HOUSE OF H.E.R
Welcome to the House of H.E.R. (Healed, Empowered, Rich) – a safe space and unapologetic movement for women who are rewriting their stories after abuse, heartbreak, understanding ADHD or simply losing themselves in the chaos of life.
Hosted by Hollie & Mollie two women who broke free from toxic relationships, faced their trauma head-on, got diagnosed with ADHD later in life and are now building empires while healing their hearts. We’re not experts we’re real women, having raw conversations about emotional abuse, ADHD, trauma bonding, self-worth, healing, empowerment, and financial independence.
This podcast is for the woman who feels stuck, silenced, or scared but knows deep down she’s meant for more. If you’re in your healing era, your selfish season, or you’re just ready to finally become her this is your home. Expect truth, tears, laughs, and the occasional F-bomb… because healing isn’t always pretty, but damn is it powerful.
Come as you are. Leave as H.E.R. Your home now X
HOUSE OF H.E.R
The Silent Crowd: Victim Shaming, Enabling, and the Cost of Standing By
In one of our most unfiltered and urgent conversations yet, we unpack the hidden harm of victim shaming and enabling: the moments when silence, minimisation, and misplaced loyalty feed abuse instead of stopping it. From family members brushing things under the rug to friends still inviting abusers to the barbecue, we name the ways “not getting involved” makes you part of the problem.
We share personal stories of being dismissed, doubted, and told “it’s not that bad,” and explore how that apathy can be more soul-crushing than the abuse itself. This episode isn’t just for survivors — it’s for friends, family, and bystanders who might one day be the lifeline someone needs.
It’s fierce, it’s raw, and it’s a call to action: stop excusing harm. Stop enabling it. And stop letting it hide in plain sight.
Trigger warning: contains discussion of abuse, victim shaming, suicide, and mental health.
10 ways you can help end violence against women:
- Listen to and believe survivors
- Teach the next generation and learn from them
- Call for responses and services fit for purpose
- Understand consent
- Learn the signs of abuse and how you can help
- Start a conversation
- Stand against rape culture
- Fund women's organizations
- Hold each other accountable
- Know the data and demand more of it
If you need support right now, here are some resources that may help:
National Domestic Abuse Helpline - 0808 200 0247
Samaritans (UK) – Call 116 123 (free, 24/7)
National Suicide Prevention Helpline (US) – Call or text 988
Crisis Text Line (US/UK) – Text HOME to 741741
Women’s Aid (UK) – womensaid.org.uk
‘I’m not sure if my relationship is healthy/ I’m worries about someone else/ I need support - The survivors handbook: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/informat...
Claires Law - Apply for information about your current or ex-partner because you're worried they may have a history of abuse and are a risk to you: https://www.met.police.uk/rqo/request...
We also have direct links to support resources on our landing page: https://stan.store/houseofherpod
We created what we needed when we were healing. Our house is your house.