The Pause That Connects
“The Pause That Connects” is a podcast that explores the power of slowing down to truly listen, reflect, and build meaningful connections—especially when supporting neurodivergent individuals. It’s a space where empathy leads, voices are honored, and advocacy begins with presence.
The Pause That Connects
Pausing for What Happens to Autistic Adults
What really happens when autistic individuals become adults? In this episode of The Pause That Connects, Amber discusses the often invisible journey of autistic people after they age out of school-based support systems. Many families don't discover critical services — like Medicaid waivers — until it's almost too late. One parent shared, "We got on the waitlist 4 years ago and I got a call today that I have about 16 more years left." It's not just about long waits — it's also about the lack of providers once the support is finally approved.
We talk about:
- The steep drop-off in services after high school
- Waiver waitlists that can last over a decade
- Employment barriers, with up to 85% of autistic adults unemployed (https://autismsociety.org/employment/)
- The long-term effects of social isolation and segregation
- Why schools must better integrate neurotypical and neurodivergent students
- How systems often fail autistic adults — but how hope, advocacy, and connection can lead the way forward
This is a candid, compassionate conversation meant to illuminate what so many families and autistic individuals experience — and what needs to change.
Resources & Support:
- The Arc of Texas – Advocacy & support for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities
https://www.thearcoftexas.org - Texas Health and Human Services (HHS) – Waiver programs, Medicaid, and IDD services
https://www.hhs.texas.gov - Disability Rights Texas – Legal advocacy for Texans with disabilities
https://www.disabilityrightstx.org
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Disclaimer:
The conversations on The Pause That Connects are for informational and discussion purposes only. It is not intended as medical, therapeutic, or behavioral advice. Please consult with a qualified professional for guidance specific to your situation.
