digging because she's sitting that bar that high?

SPEAKER_00 46:03

No, I don't feel like that's gold digging, no.

SPEAKER_01 46:07

No? Mm-mm. Let's just go where we get to. I

SPEAKER_00 46:11

mean, million and millions. I mean, two million and ten million. Yes, it is a difference, but it's like... It's a big difference. I won't say that it's just money. You know what I mean? Because it's like, okay, it's just like kind of who you're around. Like, most people that, like, you know... From high school, I know several people that were dating from school. They end up getting married and having kids because that's who they're around. Right. You know what I mean? So I'm not going to say that it's a gold digging. And then for the people that see it that way, I mean, maybe they have their... Their opinions on how, but I don't see that as gold digging. Because, you know, the crazy part is, like, if she was, like, let's say, get some random guy, you know what I mean? And then you got to think, like, she from Houston. So, like, most of them, like, even when, they already sitting good on money because, you know, dope boys, you know, they flipping cars, they doing whatever. So, they getting money either way. They just getting money. You know, so, it's like, but if she was to get, like, a regular person, I feel like the same people would be like, oh, she got this random Joe off the street. He ain't got nothing going on for himself. Blase, blase, blase. And then when Meg, Meg just having fun. I mean, you listen to her raps. She just having fun.

SPEAKER_01 47:21

Yeah. Having a little fun. But okay, so the other side of that, like you just said, if she was dating a regular guy, would he be a gold digger? if he had just a regular job and you know he just nobody would he be a gold digger

SPEAKER_00 47:37

i could see where people would say that but me personally again like you gotta like the way i think a lot of people say that it's messed up it's effed up but me personally i wouldn't say that i would say you know because we really don't know we on the outside looking in so they could just be having fun

SPEAKER_02 47:53

and

SPEAKER_00 47:55

she could be spending money she could not be spending money you know what I mean it could just be something that she's doing you know cause like even like when she was with Party I mean he wasn't like on her level Financially. You see what I'm saying? So it was like, yo, what's she doing with him? You know what I mean? So it's like, she may just be having fun. I don't know,

SPEAKER_01 48:16

party. I think party might have been. Maybe not as. Yeah. But he was up there. Party's pretty, I guess.

SPEAKER_00 48:23

Yeah, she may just be having a little fun. If she wasn't having a real guy, I wouldn't say that he was a gold digger. I would say he was digging for gold.

SPEAKER_01 48:33

Wow. Wow. I see where you're going with that one. Yeah, I'm sure.

SPEAKER_00 48:42

He wouldn't be gold digging. He'd just be digging for gold. Gotcha. Find the treasure, little

SPEAKER_01 48:50

nigga.

SPEAKER_00 48:50

Find the

SPEAKER_01 48:50

treasure. Oh, my God. Well, I mean, yeah, Megan is entitled to date who she is, and I do believe, like you said, if she's around rich people or around nothing but all these millionaire, billionaire guys, of course that's who she's going to date or have fun with, like you said. It doesn't make her a gold digger. If she was expecting to land one of these guys and get knocked up by them and end up, you know, saying okay i don't care about having a career anymore because i got a rich baby daddy that might make me look at her and say okay well yeah she's got some gold digger tendencies to

SPEAKER_02 49:28

her

SPEAKER_01 49:29

but um i like you said she's just having fun she's still very much going through with her career she's still out touring she's still making music um i don't see what's wrong with her dating rich guys um If the guys are cool with it, I mean, I know the guys are going to probably be like, yeah, I don't care, you know, if she wanted all my money, half my money, all my money, I'd give it to her just for that chance because, you know, she's a beautiful woman. So the guys are going to be looking at her and saying, oh, yeah, I want to get that, and whatever it takes to get that, I'm going to spend that on that. So, yeah, that's going to be another big part of – why she's dating these guys because they're coming at her so hard, more than likely a lot harder than, like you said, the average normal guy. But the average normal guy might be what she likes. Like you said, she just might like to be out in public and having fun with these rich guys and might be like, okay, when I get ready to settle down, I'm just going to find me an average girl that nobody know. Because a lot of celebrities rather have that type of lifestyle of a guy that is not in the industry. Nobody knows him. Nobody's ever seen him before. and they keep them to their self in peace. And that way they can keep their peace in their relationship. And also another side of it too is maybe she's dating guys that can actually understand her career and the fact that she's going to be out traveling. She's going to be out touring. She's going to be out doing shows. And she don't want a guy that's going to be sitting there expecting her to be laid up at home cooking dinner and waiting for him to get home. So maybe she's dating guys that can understand those types of qualities because that is a big thing for especially celebrities that, you know, they can't just date regular people who don't understand the lifestyle that they live and that they're not going to always be around and they're sitting there soaking like you ain't never home. And it's like, yeah, I'm working, Negro. Like, what the heck you want me to do? Sit up under you and let's be both sitting there broke? Like, what the hell? All right, Tyrone, go on, sit on the back over there on the couch and chill. I'm going to make this money. Like, yeah, so that does factor into it, I believe, too. You know, dating guys that can understand her lifestyle and the lifestyle that she's leading as an entertainer. So I definitely don't look at it as gold digging. Like you said, it's dating where you're at, dating with yourself surroundings. And she's definitely, you know, she's been through quite a few guys. So, I mean, we'll see how, maybe she'll, who knows, maybe she'll settle down. Meg's got, Meg's young. Meg's, what, 20s? Something like that. So, she's young. She having fun right now. She ain't thinking about no settling down and marrying nobody. But that somebody might not necessarily be this rich billionaire guy. Like

SPEAKER_00 52:21

Nikki. Nikki. Yeah, she double back with somebody she knew from like a kid, you know, teenage year and just a regular guy. But she knew him from, you know, before she was. He's a regular street guy though, so I don't know regular. Yeah, them New York dudes, they be, you know, same thing. What about them

SPEAKER_01 52:38

New York

SPEAKER_00 52:40

guys? They be getting money, you know, they might be like, seem like a regular guy, but they, you know, do they little dibble dabble, do they little dibble

SPEAKER_02 52:46

dabble.

SPEAKER_01 52:51

That's okay. It's okay. New York guys be in their bag. Okay. But this that's been this week's episode. Yeah. How did you have fun? How'd you like those topics? You like those?

SPEAKER_00 53:13

Yeah, it was good. It was your

SPEAKER_01 53:14

favorite one of the day today. Overall.

SPEAKER_00 53:20

Favorite one. My favorite one, again, would have to be like the like showing appreciation for what you have and not just, you know. Because even, like, I'm speaking for myself, like, sometimes you just get so comfortable and complacent to just, like, really just, like, give thanks. That's one of the things that I've been, like, working on with myself, like, just being more grateful over, because you never know. Nobody knows, like, when it's gone. You know, you know your birthday, but you don't know your end day. So it's, like, appreciation, give thanks. Please

SPEAKER_01 53:52

give appreciation and thanks for everything. And

SPEAKER_00 53:54

praise. Like,

SPEAKER_01 53:55

got to. All the little things for sure. And on that positive note I think we're going to end things off here make sure y'all listen and tune in every Thursday for our newest episodes we come back to you live with some more reels more feeds more funny overall content just coming to y'all live from one of the best studios here in Florence digital based media group make sure y'all check in with them for all your digital based needs digital marketing digital photography films voiceovers everything you can think of we do here at Digital Based Media Group so check in over here at Digital Based Media Group and get your needs met thank you everybody for tuning in and we'll see y'all next week peace