The Phoenix Table

Stop Shoulding On Yourself!

Sam Anderson

In this episode of The Phoenix Table, we dive deep into the quiet pressures we place on ourselves—the "shoulds" that stack up and quietly define our identity. Sam unpacks how the collapse of her first business revealed just how much of her self-worth was built on productivity, achievement, and outdated expectations.

Through personal stories and mindset shifts, she explores what happens when we stop living by the rules we didn’t choose—and start asking what we truly want. From motherhood to leadership to self-worth, this episode is an invitation to trade guilt for growth and rewrite your story from a place of clarity and power.

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