#34: Through Her Eyes: A Conversation With My Daughter About the Life We're Living

In this heartfelt episode, Ashley chats with her daughter Ellery about their homeschooling lifestyle, family routines, and life values. The conversation offers insights into intentional living, the importance of peace and organization, and the dreams of a young girl growing up in a close-knit family.

In This Episode: 

• Homeschooling lifestyle and routines
• Family values and peace at home
• Children's dreams and future aspirations

Chapters:
00:00
Introduction and Purpose of the Conversation

01:23
Summer Excitements and Outdoor Adventures

02:10
Favorite Parts of Homeschooling and Daily Routine

03:46
Balancing Calm and Busy Days

04:54
Sleep Schedule and Weekday Routine

05:33
Family Life and Social Interactions

06:52
Living as an Only Child and Family Dynamics

07:53
Outdoor Activities and Family Bonding

08:45
Living Next to Family and Community Life

09:32
Family Peace and Home Environment

10:55
Organization and Respect for Personal Space

11:29
What Makes Her Happy and Self-Reflection

11:56
Creating a Happy Home and Chores

13:10
Mom's Love and Favorite Activities

14:10
Self-Perception and Personal Strengths

15:27
Future Dreams and Aspirations

16:17
Ideal Life and Family Goals

17:21
Dream House and Living Location

18:42
Living Close to Family and Community Benefits

19:15
What Matters Most in Life

19:28
What Makes Someone a Good Person

20:08
Advice for Other Moms and Kids

21:13
Reflections on Life and Small Moments

21:40
Closing Remarks and Life Inspiration

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Transcript

SPEAKER_02 0:00

If you've been listening this season, we've talked a lot about slowing down, living more intentionally, creating a life you don't need to escape from. And today I wanted to do something a little different. I want to hear from someone who is actually living inside that life with me every single day. My daughter Ellerie. Welcome to the Let Me Help Podcast, a lifestyle podcast packed with simple life hacks, organizational tips, real talk on faith and marriage, homeschooling insights, parenting encouragement, health and wellness conversations, and so much more. Whether you're busy juggling life, consumed in the chaos, or just craving some clarity, it's my intention to help make your life a little smoother. One episode at a time. Okay, guys, welcome back to the podcast. Today's episode is a really special one. And my hope for this conversation isn't that it sounds perfect, but that it feels real. Because at the end of the day, this is what all of those choices look like in real life. So, Ellery, do you want to say hello? Hi. I'm really excited for this because people get to hear me talk all the time, but they haven't heard from you in a while. So we're just gonna chat, okay? You ready for this? Yeah. Take a sip. Cheers.

SPEAKER_01 1:20

Cheers.

SPEAKER_02 1:21

So I have told everyone that you just turned nine. We're getting close to summer. What are you most excited about for summer?

SPEAKER_01 1:27

Turtle hunting.

SPEAKER_02 1:28

Turtle hunting. What do you do with turtle hunting?

SPEAKER_01 1:31

Go in the boat with my cousin Drew and catch turtles. Sure.

SPEAKER_02 1:37

In the pond, right?

SPEAKER_01 1:38

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:39

Because we have a pond behind our house and it you guys like to hunt for turtles.

SPEAKER_01 1:44

Yep.

SPEAKER_02 1:44

They're quick and they're hard to catch.

SPEAKER_01 1:46

Yeah. And he basically jumps in the pond. Yeah. For most of them.

SPEAKER_02 1:53

So you and I spend a lot of time together. What's your favorite part about our days?

SPEAKER_01 1:57

Learning.

SPEAKER_02 1:59

Learning, which is what we call our homeschool. Right. So we've never really called it like let's sit down and do school.

SPEAKER_01 2:07

We say Let's sit down and do some learning. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 2:11

Yeah. So what what do you like about being homeschooled? Or what's your favorite part?

SPEAKER_01 2:15

To be home and where I can get to wear my pajamas until the afternoon, basically.

SPEAKER_02 2:24

When you say pajamas, what do you mean?

SPEAKER_01 2:26

Like comfortable clothes.

SPEAKER_02 2:28

Lounge clothes.

SPEAKER_01 2:29

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 2:29

So you wear your pajamas, but what does it look like in the morning time? You still have a routine. What do you do?

SPEAKER_01 2:35

I brush my hair and brush my teeth and get some like comfortable lounge clothes on that's not quite pajamas.

SPEAKER_02 2:42

Right. So for instance, right now you're wearing this adorable. Tell people what you have on right now.

SPEAKER_01 2:48

I'm wearing this peach sweatsuit.

SPEAKER_02 2:53

Your grandma got it for you for Easter, right? It's like a coral lounge set. It's super cute. So you still have to get dressed for the day. You don't get to just be in your jam jams all day.

SPEAKER_01 3:03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 3:04

Cause some people might think that homeschool kids don't have to get ready.

SPEAKER_01 3:08

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 3:08

But we still get ready for the day.

SPEAKER_01 3:10

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 3:10

Right? So what does a normal day look like for you?

SPEAKER_01 3:14

Wake up, brush my teeth, brush my hair, get dressed, then go downstairs, get some breakfast, and then do learning and then free time.

SPEAKER_02 3:24

Yeah. It's springtime, so we're gonna start to begin our mornings outside with walks, right?

SPEAKER_01 3:29

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 3:29

Do you enjoy that?

SPEAKER_01 3:30

Yes, I do.

SPEAKER_02 3:31

I think that that really makes a difference with our learning when we first kind of wake up, get ourselves a little bit ready for the day, get some water in our systems, go for a walk, then come back in.

SPEAKER_01 3:43

Do learning.

SPEAKER_02 3:44

Jump into learning while we make breakfast. How about making breakfast? How's that gone this year?

SPEAKER_01 3:49

Pretty good.

SPEAKER_02 3:50

Because that's something kind of new and fun.

SPEAKER_01 3:52

Yeah, because I've started to make my own.

SPEAKER_02 3:55

Yep. Make your own eggs and toast and get your fruit all cut up and everything, right? Yeah. That's pretty cool.

SPEAKER_01 4:01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 4:02

So let's see. What do you feel like your days are like? Do they feel calm? Are they busy? Are they rushed? Are they relaxed? Like how would you describe how it feels to be home?

SPEAKER_01 4:15

Well, it's like some days were rushed, like yesterday, to get up, go to church, and then go to the theater for Easter and then go to grandma's. Yep. So that was kind of rushed, but most of the time it's like not that rushed. We get to sleep in.

SPEAKER_02 4:33

Yeah, what time do you usually wake up? People are probably curious about our schedule.

SPEAKER_01 4:38

Eight seven thirty.

SPEAKER_02 4:40

Yeah, you're usually up by eight. I think if you sleep past eight, that's good. Rare and it's sleeping in.

SPEAKER_01 4:46

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 4:46

But you're probably not up usually before seven.

SPEAKER_01 4:48

I'm like up seven thirty.

SPEAKER_02 4:50

Probably, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 4:51

Or at 7.15.

SPEAKER_02 4:52

What time do you go to bed?

SPEAKER_01 4:53

Like nine, but kind of 10-ish.

SPEAKER_02 4:56

Yep, I'd say probably not earlier than nine, but not later than 10.

SPEAKER_01 5:00

Yeah. Right.

SPEAKER_02 5:00

Okay, so you described Sunday being busy, but how would you describe our like Monday through Friday? The weekdays.

SPEAKER_01 5:09

Monday through Friday.

SPEAKER_02 5:10

You know, the days that we do learning. How do you describe the feeling of those days?

SPEAKER_01 5:14

Friday's not that rushed, but we do have my cousin over for learning. So it's like fun. It's like one of the funner days for learning. Um, and the other days are calm and fun and kind of relaxing.

SPEAKER_02 5:34

We kind of have different things that we do each day, right?

SPEAKER_01 5:36

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 5:37

Tuesdays you either come with and you get to do homeschool with some of your friends, right? For in Brooklyn. And there's on Fridays, we usually have um my our niece with us. So she has her cousin here. So two days out of the week, I'd say she gets to do school or homeschool with other kids. Yeah. And then I don't know, like Fridays, like we clean the house on Fridays. So that has a different, you know, we grocery shop one of the days, right? Yeah. So every day kind of has something different built into it. But we're pretty, we do pretty much stay on routine, don't we?

SPEAKER_01 6:13

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 6:14

Do you like that about our life?

SPEAKER_01 6:16

I do.

SPEAKER_02 6:17

Why?

SPEAKER_01 6:18

Well, it's just like not as busy as other people's lives. Like, for instance, like other people who have like public school, they have to get up really early and they're kind of rushed. So I like about our life that I can sleep in and I don't have to wake up by like seven a.m. every day.

SPEAKER_02 6:40

I've had two kids get up earlier than seven to go to school.

SPEAKER_01 6:43

Yeah, like six, I don't know. I've never been.

SPEAKER_02 6:49

Okay, so you have always been an only child. What's that like? It's fun.

SPEAKER_01 6:55

Like sometimes it's really fun to have some alone time, but sometimes it's kind of boring not to have someone to play with. So in the summertime and like late spring or early spring, I s will go to my cousins a lot more often. But it's really nice to have some peace and quiet.

SPEAKER_02 7:17

So for those people who don't know, we my husband's brother lives right next door to us.

SPEAKER_01 7:22

With five kids.

SPEAKER_02 7:23

With five kids. And we live in the country, so we're both kind of secluded. There's like some fun woods just between our house, and the kids really enjoy outdoor life.

SPEAKER_01 7:33

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 7:34

You know, like we already mentioned, searching for turtles in the pond and going through the woods. What are some other things that you guys like to do?

SPEAKER_01 7:41

Well, my well, from the five cousins, uh, the youngest one likes to capture frogs. I don't really like frogs, they're kind of slimy and groves. I do, I will hold them sometimes though.

SPEAKER_02 7:59

But you go along for the adventure.

SPEAKER_01 8:01

Yeah. Or salamanders, yuck. But I still go on the adventures.

SPEAKER_02 8:08

So they're a little bit more um crazy. I was gonna say adventurous or daring than you. But you seem to fit right in.

SPEAKER_01 8:17

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 8:17

So do you ever wish you had your own siblings?

SPEAKER_01 8:20

I do sometimes.

SPEAKER_02 8:21

But you know that they'd live here with us full time, right?

SPEAKER_01 8:25

Yeah. Or we could just send them to my cousin's house.

SPEAKER_02 8:28

No, that's not how that works. I think you kind of live the best of both worlds, being that we have cousins so close. Yeah. I really look at that as an answer to prayer and a godsend to probably to them and to you, because when they need a little bit of a break because they have so many siblings, they can always come over here, right? Our door is always open. This is like a second home for them where they can come and have a little bit more of a peace and quiet situation. And when you're bored here or looking for some adventure, you can always go over there and find some random stuff. Yeah, some chaos and some fun, right? What do you think our family does differently than other families that have more kids? Like, what do you see as the difference?

SPEAKER_01 9:17

Peace.

SPEAKER_02 9:20

Why? Do you see other like do you see big families as being chaotic?

SPEAKER_01 9:24

Yes, that's really funny. For instance, my cousins.

SPEAKER_02 9:28

What does it feel like to be a part of our family?

SPEAKER_01 9:32

Um, happiness, love, and peace. Be quiet.

SPEAKER_02 9:37

That sounds like I told you to say that to people. Why do you come up with those three things?

SPEAKER_01 9:43

Because it's true.

SPEAKER_02 9:44

So you keep kind of saying peace and calming in our house. Is that important to you?

SPEAKER_01 9:49

Well, I feel like it's comfortable not to be like other people screaming and having a TV on the whole time.

SPEAKER_02 9:59

So we do not, we really rarely turn our TV on. I mean, at nighttime we have it on when we're ready to sit down and relax and watch something, but we are not a family that has the TV on a lot. And we notice when we go to other houses, so many people keep their TV on all the time.

SPEAKER_01 10:16

On like full volume. And it's kind of disrupting and annoying.

SPEAKER_02 10:24

It's a lot of um, it's just a lot of noise when you're not used to it. So maybe that's a tip for some listeners. If they have chaos in their life and maybe they don't even realize that they have their TV on full blast, right? Well, pro tip, maybe just turn that down or off. What do you think is special about our family?

SPEAKER_01 10:48

What I think special is Well, what do you think special is like our calming and how we like to keep our things organized? And like none of our houses are messy.

SPEAKER_02 11:04

Do you like that?

SPEAKER_01 11:05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 11:06

Do you think that you'd be like that if you had more siblings, or it'd be harder to be a little bit more organized?

SPEAKER_01 11:11

Probably a little harder.

SPEAKER_02 11:14

How do you feel when people come and mess with your stuff?

SPEAKER_01 11:18

Um, I'm kind of annoyed.

SPEAKER_02 11:22

Oh my gosh, you probably get that from me. You think you get that from me or dad? You okay. What do you love most about your life? My life? This is personal now. You don't have to think about it just me and dad and you as an only child, but just you personally. What do you love about your life?

SPEAKER_01 11:40

What I like about my life is um well here, how about this?

SPEAKER_02 11:50

When do you feel the happiest?

SPEAKER_01 11:51

I feel the happiest around my family.

SPEAKER_02 11:56

Um, what makes a home feel really good to you?

SPEAKER_01 12:00

Our home or just at home?

SPEAKER_02 12:02

Our home, but maybe like when you get older, when you have your own home, what will you want it to feel like?

SPEAKER_01 12:07

Clean.

SPEAKER_02 12:08

Clean.

SPEAKER_01 12:10

Happiness, joyful.

SPEAKER_02 12:13

Want people to be getting along and enjoying each other in the house and being happy about their days and their let's talk about that. What about when we have chores to do? You know, for instance, this morning we've already made breakfast, done dishes, done some learning. Um typically in the mornings I have you pick up, like clean up your room a little bit and that kind of stuff, right? What what does it feel like to have chores to do?

SPEAKER_01 12:40

Well, it's like medium fun. Medium fun? Yeah, it's like not the well for me, it's not the happiest thing to do right as I wake up. But it's also pretty fun to organize my things. So like medium.

SPEAKER_02 12:57

So maybe just the timing of the day?

SPEAKER_01 12:59

Yeah, probably. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 13:02

So it sounds like you really cherish your mornings. You don't like to be rushed and you don't want to have to jump into something right away in the morning.

SPEAKER_01 13:08

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 13:09

So remember when I put a picture of you online and I asked people some questions that they wanted to ask?

SPEAKER_00 13:15

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 13:16

Okay. They some people want to know what do you love most about your mom?

SPEAKER_01 13:21

She loves me.

SPEAKER_02 13:22

How much I love you.

SPEAKER_01 13:25

And uh I just really like how much she loves me and takes care of me.

SPEAKER_02 13:34

I love taking care of you. That's one of my favorite things. What's one of your favorite things that we do together?

SPEAKER_01 13:41

Shopping.

SPEAKER_02 13:43

Like grocery shopping or yeah, grocery shopping. What do you love about grocery shopping? Cause I love it too. I just I bet you people might think that that's kind of funny. Like, what? I love grocery shopping. Well We do.

SPEAKER_01 13:58

Yeah, because I get to see Auntie Kim. Mm-hmm. And I don't know, it's just fun.

SPEAKER_02 14:05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 14:06

I don't know, it's just really fun.

SPEAKER_02 14:08

Okay. Um, how about what are some things you really like about yourself?

SPEAKER_01 14:13

Do we just do this one?

SPEAKER_02 14:15

No, this is that was about your life. Now this is about you.

SPEAKER_01 14:19

Oh, um, what do I like about myself?

SPEAKER_02 14:21

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 14:23

Um I like how I'm a leader. And I I like my smile.

SPEAKER_02 14:30

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 14:32

And yeah.

SPEAKER_02 14:33

I love that you're a leader. That's one of my favorite things about you. What do you think you're really good at?

SPEAKER_01 14:38

Uh what I think I'm really good at? What I think I'm really good at is probably I don't really know actually.

SPEAKER_02 14:45

You don't? I don't.

SPEAKER_01 14:47

This is actually it should be an easy question. I don't. Well, you're good at a lot of things.

SPEAKER_02 14:53

I know.

SPEAKER_01 14:53

I can't think of any for some reason.

SPEAKER_02 14:55

When I look at you, I mean, throughout the entire time being your mom, even as a baby and as a toddler, you have always been such a good listener. You are very respectful, you follow the rules, you don't want to get yelled at. You just don't ever want to rock the boat, like make any sort of drama or problems. That's a really good thing.

SPEAKER_01 15:21

And I'm terrible.

SPEAKER_02 15:22

Oh, sorry, go ahead.

SPEAKER_01 15:23

Okay. Um, and I'm a really bad liar, which is good.

SPEAKER_02 15:27

That is good. Not she cannot tell a fib. You can see it right on her face. And I tell her that's a wonderful thing.

SPEAKER_01 15:34

But for April Fool's Day it was not that great. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 15:37

She had a hard time with April Fool's Day trying to mess with us.

SPEAKER_01 15:40

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 15:40

Okay. Future. What do you want to be when you grow up?

SPEAKER_01 15:43

Like as a job or anything.

SPEAKER_00 15:47

Well, for my job, I want to be a um, okay. I want to be a cashier for my job.

SPEAKER_02 15:55

Because you want to scan food? Yes.

SPEAKER_00 15:58

It's fun.

SPEAKER_02 15:59

What else? What about when you get like older, older?

SPEAKER_01 16:02

Get retired. You want to retire?

SPEAKER_02 16:06

If you could do anything in the whole world, what would you do? Be cashier. No. You are thinking too small. Like you always talk about going to space, swimming with orcas, like anything in the entire world, Ellery.

SPEAKER_01 16:20

Oh, that's these orcas.

SPEAKER_02 16:22

Swimming with orcas?

SPEAKER_01 16:23

Yeah. Or having a pet orca, which is probably illegal.

SPEAKER_02 16:27

I don't think you can have a pet orca, but what are some of your dreams for your life when you get older? What do you want life to look like when you're an adult?

SPEAKER_01 16:34

Um, probably have a clean house and go to s like what do you mean?

SPEAKER_02 16:40

Yeah, like that. What do you want your life to look like? Are you married? Do you have kids? Do you want to be a mom one day?

SPEAKER_01 16:46

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 16:46

How many kids do you want?

SPEAKER_01 16:48

Two.

SPEAKER_02 16:48

Two.

SPEAKER_01 16:49

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_02 16:50

Uh boy and a girl, two boys. What are you thinking?

SPEAKER_01 16:53

Two girls.

SPEAKER_02 16:54

Okay, so you want a clean house, you want some kids. What do you want your relationship with your husband to look like?

SPEAKER_00 17:00

I want him to have a job.

SPEAKER_02 17:02

Yes, I hope he does. What else?

SPEAKER_00 17:05

Like, I want a job like you where I can still be at home with my kids, but also still have a job.

SPEAKER_02 17:12

Yes, that's a blessing. It's a blessing in my life. That would be awesome for you.

SPEAKER_00 17:16

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 17:17

What do you want your marriage to look like though?

SPEAKER_00 17:19

I don't really know how to think about that since I'm only nine.

SPEAKER_02 17:23

Well, do you want to like laugh a lot with your husband? Do you want to b like build a business together? Do you see your guys, you know, traveling and working a lot, or do you see yourselves like being home and relaxed a lot?

SPEAKER_01 17:36

Like oh, also one of the things that I want like to be in the whole entire world is also I want my house to kind of be like a bakery kind of.

SPEAKER_02 17:47

You live in the house and then it's the bakery also?

SPEAKER_01 17:51

There's like a part of my house is a bakery, but like a pe like this part would be a bakery, then up there would be actually my house.

SPEAKER_02 18:00

Okay. I like that idea. Where'd you come up with that?

SPEAKER_01 18:03

Um, a filter.

unknown 18:06

Oh.

SPEAKER_01 18:06

Like when I was on your phone looking at like filters. Um, it I did one that has a job and it had me as a bakery and I'm like, I kinda wanna do that. So yeah, that's how I decide that.

SPEAKER_02 18:22

Where do you want your house to be? Where do you want to live?

SPEAKER_01 18:25

Up on our hill.

SPEAKER_02 18:26

So explain that. People probably don't know what that means.

SPEAKER_01 18:29

Um, so we have a hill and me and my cousin want to build a house on it. Or we want so like up like up the road, we have a house that has a slide built into it. So either like buy that house or build a house on top of our hill.

SPEAKER_02 18:55

You want to live nice and close to us? Yes. I do. I hope that that comes true.

SPEAKER_01 18:59

I hope too.

SPEAKER_02 19:01

Because I I think a lot of people think it could be stressful to live next to family, but what have you found with living next to family? Fun and loving. It's fun, right? You've always got people to count on, or if you need anything, they're right next door. What do you think matters most in life?

SPEAKER_01 19:21

What do I think matters? Um, like what does that mean?

SPEAKER_02 19:25

Like to anybody, what's the most important part of life if you had to tell somebody?

SPEAKER_01 19:29

What's the most important part that I say safe?

SPEAKER_02 19:34

That you stay safe? Yes. Okay. So in your mind, safety is the most important part. Yes. You want to feel safe? What makes somebody a good person?

SPEAKER_01 19:47

Believing in the Lord.

SPEAKER_02 19:49

Believing in the Lord. Why would that make them a better person?

SPEAKER_00 19:52

Because wait, that's a great question, actually. Well, because they get to go with the Lord, so like they can come up to heaven.

SPEAKER_02 20:02

Mm-hmm. And while we're down here before we go up to heaven, as we're walking through this life, when you have a relationship with Christ, you can rely on him to have to help you make better decisions.

SPEAKER_01 20:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 20:15

Right? So when we're walking with the Lord and we're confused about maybe something that we should do or not do, we can ask the Lord for guidance and he steers us in the right direction. Right? I agree with that. Yeah. Is there anything you would want other moms or kids to know? Mm-hmm that listen to this podcast. You know, a lot of people I think are just curious about our life that we are an only child family and that we homeschool. Is there anything that you want people to know about either of those things?

SPEAKER_01 20:47

If you want to homeschool, homeschool.

SPEAKER_02 20:50

Yes. Oh, I love that. That is so simple and it's so true. Do you know a lot of people deep down they have a desire or they're curious about homeschooling, but they don't think that they could do it. What would you tell them?

SPEAKER_01 21:04

If the Lord's telling you to homeschool, you should do it.

SPEAKER_02 21:08

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 21:08

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 21:09

I love that.

SPEAKER_01 21:10

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 21:12

I'm not gonna lie, that got me a little emotional. But this is why I wanted to do this episode because we can talk all day long about routines. And I have been I have been talking a lot during this season of the podcast to to these women who are listening about slowing down and building a meaningful life. But at the end of the day, this is really what it looks like. You know, this is our daily routine. This is our life. And I know not every season is easy. We've had really hard seasons too. And we're in one in some ways. Right now, we're in a hard season. But I hope this conversation reminds you of something really simple and really important. The way you're living your life is shaping someone, our babies, our kids, our nieces. Our nephews, maybe our neighbors or our coworkers, people are watching and people are picking up on the way you're living your life. And that doesn't mean you have to do it perfectly. It just means that the small everyday choices, they do matter. They matter much more than you think. And I truly believe that God is present in those small ordinary moments, in the conversations, in the time together, in the life that you're building one day at a time. So I just want to thank you for being here for this season. This one meant a lot to me. Uh, we're gonna take a short little break as we bounce into spring here and enjoy a little bit of summer, but we will be back. And until then, I just want to remind you to go love your life right where you are. God has a plan for you and you are meant to live on purpose. Ellery, you want to say goodbye? Bye. Bye. Bye. Thanks for listening. I hope there was something that blessed you in today's episode. If you enjoyed it, would you take a second to subscribe to the show or leave a quick review? It helps so much. And if you know someone who could use a little boost, please share this episode with them. Until next time, take care and thanks for letting me help.