The Root Cause for ADHD and if It’s Reversible

Are you or your child caught in the endless loop of ADHD symptoms, rushing from task to task and feeling like life never slows down? What if the true cause of ADHD isn’t in your brain, but in your energy field? Today, I reveal a radically different perspective that will make you rethink everything you know about diagnosis, healing, and the meaning behind restlessness. In this episode, you’ll discover why multitasking energy, packed schedules, and emotional overload are fueling the ADHD epidemic and what steps you can take to reclaim presence, intuition, and peace in your family. Ready to feel empowered instead of overwhelmed?

Topics Discussed:

• Why every physical diagnosis (including ADHD) begins as an energetic and emotional imbalance before symptoms show up in the body
• How the structure of the modern school system and “busy family” culture actually create the perfect environment for ADHD to thrive
• The role of parents’ multitasking energy and how kids mirror adult emotional states, especially before age 7
• Why it’s possible to reverse (yes, reverse) ADHD symptoms in both kids and adults by prioritizing rest, self-love, and environment shifts
• Simple, actionable strategies to break free from people-pleasing, packed schedules, and “dark force” conditioning without guilt

You are not powerless in the face of an ADHD diagnosis. With awareness, intention, and the right energetic shifts, you can rewrite your family’s story, starting today. Presence is the antidote, and you already hold the key.

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• The Source Truth of How to Pick the Right Education Path for Each of Your Children

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Welcome back to the Rooted Within podcast. My name is Megie, founder and CEO of Whole Family Health. This is where ancient wisdom and modern science come together. A return to wholeness, led by the wisdom that has always lived within you. Hello, you guys, and welcome back to another episode today. Today is gonna blow your mind, okay? We are gonna be talking about ADHD, which is so prevalent right now out in society. People getting diagnosed left and right. And my hope with this podcast is that you can understand from an energetic lens what is really going on when you are seeing some of the classic ADHD symptoms being displayed in either yourself as an adult or even in children. I hope to shed light on what is really going on behind the scenes with my medical diagnostician intuitive abilities and share some insight as well as clients I've worked with, what I've seen in this school education system, and kind of how we can be empowered when we feel like this diagnosis is on the table versus disempowered. Now, I would love so much if you guys have somebody struggling with this. I would love it if you referred them to this podcast. I feel like this is going to help so many people get a wider lens on what is really going on. Again, from an energetic or spiritual perspective, there is so much emphasis on the physical things that you can do when you have ADHD. And I want to do justice for the other 50%, which is causing the problem, which is the energetic, the emotional lens, and the spiritual lens. So if you guys have somebody that would benefit from this podcast, please send them here and we will get them the tools and the support and the resources they need to kind of overcome this obstacle. Okay, ADHD. Now, if you guys have been here for a little bit, you guys know a couple of things, right? You know that every single symptom, diagnosis, sickness, disease, condition in the body always happens first in the energetic body. So if you're new, this is the first time you're listening to this, somebody referred this to you. A really key concept I want you to understand is that we have two bodies. We have an energetic body and we have a physical body. When you train yourself to read energy, to be able to see energy, you are able to see the energetic body like you would the physical body. It is right there in front of you. You can see the cells moving. It's essentially a duplicate copy of the physical body. Has all the same organs there, has the same cell structure there as the physical body. Now, what we know on a scientific level is that the energetic body will house kind of your emotional state first. Okay, so if you are recruiting in a lot of obstacles, if you are emotionally imbalanced, if you are triggered by something, it's going to start in this energetic body first. If you hold on to that energy, you hold on to that anger, you hold on to that bitterness, you hold on to that resentment, it moves then into the physical body and starts shaping matter, starts moving your cells in the physical body. It always starts out in the energetic first, and then I literally can see a transfer into the physical. Now, with the scientifically trained intuition, we get things down to a decimal, we can see how many days before it turns into the physical, how many weeks, months, all of that. But essentially, if the energy is potent enough, if the energy is powerful enough, if the energy is loud enough in the energetic body, it will, without a shadow of a doubt, morph and transition to your physical body for you to deal with that diagnosis, that condition, and that obstacle. Okay. We know that every single thing that happens to our physical body starts out as an emotional state, starts out as a feeling that then turns into thoughts that then turns into moving the cells in your energetic body and then transitions over to your physical body. Every single diagnosis, ADHD, mental health, bipolar, we have any conditions that you may have. So autoimmune diseases, cancer, whatever is going on in your physical body started in your energetic body. And with intuition, we can see did it happen 10 years ago? Did it start out or did it originate in your energetic body 12 years ago, 15 years ago, 20 years ago? Has it been sitting in your body since you've been two years old? We are able to kind of see the timelines and begin mapping it out. And it always blows this community's mind that when I pull up a year of when it originated, the person almost always goes, Oh yeah, that happened that year. That event happened that year. Oh, I see how I was doing, I was embodying that emotional state at this time. That was the time of my parents' divorce. That was the time that I switched school. That was the time that this boyfriend broke up with me. That was this time. They can start to piece it together. And it's really beautiful because it gives our clients in our community so much clarity of wow, I was in this emotional state. This perfectly lines up with this event that happened. I see how I've been role-playing this emotional state the rest of my life. I see how I did it today. I see how I did it yesterday. I see how I did it last week. If you are still holding on to the body symptom, it means that you are still holding on to that emotional state. It's very, very, very fascinating to see how this plays out. And ADHD is no different. So if you have the energetic, emotional feeling of self that you multitask too much and you are not present with each task, if you are holding those feelings, going, oh my gosh, I'm all over the place, I'm scatterbrained, I have too much going on, I'm multitasking too much, and I'm not present in the moment with each task, you will be a prime candidate for having ADHD. Again, you have to have an event, an original moment where you have that thought, you embody those feelings in your energetic blueprint, in your energetic body. And then if that feeling gets strong enough, if that feeling gets loud enough, if it's potent enough, if it happens for a very long time, that will actually change the matter and the cells in your brain to be a prime candidate for ADHD. Okay. And brains, yes, look different within ADHD. If you have ADHD, your brain will look different than somebody that does not have ADHD. How do I know? I can see the cells inside of your body. I can see what a brain looks like. This is part of the training that I have done to be in the field that I am. It's a very, very fascinating, and yes, you can do this too. We have a lot of programs where you can go off and train your intuition so that you have some of these abilities too, because we all have the ability to do this. It's just whether or not you go out and train it and make something that your body is already doing on a subconscious level, you're intuiting, you're eating energy all the time on a subconscious level. Now we just train it just like a muscle, like we're working out a muscle, to be able to do it on a conscious level, to be able to physically see energy move. It's so, so, so fascinating. So, although ADHD brain is real and looks different than somebody that would quote unquote not have ADHD, it is all coming back to the same root cause, which is that you are energetically, emotionally holding the story that you multitask too much and you're not in the present moment with each task. That is the translation the body is trying to tell you if you've been diagnosed with ADHD. Now, I'm hearing a lot of thoughts right now, going, well, if I have ADHD, is there something I can do? Can I energetically fix it? The answer will always be yes. I will forever till the day I die, die on the hill that you can always self-heal. I have seen it happen way too many times for anyone to ever convince me differently. You will always be able to self-heal any body symptom that you have if you understand what got you there in the first place, and you know the body talk, the communication with body, to understand the steps that need to take place on a physical level and an energetic level to course correct the diagnosis, the conditioning, the disease, all of it. You have to have the different knowledge pieces and the integration pieces in order to have the full instruction manual on how to self-heal, but it is always possible. It is always possible. So can you crawl back from having an ADHD diagnosis? Absistink and your kids? Oh my gosh, absolutely. Yes, your kids, if your kids have been diagnosed with ADHD, they are hundred times more likely to be able to reverse engineer out of that quickly, more quickly than you as an adult. Why? Because we do a lot of neuroscience work here. As an adult, you have much more established and strengthened neural pathways than your kiddos. Your kiddos are just still kind of piecemealing things together. They have strengthened neural pathways, but it's very easy to extinguish it versus, you know, as a grown woman, as a grown adult, having 20, 30, 40, 50 plus years of holding that emotional balance or imbalance per se, holding that feeling that you've been holding since you were a little girl, it has a lot more of a strengthened pathway than your kids. Okay. So just a disclaimer, you can always self-heal with the right tools, with the right knowledge, with the right integration. Now, what is really interesting? There's a couple things that play into our kiddos having ADHD. Okay. And as a little bit of a background context for you, if this is the first time you're listening to the podcast, I have two bachelor's degrees. I have one in emotional and behavioral disabilities, and I also have one in just general education. And my prime experience since I've been, man, like 17, 16 years old, has been working with elementary aged children. I do have experience with middle school and high school, but I would say my jam, my expertise is in elementary aged children, in behavior analysis, in emotional work, all of it has been my area of expertise. Now, as a first grade teacher, working with children that had emotional and behavioral disabilities and who were considered general education students, what I saw was a couple of different things that I firmly believe from my lens, both intuitively and in just my physical real life experiences, some of the things that I saw that are playing into this over-diagnosis of ADHD is in part the structure of our education system. Now, as a first grade teacher, our school had very, very high expectations for young children. Okay. It wasn't working with our body's biology, but rather working against our body's biology. Now, intuitively looking in, I can see how our bodies are developing when we are young versus, you know, 10, 11, 12, so on and so forth. We need, as a human race, in those younger years, time to explore, time to go about our passion, time to run and expend energy out of our system. I don't care which gender your child is or anything like that. As a human being, we need downtime to run, to play, to explore, to yell. That is all expending stored energy inside of our body and getting it outside of our body. It is expending that built-up, pent-up energy. Okay. And when we have a school system structure where the kids are being asked to stand quietly in a line for long periods of time, go to auditoriums, sit still and watch a play they don't give a rip about because it's fifth graders and they're kindergartners and they don't really understand it and they don't really care. And when we're asking them to sit still, crisscross applesauce on a carpet square, listening to a story. That is really, really, really high expectations for young age groups. Very high expectations. It is not working with our bodies. It is asking the bodies to go well beyond what on average it is capable of. And if you're sitting there going, well, some kids can do it, right? Some kids can be quiet, some kids can, you know, fake it till you make it and can sit for the whole story. Yes, some children can do it. Is it biologically what they should be doing? Absolutely not. Can they muster up that energy and contain it for long periods of time and go against their body's natural rhythm? They can. Some select groups can, but that energy will burst out of them later. I saw it all the time as a first grade teacher. The kids would get picked up after school, and the parents would come in and be like, they are bananas. They are bouncing off the walls. They are crazy. And would always tell them, yeah, they've had to hold it together for all day. They are ready to release that energy. This day was really hard on them, not as in like something happened, but just containing their energy to people please for a big length of time is really hard on such a little body. I will even say, you guys, I'm not talking just pre-K and K. I will say going into first, second, third, fourth, after the age of fourth grade, fifth grade on, they have a little bit different developments where they can kind of contain that energy for a longer period of time. But those younger ages, they will look. And if you can see energy, it looks like energy is literally oozing out of them. Like it is spilling over. They cannot control it. And yes, every child is different. They will have different variability markers of how much energy they can control, how much energy they can contain, how much control they have. Some will have less control than others. Okay. It is case-by-case basis, but I'm talking as a whole, it is biologically too much for most kids to be contained and hold that energy in. Now, a lot of the times a personality trait that can do this a little bit better, have a little bit more containment of their energy, are the people-pleasing type of kids. They're the children that are receiving validation, love, and acceptance from following the rules. Okay. If you have a kiddo that can easily contain this, right? And I will even say I'm not throwing any shade. My youngest, who's four, she's really good at this. And I work really hard to make sure she doesn't feel like she needs to always be like within the rules, right? Like, not within the rules, but she feels the need to go above and beyond and make sure people are happy around her. And I am always redirecting her back to self, being like, what do you want to do? Right. Like her natural tendency is to nurture and take care and kind of be this like mother figure. And so within a classroom dynamic, she's just much more mature and she's much more like, I want to do what's going to help everybody out the most. And she kind of understands those cues. And again, as a parent, I'm constantly redirecting her back to being a kid, to being able to tune into self. What do you want to do? But all that to say, you will have kiddos that kind of have those more dominant personality traits, and they might be able to hold it together a little bit more than some of the other unique children, not unique as in anything's wrong with them. Sometimes we get that word, like, uh, unique, what? But the other children's who have souls that are meant to not be people pleasing, right? They are not here on planet Earth in this lifetime to make it cozy for other people around them. They are radically themselves. They are leadership material, they are entrepreneur material. They are here for a different agenda than their peers or other people around them. And quite honestly, when you are able to read soul contracts, you are able to read what's going on within a soul's purpose. It is so beautiful to see the different players, the different personality traits, the different things they are here to do. And when they're at these very young ages, it's very adorable. It's very cute to see how they grow and evolve into their gifts and how that started even at, you know, one, two, three, four years old. You can start to see how they've always been those domineering personality traits. It's just evolved as they've aged. So I truly think there is not one personality trait is better than the other. It is just how the soul came in for a very specific agenda, for a very specific purpose. And like my mother has always said all of my life, she says the phrase, it takes all kinds to make the world go round. And I could not back that quote up anymore because it is so true. And when you can read the energy, you start to understand this at even more of a significant level because you see the bigger things at play, you see the soul purposes, and you see what they are meant to do in this lifetime, that all their beautiful, unique, diverse personality traits weave perfectly into why they came here. So ADHD. It is no different. So a couple things. One, it's the school system. There are a lot of kids that the environmental cues are not working out for their bodies. That is the first thing I would check. We have an entire episode on education and how we can dive into your child's energy field to see if the school, the classroom, the curriculum they are using is a high-energetic match for that kiddo. I often find that when I have clients come in with kiddos with ADHD, the education system where their environment is is grossly off. Grossly off. So I'm talking like we can scale one to 100. And when I start to see ADHD problems or the parents come with an ADHD diagnosis and we're trying to work through it, their environmental structure is at like a six to let's say 19% of a match out of a 100. So the environment is something that I really take a look at first and go, is there a huge discrepancy towards where they are spending a lot of their time? Versus where their soul needs them to be in within the environment to help their skills grow. The second thing I look at, and this is really interesting, and this is gonna blow your guys' minds, is a lot of the times when our kiddos have a diagnosis of ADHD or they're displaying symptoms, whether you get them diagnosed or not, when they are displaying symptoms of ADHD, it is very frequently tied to the parent. And we talk about this in other episodes as well. But if you have a child from zero to seven years old, okay, they will always be energetically linked to a parent. And you can intuitively look in who is my child energetically linked to? Is it mom or is it dad? Sometimes it can be linked to a grandparent or a caregiver that is working really closely with the child. And what I mean by being energetically linked is that they will take on, they're pulling from the adult, the adult's emotional imbalance and mirror it back to the adult in order to grab their attention, in order to go, hey, look at me. I'm gonna kind of create an obstacle. This is all subconsciously, of course. I'm gonna kind of create an obstacle for you so you can see what you are doing to yourself, but I'm gonna have it be through me because most of the time parents will move, they will be motivated, they will change different aspects of themselves when they see it come out in their child because they're like, ooh, I see myself and my child, right? How many of us as parents are like, oh, that is not a good look? I do that all the time. This is something that is so in my face and so obvious. I'm motivated right now to change because I see that my child's struggling with this. I see that my child is hurting because of this, or just plain old, like, ooh, like I don't like this look on my child. This is something I do all the time. So as parents or somebody that's heavily invested in a child, we are, it's kind of like source or god's beautiful system created, being like, I know this is gonna be such a good attention grabber for the parent. We're gonna display this very obviously in child, so the parent feels the need to move quicker. It helps the soul growth quicker when we see it in our children. And I can hear you guys all being like, yeah, totally. Ugh, yeah, that hurts. That cuts, but I totally know what you're talking about. So when you have a young child that is diagnosed, or again, if you're not going the diagnosis route, but are displaying symptoms of ADHD, it almost always starts as pulling it from the parent. So the parent is having, if you remember the body script for ADHD, the body's translation story, is that the parent is multitasking too much? Is that crazy? Like us as parents? Do we feel like we're multitasking? Do we feel like our to-do list is never ending? Do we feel like there is way too much pressure on our plate and we have to hold all the balls, juggle all the balls, do a circus act on the daily? And are we feeling like we're not present in our life? I can say so many of us have felt that way as a mom or as a parent. We have so much pressure on us by the social contagions around us and by the environment that we have put ourselves in, right? Nobody's doing this to us. That's another thought I see coming in right now. Nobody is doing this to us. We are accepting this from the environment around us and the social contagions. We are accepting, ooh, we have to put our kids in a million different sports right now, or they won't fit in, or they won't have the childhood that I had, or they won't have a wide variety of experiences to pull from, or they won't have that teamwork aspect and be able to be out in the workforce as a team member. That is a social contagion, meaning that the group collective have all adapted a similar mindset within the realm of sports and putting your kids in extracurriculars and blowing up the schedule for the sake of having a quote unquote good childhood. That's a social contagion. Okay. Another social contagion is just pushing your schedule to the brinks of insanity. I am forever, somebody asked me this the other day. They were like, Do you guys have like a skylight calendar to keep track of all your stuff? And I was like, absolutely. If I am needing to have a skylight calendar or literally any calendar, because I have so much going on in my life that I can't remember where I am on the daily, that is way too many things for me to keep track of, and my life is way overscheduled. If I can't remember what is happening in the week that I am in, and I need it written down, or else that to me is my own personal gauge of there is too much going on in my life. I need to take some off my plate, I need to get back to the basics. So you guys will each have a different gauge with this, but it's starting to look at the social contagions around you, the group collective virus, if you will, of what life needs to look like. And I'll tell you, they design it very dark force agenda. They design it so that the family unit is leaving each other Monday through Friday, or if you're some families, Monday through Sunday, right? The entire week, all seven days. You're separated all day, and everybody is running around with their heads cut off. Like that is the group agenda. That's the Dark Force agenda. Make it so nobody has time to sit. And if they do have time to sit, they struggle with sitting because they don't want to relax. They're beating themselves up about relaxing. And make it so that they don't even know, they're so busy that they don't know what's left and right. They don't have any time for a sit-down dinner. They don't have any time to cook dinner. Make it so that their life is so jam-packed that they are not in tune to their feelings, not in tune to their power, not in tune to their kids, not in tune to their spouse. Make it so that they are so stinking busy. And that is where the epidemic comes from right now of the higher diagnosis of ADHD. It's all of us collectively as a group falling into the trap of I have to go, go, go, go, go on this hamster wheel, or else. And you can fill in the or else with any limiting belief that you have. It's gonna be different per individual, it's different per family that I work with. It could be, or else we don't belong in this community, or else I'm not giving my children everything they need in life, or else we are not gonna be popular and find that validation and have friends and have community. Or else this is a big one, this one's gonna sting, or else I literally have to sit with myself and my feelings and all the stuff that weighs me down and all the stuff I don't want to actually deal with and the trauma I have to process and the feelings that I'm gonna feel. If I have to sit with myself, if I have to sit with that, ooh, baby, that's too much. I would rather run from it. I would rather pack that schedule than ever be with myself. You can apply that for family. I'd rather pack my schedule than learn how to love to be with my children. I'd rather pack my schedule than actually spend the restful, relaxing time with my kids because that hurts too much. And whether that hurts too much because you feel like you've not done a good job parenting, whether that hurts too much because you feel like you're not good at being a parent, you're not good at playing and getting on the ground with your kids, there are lots of feelings that are diving into this. And societal programming, societal conditioning, they prey. They prey on these insecurities we feel. And they make it so that you feel weird, you feel left out. If you're the person that's like, dude, we have a free calendar. I don't need a schedule. I know exactly what's going on this week because it's one or two things. I'm not running around like a chicken with my head cut off. I am totally present in the moments. I know exactly what's going on. It's not too much, it's not too little. It's a perfect blend for me. So they prey on this feeling. And that is where, again, this epidemic of higher ADHD diagnoses are coming from, is because they are amping it up over the last decade or two. They are amping up the packed schedules, the working around the clock, the getting your kids out into every single sports. I used to have like this blew my mind as a first grade teacher. Even then, before all of my training, before that, kids would come, or parents, I should say, would come for parent-teacher conference. And this is when I gave out homework, which I was like, I didn't always do, I like oftentimes nixed it because I've always been anti-homework gal. But if I did give out extra reading minutes or whatever, if somebody was struggling, they would come and they'd be like, I don't know how you expect us to like read as a family. Like verbatim, I had like uh eight to ten different families out of a 30 kiddo classroom, 35 kiddo classroom. And they'd be like, I don't know how you expect us to read with them. They're like, we pick them up after school and we go to this sport, this sport, we get home at nine o'clock after the McDonald's drive-thru. And then I'd have other families that were like, Well, we work till five or six o'clock, we pick them up at six o'clock, we go through the drive-thru, we go get something to eat quick, and then we go off to sports and we're not home till nine. And they literally were baffled that I was asking them for some reading time with their kids. They're like, we don't know how to fit this in. And as the years progressed, and as I became a more experienced teacher, this was constantly the norm. The rush, rush, rush, rush, rush, rush, rush. We have no time for togetherness. We have no time for a sit-down family dinner. We have no time just to rest and relax. If we're at home, we're cleaning out the garage, we're doing laundry, we're doing this, we're doing that, and there is truly no idea of how to rest, of how to lay in bed, and how to sit in the grass. And still to this day, 2026 Maggie. I'm always like, am I Maggie or Maggie? I have a real identity crisis going on with this move. I don't know. I say my name differently every time. I think I'm getting more conditioned to say Maggie, though. Like the Utah Maggie. Okay, Utah 2026 Maggie. When I tell people that my kids and I literally go to the park or go to a creek or do a pit stop on a hike and sit there for six hours, and I'm not like multitasking, I'm not trying to get a phone call in with my mom, trying to do this or that for work, trying to blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And we just literally sit. People are weirded out by us. They're like, how do your kids just play that long? What do you do? Are you bored? And I'm like, no, I look forward to this every single week, every single day. We've lost this art of just resting, of just sitting there and doing nothing because we are constantly bombarded with the multitasking, with the instant notifications of this is happening. Oh, this person's over here. Oh my God, the world's dying on this end of the world. Oh my gosh, oh my gosh, oh my gosh. Our brain is being pulled to all of these different angles at every given second. And you're right. Back to the translation of ADHD. We are not present in the moment. We don't know how to turn our phone off, like literally off, like power it down off, and sit for six hours. We are like antsy inside. Our soul is like restless. We don't know how to do that as a society. And this is one of the biggest diagnoses that come out is this we don't know how to rest. We don't know how to turn it off and be present with where our feet are planted. Whether you're at the park, whether you're going for a walk, whether you're going on a bike ride, are we on a bike ride just enjoying nature? Are we on a bike ride trying to get a conference call done, trying to review a podcast, trying to learn more about this, trying to implement more of this? We're constantly multitasking. And our brains were never meant to multitask. You think back to any other time period, right? We didn't have the social distractions we have today. We had like one job, one shot, one opportunity. Getting a little MM there. We had one job. It was like feed your family. Go out and feed your family, or today's gardening, or today's laundry, or whatever. Like, yes, as women, we do a great job at multitasking, much more than men. We can watch the children and garden. But it was so much lower on the scale than what we are up against today. It is radical in this day and age to truly rest. It is radical in this day and age to sit at a park and connect with another mom for four hours without looking at your phone, without seeing what time it is, without rushing off to piano and this, that, and the other thing. It is radical to sit and just create eye contact and share stories. Like that's radical. And this ADHD diagnosis is bringing us back and telling our bodies, hey, this is too much for me. We have too much on our plate. And as a collective, if you are experiencing this, I know that you have had these conscious thoughts of man, life is a little busy for me. But then we write it off as like, oh, this is just a stage my kids are in. This is just what's going on. This is just how the world works. Even me, I this January, we had our kids signed up for basketball and ski. And we're not anti-extracurricular, but I make it a point that our kids come home and we do nothing. Every single day, most days I should say. My kids come home, we do nothing. We bake, we sit outside, we read, we are like downtime. I do not work anymore. You know, we are just really in that rest relaxed mode. But we had a lot of opportunities in January where the kids chose and they were like, I want to try ski, I want to do this basketball. It just so happened it was a four-week period of both of those going on at the same time. And I want to say how crabby all of us were. Like it was way too much. So I am not sitting here going, oh, it's so easy to pull yourself out of that. It is hard. It is hard when your kids are looking at you and going, Oh, I really want to do this sport, I want to, I want to, I want to. I won't fit in, mom, if I don't. That is challenging. But I think it's having that awareness of going, I don't like how we are all feeling. I don't like how I am feeling as mom. I feel scattered. I'm going to say no to this from now on. Or we just tried this, this isn't working for us. I'm going to say no from here on out. And having that reason of mommy doesn't feel good, be enough. I don't like not seeing you. I tell my kids that all the time. They'll come rushing to the car. Can we have played it? I'm like, absolutely not. I need to snuggle you. I need to touch your face. Like, I need to be with you. And I know they need that from me too. And having that be enough to be like, the answer is no, it's not good for me, or it's not good for you. And just having that be that. No further need for an explanation. No further need for the guilt tripping and all of that. Having it be no, and that's it. It's not good for me, and that's the end of the story. So I think when we talk about this ADHD, it's recognizing first that first step of awareness. Is my life too busy? Are we running too fast? And I am multitasking every second of the day. I am losing my marbles every second of the day and not being present where my feet are planted. Having that awareness, but then go taking the action steps after that to untangle yourself from that schedule. That's where we allow everybody else to step in and we go, oh, my kids are more important than self. My husband's dream for them is more important than self. We lose sight of our self-love, which is the ability to prioritize self. We lose sight of that and we go, well, everyone else's needs matter more than my own. That is the root of this problem. It's going, actually, I do matter. Actually, I do want to prioritize myself. Actually, this is train wrecking my health. Actually, I'm not able to live at the speed of life we were never meant to, and I surrender and I no longer want to do it for myself anymore. When you are able to get to that point, that is when you start untangling yourself from ADHD. You take a stand, your self-love goes up, and you go, no longer am I going to live at this speed of life. And let me tell you, that right there, taking radical responsibility and self-love, then if you have any of the scenarios, if you have a child that is mirroring your ADHD symptoms for you because they're under that age of seven, that starts going away because you are fixing the problem, the root problem that they are trying to show you by mirroring to you, you're dissolving that energy in your field so they will drop the act of having to mirror that to you. Okay. If you have a child that's over the age of seven, diagnosed with ADHD, and they've become their own entity, their own being with their own established neural pathway. And let's say their established neural pathways are ADHD behavior because they've mirrored it to you for a long time. Their new mirror neurons that are with you on the daily will start to see how you're changing. Will to start to see how you're putting yourself first. We'll start to see how you're slowing down in life and not multitasking and being present where you are. They will automatically change because they're watching and witnessing you change and the transformation you're having. I don't care if your kids are 13, 22, they will notice the change. They will notice the leadership. They will notice the switch in your energy. They will notice the transformation, and they still will latch on to that influence, even at older ages. It's gonna go slower, I will be honest, than if your kiddos were younger, younger below seven, they switch really fast once you shift. If they're a little bit older, it goes a little bit slower and they need a little bit more of neuroscience tools and things that'll work for their body. But yes, they absolutely can and will switch based on you taking ownership. And then if you're just an adult that's your like, I have some ADHD symptoms I would like resolved, that's the gateway. Of course, every single diagnosis is different. And if you have specific behaviors that come with ADHD, specific behavioral markers, impulsivity, hyperactivity, inattention, blah, blah, blah, we can start to look at each and every single one of them and slowly switch them out of your energy field. But it starts with this. It starts with feeling like you're multitasking all the time and not being present. That's the overarching feeling. And again, it's so cool. You can link it back to how long has this been in your energy field? When did this first start? What was the event that was tied to it? And we can do so many things with our neuroscience brain-based findings and then also our scientifically accurate intuition. We can do so much deep diving of this is gonna work, this is gonna work, this is gonna work. And we can share the physical activities that are gonna help move the needle the most because everybody is different. Everybody is different. What might work on a physical level for one case may not be a high-energetic match for another case. That's why we need intuition to go what's going to move the energy the most for you specifically, or for your kids specifically. So I just wanted to give this little, this little, 44 minutes in, and I'm saying little. I wanted to give this podcast episode to give you a different perspective. Empower you that you are never stuck with a diagnosis. You are never stuck with a condition that you do not want to have that does not feel empowering for your life or for your kids' life. You can always crawl yourself out of any condition, any sickness and disease, or any diagnosis. Does it take hard work and mapping out different scenarios and different energetic works and coming up with a blueprint and instructions for your specific body or for your child specific body? Absolutely. Some kiddos do need meds, some kiddos don't need meds, some kiddos need this intervention, some kiddos need this. It is going to be case-by-case specific and working with the intuition and the brain to get that person back to a state of healing and back to a different energetic embodiment. But whether it's your kiddo or you, the story will always start out and originate as the same. It is holding the emotional imbalance of too much multitasking and not being present within each area. So it always starts there. And then what can happen is it can spider web out. It can become multi-part reflection or like a storybook with different chapters, and we need to go to each separate area to truly get a full resolve. So if you guys are dealing with this, again, I hope you send this to people that may need this perspective and intuitively ask, hey, would this person benefit from this podcast? Hey, am I supposed to have a soul contract with this person? And intuitively, I'm getting that she needs to hear this. Send this out far and wide. Way too many people are feeling stuck with this. They're feeling like there's no answers or solutions to this very big obstacle they're feeling in life. And that's just not the case. Everything is figure outable, everything has a solution. We just have to tinker with the variables to figure out what's going to work the best for your brain or your child's brain or their body. And we've had some really remarkable stories within the realm of ADHD in taking a look again at the environment that your child is in or that you are in, and intuitively finding out what needs to stay, what needs to go. How can we get you to a place of empowerment where you're not juggling too many balls and feeling like you can't be present in each of those? And I know that sounds very outlandish because we have been again conditioned to feel like that's just how moms operate. That's just how moms act. This is just the season we're in. And I'm telling you, it does not have to be that way. It does not have to be where everything is out of control, everything is overwhelming, and there are way too many pieces to your life that are moving at the same time. We feel like it has to be that way, but after years and years of experience, I'm telling you, it does not have to be. And we've helped a lot of people work through the schedule, work through their mindset and their perception shift in order to fully move this diagnosis out of their energy field and no longer struggle with some of the symptoms that come with this diagnosis. So I hope this was empowering for you guys today. I hope this helped you gain a different perspective, even if it's just a seed planted and you're like, huh, never heard of this before. This is so weird and interesting. That is my hope for you is to either have a seed planted, have this resonate with you, have this resonate with your friend, your sister, your cousin, your whatever person in your life. More people need to understand how the body truly functions and works, and more people need to be empowered with it. We are not stuck with a diagnosis, we are not stuck with a lifestyle we do not want. We are the creator and the co-creator of every single thing that happens in our life, every single way that our body reacts and responds to our emotional balances. We have that full control. So if you want help with this, if you are wanting to learn more about this, we have so many resources for you. We have free PDFs, we have hours and hours and hours of free webinars on how the body changes, on how the body heals, and how the universal laws work and the energetics work behind this, how the science plays into this. This is not some woo-woo stuff that you're hearing just from spiritual thought leaders. This is actual science of how our bodies work out. And I explain all that. So if you're looking for more resources, you guys can email in. We host free live interactive events every single week and multiple of them where you can hop on and you can have me use my trained intuition to help guide you into specific areas. So let us know how we can support you. That is our number one goal is to help you feel empowered, help you feel supported, help you feel like you are the co-creator of your life because that is the truth. And for far too long, we have been persuaded otherwise. And it is my mission to get us back to our roots, back to ourself, back to the power that is within. Okay, you guys, this was a juicy one and slightly triggering. Maybe I should have had that as like a little trigger warning in the beginning, but I'm always here to tell you guys the truth. I'm always here to bring you back to self. I am not here to people please. I am not here to give you the fluffy stuff. I am here to point you to self because you have everything within you to change the life, to live the life exactly how you want to live. It is all within your hands, it's all within your control, and it is just putting the right puzzle pieces together to gain that full understanding, to gain the knowledge, then to gain the integration, and then to physically move the matter in your life. If you are able to create the ADHD diagnosis with having that emotional imbalance sitting loudly in your field, guess what, baby? You can un-create it. You can untangle yourself from it. If you can create something, you can uncreate something. It goes both ways. Okay, you guys, I hope this was a riveting episode. Email in. Make sure to join our live QA sessions, our live webinars inside our off social media community. We will see you guys next week for another episode.