Rock Bottom
We listen to podcasts of successful people and leave feeling worse about ourselves.
Rock Bottom flips that script. We revisit the hole before the breakthrough. We get comfortable. We reflect. And reframe what it means to be at rock bottom. Because the reality is, there’s a bunch of rock bottoms. Just like the Earth’s terrain. Highs and lows. Mountains and valleys. Eagles and those scary-ass looking deep sea creatures.
Rock Bottom
How to Start a Commune From Scratch w/ Sandra Bédigis Rueda / Rock Bottom Ep. 006
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Sandra Bédigis Rueda explains how she and her husband began by searching for land, sent a letter to their network, quickly formed an initial group, and ultimately grew to about 25 members after several land searches. She shares her background as a corporate expat in Congo and France, the burnout and political stress that pushed her to quit after a pivotal party conversation, and how she shifted toward alternative education for her kids, including a democratic school near Lisbon. Sandra outlines the Les Pas-Sages model’s eight pillars, covering egalitarian governance, anti-speculation, money-in/money-out exit protection, collective property, member selection, consent-based decision-making with veto, and long-term affordability, plus a distinction between intuition and anxiety.
00:00 Commune Dream Questions
00:59 Twin Oaks Inspiration
02:18 What This Episode Covers
03:40 Meet Sandra Rua
03:57 Finding Future Members
05:45 Letting People Come and Go
07:24 Conflict as a Skill
08:24 Structure Behind the Vision
10:28 Corporate Life in Congo
14:50 Burnout and Breaking Point
17:47 The Party That Changed Everything
22:01 Quitting and the Next Move
25:12 Choosing Portugal and New Schooling
26:20 Beyond Montessori Labels
26:44 Why Democratic Schools Inspire
27:37 Finding a School in Portugal
30:04 From Family Land to Community
30:51 Retreat Burnout and COVID Reality
32:36 Documentary Spark and Launch Letter
34:24 LIP Model Explained
35:38 Core Values and Governance Rules
41:39 Why Communities Matter Now
43:54 Systemic Aikido Using the System
45:22 Advice to Younger Self Intuition
49:53 Where to Find Sandra and Maya 62
50:23 Closing Thanks and Next Steps
Links from Sandra:
Sandra's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sandra_bedigisrueda_doula/
Enraizar School: https://www.enraizar.pt/
Her community project: website https://www.colmeia62.org/
Les Pas-Sages: https://www.les-pas-sages.org/international
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