My Life in Heels

Episode 23 Dating, Desire, and Dysphoria | My Life in Heels

Tiffany Scott

Dating as a trans woman—or even allowing yourself to be desired—can feel complicated, vulnerable, and deeply emotional.
In this episode of My Life in Heels, I talk honestly about dating, desire, and dysphoria—how they show up in our bodies, our hearts, and our relationships. From wanting to be wanted, to navigating fetishization, to setting boundaries when dysphoria appears during intimacy, this episode is a gentle but real conversation for trans women and crossdressers who are figuring it out as they go.
This isn’t advice from a distance—it’s lived experience, reflection, and reassurance that you are not broken for wanting connection, safety, and love.
✨ In this episode:
• Wanting to be desired without shame
• The difference between fetish and real connection
• How dysphoria can show up while dating or being intimate
• Red flags, green flags, and trusting your gut
• A listener reflection moment to check in with yourself
If dating has ever made you feel like you needed to shrink, hide, or apologize for who you are—this episode is for you.
👠 My Life in Heels is a podcast about trans womanhood, self-discovery, courage, and choosing yourself—one step at a time.

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