Marriage Made in Heaven

Marriage & Money: How Couples Can Beat Financial Stress and Build a Strong Future Together

Joshua & Ali Spitsbergen Episode 12

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Finances are one of the biggest stressors in marriage and we’ve lived it firsthand. In this episode, we open up about losing a multimillion-dollar business, the lessons we learned about financial planning, and the strategies that helped us rebuild peace and unity in our marriage.

From knowing your numbers and setting a financial plan, to investing wisely, and even watching the words you speak over money, this episode is packed with real, raw, and faith-filled conversation to help you and your spouse thrive financially and spiritually.

Whether you’re living paycheck to paycheck or looking to build surplus and multiple streams of income, these principles will help you move from financial stress to financial strength.

  • 0:00 – Introduction
    Why finances are such a major stressor in marriage.
  • 2:15 – Our story of financial loss
    Losing a multimillion-dollar business and the reality check that followed.
  • 5:08 – Step 1: Know your numbers
    How tools like YNAB, Rocket Money, and working with a fractional CFO transformed our finances.
  • 9:45 – Step 2: Start investing
    Lessons learned from Ali’s dad, Jack Bogle’s Common Sense Investing, and simple ways to grow wealth.
  • 14:30 – Planning for success
    Why couples need a financial plan, goals, and discipline, just like in health and marriage.
  • 17:22 – Step 3: Speak life over your finances
    The power of words and breaking free from a poverty mindset.
  • 20:55 – Teaching kids about money
    Passing on wisdom about tithing, saving, and generosity.
  • 22:30 – Final encouragement
    You’re not alone, practical steps to take today to move from stress to strength.

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