Sistas IN Sync

Just over it!

Ashley Leroy & Diamond Benjamin

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Hey Sistas it's been a week and we are so happy y'all came back to see us! baby do we have an episode for y'all! We love you guys and don't you ever forget always stay in the SYNC!

SPEAKER_06

Hey y'all, what's up, what's up, what's up? It's your girl Ashley. What's up, y'all? This is Diamond. And we are back for another episode of Sisters in Sync. Listen, last week was last weekend. Um, we skipped the episode, it was a lot going on. Um, what's going on with your sis? How you doing? Let's get into it. Ugh, I'm back at work.

SPEAKER_05

Spring break. It's over. Over. And so we are in quarter four. This is the last nine weeks of school. So we officially um we are down to now after last week. We now have eight weeks of school left. And everybody is just over it. Like, the kids are exhausted, they're tired, the teachers don't want to come to work. Administrators like myself are just like, what the fuck? Like, it's just it's just a lot going on. Like, nobody, I just feel like no one wants to be in the building. And trying to motivate kids as well as motivating adults is just, it's just a lot. And then trying to find your own personal motivation for coming to work every day. Um, I am officially out of PTO, so I had to send my principal an email because we have this thing at work called PTO sharing. And so it's like basically like the pot of like people will like donate PTO. And so I'm like, hey, can you uh send a little message to HR? Because uh I don't have any PTO and I'm probably gonna need at least a couple more days to get through this eight weeks. So it's just a lot, man. It's just a lot going on. Um my health-wise, like trying to navigate this GLP1 journey has been a lot. Um, last week I took a break. I did not take my shot because I had gone from throwing up and being nauseous to taking the nausea medicine. The nausea medicine caused me constipation. So then I took a laxative to finally use the bathroom after not being able to go for a week. Then I went to the bathroom. Um, then later on that day, I was extremely hungry because the laxative had like cleaned me completely out. So I overeat, and then my stomach was on fire. Went to the doctor on Friday. Um, I don't have an ulcer or anything like that, thank God. But it was severe gastritis. So they gave me medication to like help my stomach get itself together. Um, but yeah, so I just have to like basically drink my body weight in water. Um, I cannot have anything fried, nothing spicy. Um, and I cannot eat three hours. The doctor told me at least three hours before going to sleep, like I need to stop eating because laying down like after that is like killing me. Um so I did, I took my shot yesterday, last night, um, and you know, really following what the doctor said to do as far as like staying hydrated and everything, um, and like eating smaller portions and really like watching what I'm eating. I did not have any nausea today. And normally the day after I take my shot, I'm like super, super sick, but I wasn't. Um and so yeah, I'm still down like about 22 pounds, but I'm just like, Lord have mercy. Like, what in the world? So navigate. What was your weight loss go ultimately? So I started out at 248. Right now, I think I'm at like 224, 225, something like that. So I really want to get below 200. Like I want to lose these last like 25 pounds and be at a solid like 200, or if even if I could get to like 190 would be nice. I haven't seen, I haven't been that low like before I had joy. So if I could get down that low, like if I could get below 200 pounds, it would be nice. Um, but yeah, so that's what I'm dealing with. Just like everybody pray for anybody in education right now. We just trying to make it to the end. This is like Yeah, it's like the final push is like so hard, especially before testing, because testing starts in a few weeks, and like it's just nobody wants to, just nobody wants to be there. That's just how I feel. Like, nobody wants to be at school. So it's just a lot. And then the kids, like, they're doing dumb shit. It's just like, what the fuck? Like, please stop. Like, I told kids, like a group of eighth graders, um, last week. I'm like, dude, like, y'all about to go to high school. And then, like, this isn't the first day of school. We just got back from spring break, but y'all doing stuff like you don't know how to maneuver in a classroom. Like, it's just not making any sense. And so having those conversations, I feel like also the teachers get like really relaxed. Like, you can, I'm sorry, but you can't send two kids to the bathroom at the same time. Like, no, that two kids to a pass, like, no. Like, just I just want to just tell people, yeah, it's just like stop doing dumb shit. Just stop doing dumb stuff, you know, just hold it tight. So just holding firm and and keeping folks in line is just it's a lie. So yeah, that's where I am. How you doing, sis?

SPEAKER_06

Girl. Um another day in another uh my job. Um think I'm gonna start going back to school. Oh, yes. My masters. I need to see what what got what gotta be done, but I'm motivated to get finished and trying to add some more things, some more certificates, because I don't wanna stay at this fucking job forever. Just some shit that's been happening and some shit that management have been doing have further cemented that for me. I gotta get the fuck up out of here. Um, March 20th was the first day of spring, which happens to be, you know, the first day of the new year. I consider new year when spring starts. So that's been great. I feel like the tides are finally going to change for water signs, because this week was a rough week for me. I think Mercury was in retrograde again, and then it was like six planets and Pisces at the same time. So if you were a Pisces outside of it, our birthday season ended tomorrow. But with the new year coming, the all the planets are aligned. It's just like, oh bitch, this is too much emotionally. But I am so glad that my birthday has come and gone. This year I had a birthday dinner, and I wasn't going to celebrate my birthday. I didn't want to because I just wasn't happy. But, you know, it's just, I have a really amazing sister circle that came and showed out. So it was great. I'm glad I celebrated, had some amazing Italian food, and that was that. Um mental health-wise, I'm okay. Like I said, I I'm in the I know I'm in for the ride of my life. I'm about, I think after my mom and dad's vial renewal ceremony, I think I'm gonna go back and start working seven days a week, get another job, pay some shit off, get some stuff done. Um, I'm gonna be hopefully in two schools. I want to work on getting my certificate and finishing my master's degree at the same time. I'm giving myself a year. Because and then it's like I do want my own apartment within the next year. So it's just like I know I'm gonna be in for a wild, hardworking ride, but I have to get this done. I do not want to be over 35 having to do this shit. I'm like, all right, I need to get this done now. I don't got no kids, I don't got no distractions, I'm not sexually active right now. So my clarity is there. Um, it's been 14 months since I've last had some. So I'm like, all right. Um I'm good. I've been longer than this. I've been three years without three years is some change without it. So it's just like I have the clarity, I have the singleness, I don't have kids, so I don't have the distractions. I'm like, all right, let me get this shit done. Um, yeah, so it's like I have some fun things to look forward to. I'm going to go see a live show in April. I'm going to an art show with a friend. May vibr. I got, I know I'm going to Atlanta. Where am I going? I'm going to Atlanta and I'm going to Dublin, Georgia. So I know I'm going to Georgia twice for like June. Um, yeah. And then August, the radio is coming, but I'm like, I'm just gonna be working hard with my head down. It's coming back to that. I feel that coming on.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06

But I do think by the end of the year, I'll walk into a better job. I do have that feeling, so that feels good. Um, but yeah, so let's get into this show. So Diamond and I were talking, and you know, this person has always came up for us just a personal conversation as well as on the black paradigm. Who needs friends when you have, who needs enemies when you have a mother like Tokyo Tony? So we are gonna go into, we're gonna go into first of all, Tokyo Tony is a demented piece of work, and I commend Black China because I would have cut that bitch off years ago with no contact. Um, so here's what Tokyo had to say about your daughter is a cutting ass bitch.

SPEAKER_08

You coward assho. Answer your phone, bitch. Because if I take a flight, damn near I'm gonna drag your ass off that ranch, bitch. So now, since you want to throw shit out there to try to make me do what I'm doing, which you should know me by now, bitch. You should know this bitch by now. I'm coming for your ass. I'm coming for your nothing ass abortion, having nothing ass, bitch. So how many that you suck this week? How many grandkids of mine did you kill before these two ho? Let's talk about it, bitch. Huh? Huh? So now I'm a massive you hate me, ho. See, I'm a massive you fucking hate me. Bitches in the public can talk all the fuck they want. I don't give a fuck, bitch. The bitch that lied on me for years. She wasn't nowhere around. I wasn't nowhere around my daughter.

SPEAKER_06

So that is the latest rant from Tokyo Tony about her daughter, Black China, who, if I'm not mistaken, now goes by Angela White. That's her birth name. Well, I don't know if it's white, because I think she got married, but Angela. So what do you have to say about that?

SPEAKER_05

Ooh, Lord, have mercy. Um Tokyo Tony, I've always like I've always felt really, really bad about or felt bad for Black China, aka Angela. I've always felt bad for her because to have a mother who is so unhinged. Like the bitch just flies, just just fucking just goes completely crazy as Psycho goes left. But then a couple weeks later, or even a day or two later, she's a different person. And it gives, I want a relationship with my daughter, and I want to see my grandkids. She's just so all over the place. Um I think about me and my mom, our relationship. Yes, we have not always seen eye to eye on different things, but that is like a person that I know I can call no matter what day or time of night, whatever, and I can get sound advice from. Um, I can like lean on her, you know, she's there for me whenever I need her. And so I just have always felt so, so bad for Angela, especially because she's even taking the time to try to cultivate and pour into the relationship, whether it have, and people can say, well, oh, she was getting a check for some of the shit that she did on the shows or whatever, like sitting down with her mom and shit like that. Whatever. Okay, that's what you want to say. But to even give her the time of day to hear her out and like try to work through things, but then she'll flip and go fucking crazy. And I know me and you actually talked about this earlier, and you said, and I and I feel the same way too. It's almost as if she'll be cool or whatever with Angela, and then it's like, did she ask Angela for something, like money, or did she ask her for, you know, her to do something for her? And if Angela said no, did she say no? And now you took to social media to like blast her. And then you then and then it's like not even like normal. I don't want to say normal. It's not even like I'm mad at my daughter type shit. I can't see my grandkids, or you're not picking up the phone. Bitch, you're saying the lowest of the lowest shit. Just like yes, just like Ashley just said for this segment, who needs enemies when you have a mother like this? I mean, goddamn. Like, I'm sorry, but if anything ever happens to her, please um somebody go find Tokyo ass. Because bitch, maybe she did it at this point because how are you talking about this woman having abortions, my nigga? Like, seriously, as another woman, you're gonna drag her for possibly or allegedly, whatever the fuck you're trying to say, that she had abortions. Like, how could you be so low? Then you calling her all types of bitches, like she just some random person off the street. This is a this is another black woman that you gave birth to, that you brought into this world.

SPEAKER_06

It be feeling, I that's what I wonder if Tokyo be disassi disassociating because I feel like she don't realize that she's her mother. Or, you know, she could and just don't give it that, but I'm like, man, you did carry her for nine months. But it's just I think it's it's jealousy as well as, like I told you too, it gives, yeah, I asked Angela for money, she said no, so not finna go to the internet and dog her out. You know what I'm saying? So it's it's it's and see, I grew up with a mom, my mom never I had a mom, and I thank God for this, my mama had never called me a bitch. Ever. So I wouldn't know what to do if my mom got online saying all types of nasty and vile things like that. That's just insane to me. Insane. And that's what Angela has to live every freaking day.

SPEAKER_05

Ugh. And you never know. And you never know when this woman is gonna fucking lose it. She's like a loose fucking cannon that you just never know. And then she already, Angela's already in the spotlight. You gotta deal with shit from every other Tom, Dick, and Harry out here saying crazy shit about you, but now your mama too. It's like, what the oh, oh, uh-uh.

SPEAKER_06

It's like no matter what she does, she can't win. Like, at first it seemed like, okay, they be cool, or when she's on a reality show, she's cool, and when she has a source of income, but then you do this, but then it's like you'll be quick to to good to say good stuff about the Kardashians or try to bring up who you know, who you've been in circle with. These motherfuckers aren't helping you. They don't talk about you, they can give a damn you this. I know sometimes they probably wish Rob never had a baby with China. So it's just like you couldn't have her bread and butter. And again, who needs an enemy when you have a mama like that? I'm blaming Daphne right now. My eyes are solo. My mom, y'all, she tried her ninja slushie and made me a drink with some mango tequila from Jamaica and a mango fruit for a bitch. I was like, that drink is strong.

SPEAKER_05

I feel like for this week going into this work week, I'm gonna need something like that probably around about Tuesday-ish. Hell, I might need a drink like that tomorrow when I get home. I just got a feeling like this week is just gonna be super fucked because it's only three people, only three of my leadership team that's gonna be in the building. The other two are going to a conference. And so I'm just like, I'm gonna probably need that type of drink. Probably by tomorrow night. Damn. I'm very jealous right now. Girl, don't be.

SPEAKER_06

I don't know if it's coming and going, bitch. Damn. Woo! Okay. Y'all, speaking of fucking drinking, I tell you who ain't drinking. Girl, we lost Lotto. Lotto ain't finna be drinking for a good bit. Well, it look like she's about to pop, but you know, it was rumors she was pregnant a few months ago. I forget where she was performing on stage, but I was just like, and I don't comment this or I don't say it out loud. I just kind of keep my thoughts to myself, or I just use my friends to talk about. I was like, Lotto look pregnant. But then again, people think I look pregnant 24-7 because I'm a big person. So I never, that's why I don't put it out there because again, as a woman, I know what it's like to have my body judged and not be pregnant. You know what I'm saying? But Lotto is pregnant. She came up with a music video, and here's the thing I really just want her and 21 to stop the stop the shenanigans. When you in the music video, there was a scene where she was putting together a baby book for the baby. You zoom in on it, is 21, which his name is Shaya. It's Shaya's and Alyssa's pictures, and even on both of their Wikipedia accounts, it says they've been in a mutual relationship since 2020. Like, cut the malarkey. Like, is the man married? Is he not? Like, I but it's just like girl, big mama, no kidding. Girl, you got a kid now.

SPEAKER_05

And then I'm gonna tell you too, the amount of like, who the fuck has time to be moving like that to hide shit like that? I'm sorry, but I could not be if I was a celebrity, fuck that shit. I'm just gonna have to like be walking down the street with the nigga that I've been with. We're gonna have to be seen together. Um, you're gonna have to see this baby bump. Like, I just don't have time. What the call was doing that shit too when she had on them big ass shirts and shit out there in LA about to fall out. Um uh uh Bailey, uh Hallie Bailey.

SPEAKER_06

Girl, don't nobody have time for that shit. Oh, she did have. I but see with Disney, you're contracted to hide your birth. Oh, you can't be pregnant and be like a Disney star in a Disney movie. She had a move like that. Yeah. Oh, I did not know. No, that is awful. So you remember there was rumors. You remember when Raven Simone, I think she did her last season, that's a Raven in the early thousands. It was rumors that she was pregnant. So if you notice, like that last season, they did only face shots with her. Damn. You like if you were starring in a Disney movie, you cannot like get somebody pregnant or you cannot be pregnant, you can't present yourself. And then the fact that she was a princess, which I felt like DDG got her pregnant on purpose. Yeah. He was jealous. Um, yeah, you you you can't. She hadn't had that pregnancy.

SPEAKER_05

Oh my God, that's horrible. But yeah, I just can't, I just couldn't. To like make the decision to do that is like a lie. Especially like I'm saying, like with Lotto, the fucking, okay, y'all want to go on a trip together. So, but But y'all can't be on the same flight. Y'all gotta meet each other there. Y'all can't post nothing. Like, it's just too much. And then the hiding of the pregnancy, and she is big, y'all. She, I don't know if y'all, if y'all ever seen the video, she is big. And you can see it all in her face. Like her face, her nose dispread a little bit. She is definitely very, very much. I would give, which I think she's definitely in the third trimester. Oh, most definitely in the third trimester. Like, we about to have a baby, like real soon. And so I just could not. Like the amount of shit that you have to do and navigate through the world of keeping that shit a secret. And then my family, my family is so fucked. I'm like, God, how did your family and your friends keep that shit hidden for you? Because my family be talking, okay? Like, damn. I just don't, it's just a lot. That's a lot to have to keep a secret. Ugh, I couldn't do it.

SPEAKER_06

But I guess, you know, it'd be different when money comes into play. You know, we ain't got no money.

SPEAKER_05

That's true too. Yeah. Very true. Very true. Um, but shout out shout out to them. Congratulations.

SPEAKER_06

Cause wow. Yeah, we wish her a safe and happy pregnancy. Um, oh Lord. Bruh. Dozia Cat Daddy came out with some more bullshit. We're gonna get to him in a minute.

SPEAKER_09

Three kids. White kids. They hated me.

SPEAKER_06

I have three white kids who hated me. Nobody told you you had babies about a white woman, sir. Next case. All right. Tyler Perry versus fucking Marlo. I'm sure you guys have seen the pictures of fucking Marlo and Tyler Perry kissing. And I remember like when I looked at it like yesterday or yesterday, I was like, it just made me uncomfortable. First of all, Marlo, we know you're a gold digger. And at first I thought you were a gold digger exclusively for white men, but clearly you're just going where the money reside. Second, Tyler Perry, don't you have multiple cases of men suing you for sexual harassment? So I'm just like, what is this, honey? in my Nene Lee's voice. I just was like, it just felt forced and then felt. But then it I felt bad for the mother of Tyler Perry's son, who he was with for eight years. He never was seen kissing her. But then again, too, when I looked at the picture, I said, this gotta be AI. Gotta be. So I I don't even know how to feel about this. If it is true, Marlo, I hope you get your coin, sister. Um, yeah, I uh more power to you. That me, what you think? That that's the face I was making. Like, I feel like they need at least for the watch, like it's getting weird. But I still gotta get this watch. Bling bling bling. Bitches are mad, bitches be mad.

SPEAKER_04

Like I can't hear you, sis. Can't you hear me? We were having technical difficulties now.

SPEAKER_05

Um, it's giving like spoiled milk. Oh god. The milk has spoiled. Not spoiled, legend. It just it just gave creepy.

SPEAKER_10

It wasn't nasty.

SPEAKER_05

I but it's it sucks so bad that his Tyler Perry's character, Medea, precedes him so much because I saw Medea kissing my and I was like, it just it just creeped me out, and like I'm really hoping and praying that it is AI, and then and that uh they were just at the little brunch together and took a picture, and right now it's too many sources going back and forth saying that it is real versus it's AI. So I really don't know what to believe. And then what's really even more pissing me off more is that neither one of them is coming out and saying anything about it. Neither one of them has released a statement that I have seen like debunking that this picture is true or real or that it's not, and so I don't know what to believe. I'm just hoping and praying that it was just a little friendship, they saw each other and they took the picture and then the kissing shit is fake. Because if not, it's really, really weird. Yeah, I just really hope that's not the case.

SPEAKER_06

Now, if Tyler Perry is tricking on Marlo, whether he gay or not, shit, she getting that motherfucking money, that man's a billionaire. And then it's like, too, if he is using her as a beard, it allegedly if he is using her as a beard, and this shit is true. You're tricking off somebody you really don't like and shit. That's easy coin for Marlo. Yeah, very much so. You know, I'm not a Marlo fan. Shit, get your coin how you can, sis. On to the next subject. On to another black man who has to reap the benefits of his actions. We have Doja Cat's daddy. Um, Doja Cat is going through a lot with her father. We're going to find the story here. This many. That is Doja Cat's father. If you guys do not know, Doja Cat was raised in the United States by a Jude's mother. Her father was black, but I think we found out maybe after like her rise to fame that her father is actually South African. So it was an awkward video. I'm gonna see if I can find the Doja Cat and Whoopi Goldberg video because it was so awkward. Doja Cat tells Whoopi Goldberg backstage, and this was like before Doja got the good wigs. This is when Doja was still up and coming. Doja tells Whoopi, like, hey, you know my dad. So Whoopi was like, Who's your dad? And she tells him, and she tells her, and it's like, I want to find the new this movie. She's just like, Yeah. So I'm going to find that video here because I want Diamond to see it. Cause she's like, girl, what's going on? Cause as much as what Doja gets under my skin, sometimes I feel like part of her problem. Part of my problem, part of my problem with her outside of racial stuff, she don't know herself. So let me see. Okay, it's not on here. Let me see if it's on the tiki talkie app. Cause this video came out a long time ago. And it was really awkward. Imagine meeting somebody and you tell them you know my dad, but you've never met him. Oh, here it is. So and it was an innocent interaction, so to speak, because Wobby didn't know. So you know, when somebody's telling you that your father is a really good man and you've never met him, even when you're just like, okay, but you can't, you know, so this is Doja's dad.

SPEAKER_04

Oh wait.

SPEAKER_10

I like that. I like it. That's him.

SPEAKER_06

She looked just like this man. That's him. Wow.

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But you know what Play's Mandela?

SPEAKER_06

Okay. So that's kind of the background. And Doja, with how she's acting in terms of things that she says about race, when she was in that big turmoil about, because I fell out with her for a minute. She did have a song called Didn't Do Nothing. Basically, it's like um when black people, black American people get in trouble with the law, the first thing say, I didn't even do nothing. She made a song about that. Um she was letting these white boys and saying she was a nigga on like Twitch or some shit with a bunch of incels. It was just fucking weird. But I do think Doja has a lot of race-related issues being raised with my mom. So Doja can't got emotional while closing out her concert in South Africa. Um, it was for the concert global for her global citizen uh move Africa in Pretoria, South Africa. And she says, for a place that I've never been to, I sure do feel like I've been here before. So she has that familiar connection because this is how the people treated her in South Africa.

SPEAKER_07

I sure didn't feel like I've I've been here before.

SPEAKER_06

So the story is her father was there home in South Africa and didn't even come to her show after I guess he sent her an invitation. So you know that's awkward. Very awkward. Um, I'm going to find the back and forth that they've had with each other. So Yeah, it's not good. So I guess he didn't so okay, Doja Cat Doja Cat's dad says that her white Jewish mom turned her against him after claiming he abandoned him.

SPEAKER_09

So I checked it. But today without um media everything. Guys, let me tell you you can't be in a foreign country and find a woman, a white woman, with three kids. And then you make two kids with her, and then she becomes so lucky that she gives birth to the superstar, and then she gives information to the superstar.

SPEAKER_06

Here's the thing, I hate his speech because still, you're not talking about your daughter as if she's your daughter. You're still talking about her being a superstar and talking about money. You said up there, you had kids at that one moment. So the talking about her is crazy. So Doja Cat was fooling around with her father. She says, he said that he couldn't make it to my show because I don't message or call him enough. So I sent him a link to gay porn and told him if he uses the link, he can get a ticket. So that's, you know, that's kind of the update. So I just, this is when I get so upset about black men choosing to procreate with women in general, whether they're black women, because we know a lot of I have friends that have daddy issues from their black fathers, but just especially his different when you have a biracial woman. Like I can compare Doja to Lotto. It doesn't seem like Lotto has identity issues because she grew up, granted, she knows she's biracial, but I think with her having that connection to her father and her knowing her black side, she's a completely different woman. Like Doja Cat. If, and then it's like, you know, Alyssa was raised in the South. Doja Cat was raised on the West Coast. So that's just a whole nother experience. But it's just like you men sit up here, procreate these women, make these children, and now you got problems. And her father was a star of his own right, and you never came and saw her. He never, he's never, I don't think he's ever, they've ever met each other face to face, even after all of this time. So what do you have to say about this, sis?

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, I think that's the most disheartening and sad thing is that instead of you, I feel like the the clip after the Whoopi Goldberg thing took place, I'm like, damn, that that wasn't your wake-up call as her father to step forward in mid-net relationship. Um, and then I get so tired too of the parents in these situations placing blame on the children. Like, I don't care if the child is now an adult, that's still, you're still the parent. And so they didn't ask to be here. And I think that is what really pisses me off, is that when as the parent in this situation, the one that laid down and created that child, when do you start taking on responsibility and doing what the fuck you have to do to be in that child's life? And I don't, like I said, I don't care if the child is now over the age of 21. They are still the child in that situation. Um, and it hurts me even more because and I know what she's going through because um, you know, I don't know my biological father. And I think what really ticks me off in that situation, being a grown adult woman, and this is kind of where I have been in therapy and trying to um not be so mad or lash out at my mom, but in the reality of the situation, my mom being the parent, people are like, well, Diamond, why did you stop looking for your dad? Or what are or will you continue to look for your dad? And it's kind of like, well, should I though? Should I be the one to carry the brunt of the situation? I just feel like my mom, knowing that she made decisions and choices when she was 20 years old and got pregnant and was dealing with multiple men at that time, why can't you? Why can't you now sit down with a private investigator or whoever and find them for your daughter, knowing that your this is something that your daughter wants? Why do I now have to continue to do this journey and to find my find my biological father? Why do I have to why do I have to do that? You know, um, and so I completely understand how she feels. I know how it feels to not know um where you come from 100%, or and then you know, in her regard, I think it's a beautiful thing that she knows who he is, knows of him, know where she comes from, but still there's no relationship there. Um, and so I completely understand how she feels, and it's it's fucked up. Like I said, I just wish that parents would start owning that shit and taking on the responsibility that you brought that life into this world and you need to do what you have to do, whatever it is to make sure that you fix it, period. Um, and so I think it's just him, he's a coward to come off the way that he is and bringing up that she's a celebrity and all this bullshit, and then asking her, that's another thing, and then like asking her for a ticket, like my nigga, are you for real? Or to like come and see her show. The fuck she's over there in your fucking country, and you can't goddamn make an effort to just pull up. That shit's crazy. That shit's crazy to me.

SPEAKER_06

It's crazy, it's just and it's sad. I pray Noja gets the solace that she's looking for. I pray that, you know, because I don't know her mental state, I don't know her mental how she relates to race or how she relates to herself, but I pray she gets the help that she needs, and I pray she gets the answers that she wants because it has to be hard. Um, even with you, and we've talked about this, and I'm, you know, I'm I feel like we've talked about this earlier episodes, and I can't remember if you mentioned it or not, but I commend you because that has to be having a father that's present, having my biological father that's present, that's still married to my mother. First of all, I know how rare that is, but it's like I know my dad. Like that makes up half of me. I I couldn't imagine not knowing that part of myself. You know what I'm saying? So I pray that one day your biological dad comes into your life and you get to know him and discover him, meet his people, meet your people, or whatever the case is. But I just pray that any woman without the father gets the answers and gets the love that she needs from that. I appreciate that, sis. Amen.

SPEAKER_05

Amen to that, yeah.

SPEAKER_06

I know how much that matters to you, and I know you've you've done this search time and time again. I feel like you get to a point where you've gone too far as far as in like the search or whatever you're like. Mm-mm. Let me just remove myself then. Cause it's like the disc the wanting to know, and I think that's the thing, that will never stop. Even if you take an extended break. So, yeah. But in terms of Doji Cat, I pray that she gets the answer that she needs in regards to whether or not she just leave that nigga alone to stop worrying about it, or one day that they do decide to meet if he shows up and be a father for one time in his life for her at least. So on to the next topic. We are going to be talking about exposing Erica Kirk. It's this young man. His name is Marcos Bitz, or at least that's his name on TikTok. But he's the son of a billionaire. And he goes on to not just exposing Erica Kirk, but exposing the like the billionaires, how they use politicians, just kind of exposing the whole system. So here's a video that I want you guys to see. It's kind of long, but I think it's worth the listen. Let's check it out.

SPEAKER_01

I was brutally canceled off the internet for having a billionaire father as well as political connections. But tonight I'm gonna use that privilege to expose what really happened with Erica Kirk. Because once you understand how these elite circles actually operate, the entire mystery around her becomes incredibly obvious. So take a seat, grab a bick of popcorn because I might get deleted for posting this. So, in order to fully understand what happened with this crazy bitch, you need to understand the fundamentals of politics themselves. So politics operate very much like a social club with a social hierarchy. So at the very top, there are the billionaires who write nine-figure checks to the puppet class, also known as politicians, who in return give the billionaire class undying loyalty on the issues that matter to them most. Now, the most important thing for you to drill in your fucking head to really understand the story is that you may look at a President Obama, for example, and think that he is at the top of the social pyramid. That is absolutely not true. When there are these private dinner meetings with billionaires and with past presidents or potential future presidents or even a current president, they're at the very bottom of the fucking barrel. If you were to compare it to a social hierarchy in a high school, for example, the billionaire is the superintendent of the entire school board. And a President Obama, for example, is like the president of student council. He actually has no power over the school whatsoever. It's completely performative. Every single time you've ever voted, you are really voting for someone that was handpicked for you by a billionaire who doesn't want to run themselves because they are busy ruining the plan. And honestly, being a politician is seen, as I said, in these social circles at these dinner parties as a very lowly job. So, in summary, every single person who has made it to the level of a vice president or a president is nothing but a billionaire's bitch. So then this brings us to the fundamentals needed to understand the story of Charlie and Erica Kirk. So in 2018, a former pageant queen, Miss Arizona, Miss Erica Franz Fay, stumbled into the brand new Turning Point USA office in Phoenix, Arizona. While she was there, she very quickly bumped into Charlie Kirk, who then flew her to New York City for her job interview at a burger joint, a restaurant called Bill's Burgers, at which point during the job interview, Charlie Kirk said, Forget the interview, forget the job. I actually think I'm gonna date you because that's super professional.

SPEAKER_03

Oh.

SPEAKER_01

So about a year ago, I actually think I'm gonna date you because that's super professional, but that's what happened. Erica completely jumped at the chance to date Charlie because he was already anointed by the billionaire class that funded and controlled Turning Point USA as the person that was going to be the next president of the United States. This was not something that was a secret. This was not something that was implicit. This was something that was explicit in several conversations. Everybody knew that Charlie Kirk one day would run to be president, and it was a running comment, a running joke that Erica Kirk would one day be the first lady. This was her life goal, and this was the plan and the only reason in 2021 she married Charlie Kirk. She did not marry Charlie, she married the trajectory of the presidency and proximity to power, which is what she always wanted. Erica Kirk was never a stay-at-home wife. She was the operator. She hosted the donor dinners, she screozed the billionaires, she sealed the checks, and she ran all of the events. This is documented. Charlie was nothing but the face, he was the schmuck, the puppet that went to university to embarrass college kids, to then clip them on social media and raise money for his political campaign disguised as a charity. That's all it ever was. And Erica was the one that upkept and fostered the relationships of the billionaire class. The agreement for them was very simple. Do what you're told, ride the youth wave to the White House, and then become president and first lady of the United States. But things didn't go quite according to plan because somewhere along the line, Charlie Kirk grew the tiniest little piece of a spine. So in 2024, Charlie began defecting on some issues that were very important to the billionaires that owned him, specifically issues regarding foreign policy. The donors began to panic that their puppet was defecting on the only issue that actually matters to them. So they attempted to appeal to him through the only lever of control they have left, which was his wife. Erica then began pestering Charlie every single night, which put immense strain on their marriage. Support the war, do what you're told, you're ruining everything that we built together. And it actually got to the point where this is documented that a priest had to be called to pre-over their collapsing marriage, which I believe detonated the night of September 9th, the night before Charlie was murdered. Erica herself admitted on national television that at 2.30 in the morning, she urged Charlie to sleep alone in their daughter's room so he could rest better before Utah. In the morning, Charlie grabbed his ring and his necklace from the bathroom and left for this huge, very important event without saying goodbye to his wife. It's been reported that shortly before his assassination, he messaged one of his friends saying, It feels like it's over. A lot of people interpreted this as him talking about his life, but I think it's very obvious he was talking about his marriage. I think the night of September 9th, there was a fight, and Charlie and Erica decided that they would be getting a divorce. Now I believe the only explanation that makes any sense is around the same time of Charlie.

SPEAKER_06

So did you give me a few years?

SPEAKER_01

Okay, there goes fighting. Erica also messaged the donors saying it's over not only in reference to her marriage to Charlie, but in reference to all hope being lost that he would ever come back to their side politically, because he literally texted other people that he would be leaving the Israel cause. Now, from the donors' perspective, the looming divorce between Charlie and Erica not only could represent the end of Turning Point USA, from an optics perspective, would be absolutely catastrophic, but also represents the fact that the very last string on their puppet, which was Erica, is gone. So they had no choice but to do what the mob does when you don't listen to them after you take their money, which is to get rid of you. And we all know what happened next. Conveniently, a 22-year-old from 142 yards away with the best shot in the entire world got rid of Charlie just in time to save Turning Point US Day and anoint the new CEO, which is, of course, Erica Kirk. Just in time, right before Charlie was able to announce the divorce or the fact that he was leaving the cause. Nobody in the history of political assassinations has ever acted as bizarre as Erica Kirk. And I think that thing we're all registering as inauthenticity is actually the guilt. Not only did Erica Kirk immediately accept the Lone Gunman narrative, that doesn't make any sense for a multitude of reasons, she actually scolded the public for demanding answers and for being skeptical. The only reason she's not demanding answers is because she knows exactly who did it and why. Within 72 hours of the assassination, the domain Vance Kirk 2028 was purchased. Kirka immediately springs to take the throne of her dead husband by becoming CEO of Turning Point USA and publicly forgives the shooter on camera before we can even actually establish if he really was the killer or if he acted a lot of bullshit. And if you believe that, you are a fucking idiot. And just this week, the orange puppet appointed her to sit on the exact same seat on the US Air Force Academy board that Charlie once had, advising on foreign policy. The very foreign policy that created the emotional turbulence in her marriage with Charlie, leading to a divorce, and also the same foreign policy that ultimately got him killed. 2028 is Ari Rinon. You can expect to see her name on the VP shortlist. There is a reason they are marketing her as the widow that overcame tragedy, and Erica is finally getting what she married for all along.

SPEAKER_06

So bit long, but what you gotta say about that video?

SPEAKER_05

I can't hear you, sis. It sounds like to me that it was just all a big setup. Um so like it was already supposed to be um basically something that was in the works for Charlie Kirk to, I guess, be in politics or you know, to eventually be like at the top of the political food chain. That didn't work. So then another route had to be taken. Um and so basically it was all kind of a setup, which I'm not surprised about. And the reason why I'm not surprised about it is because the way that the different um, like not press conferences, but I've seen her do like little meet and greets and things where she's talking to the audience, and she just comes off very much like uh Cole. Like she does not care that much about her husband being killed. So I'm I'm not shocked at all about those accusations.

SPEAKER_06

No, it's just scary. I feel like as somebody that's in shit, at this point, I feel like the middle class is gonna be obsolete after a while. Either you got the shit or you don't. To just know that we as regular people are just chess, well or we're not even chess pieces, bitch. We're little game men in the game of sorry. Like, y'all play us how you want, the illusion, like movies like The Matrix make so much sense. You really don't get a vote in the election, they give you the illusion that you do. Um, first of all, Erica Kirk is an evil white woman with blue eyes. I don't fucking trust her. Um, I never, even though I wasn't a fan, I couldn't fucking stand Charlie Kirk. He was a racist, misogynistic, homophobic piece of shit. Even in his death. But if she did kill that man, that's fucking crazy. Which I believe that that's true. Allegedly, you know. But there's nothing that shocks me with all the shit that's going the fact that we have a pedophile as our president in this country every day is always something. And I'm not finna be up in the arms over a white girl. First of all, a white girl, period. Second of all, a white woman who you're just a fucking liar. And you've been proven that you're a liar. Like, oh, I just, you know, I'm a trad wife. Bitch, you were a party girl on a reality TV show who was going on dates before you fucking got married to Charlie. Bitch. Fuck you. Um, I wanted to just mention this about The Bachelorette. If you've been hearing the drama, they finished recording this last season, but they pulled it before it even got a chance to air. And it's a lot of drama going on right now with the young lady who was the star of it. Um, I want to read you guys' article. I never were uh Diamond, were you a Bachelorette friend? Have you ever watched it?

SPEAKER_05

Uh yeah, but it's been a long time. I think the the most recent spin-offs that I've watched is the golden, the golden bachelor and the golden bachelorette. The ones where the the people are older. Older. Yeah. But like the oh, and I did matter of fact, I did. I watched the the um the mixed guy. I saw his. Oh yeah. Yeah. And that pissed me off. And I was like, see, this is why I don't watch the shit. Um, so yeah, I only have been like keeping up with the golden bachelor.

SPEAKER_10

Yeah.

unknown

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06

So I'm gonna read through this NPR article. This was written by Rachel Treesman. It says, Why is the Bachelorette canceled? A guide to Taylor Frankie Paul controversy. The new season of ABC's reality TV series, The Bachelorette, was all filmed and set to premiere on Sunday, but parent company Disney says now it will not be air as planned. The decision to shelve the show's 22nd season came on Thursday after TMZ published the video. It says show's will-be Bachelorette Taylor Frankie Paul physically attacking her then-boyfriend Dakota Morrison in 2023. In light of the newly released video just surfaced today, we have made the decision to not move forward with the new season of The Bachelorette this time. And our focus is on supporting the family. Disney Entertainment said in a statement reported by the Associated Press, The New York Times, and others. The video film by Mortison appears to show Paul hitting, grabbing, and throwing three bar stools at him. A child can be heard crying on the couch nearby, and Mortison saying at one point, your daughter is sitting right there. Paul has three children, two with her ex-husband, Tate Paul, one born in 2024 with Mortison. She confirmed the end of their three-year on and off again relationship in May 2025, and they were swingers. First of all they treated this white girl like they treat all the fucking men on ready, uh on um, was it Ready to Love on Netflix? Oh, Love is Blonde? Love, yeah. Y'all didn't invent this motherfucker. That's what it comes to. How did y'all not know she had a fucking record that she's violent and she had three fucking kids, but y'all are so quick to call black women baby mamas. Every black woman, and I think in the history of The Bachelorette, The Bachelorette, it's been four, but the one I remember in modern times is Rachel Lindsay. This lady was a whole fucking lawyer on her P's and Q's. She had to meet every fucking box. So when black women says the standard and the goalpost is moving and it has to be different, it's the fucking truth. Diamond can speak on it. Well you're looking at a woman right here who's one step away from a fucking doctorate degree, who's been teacher of the year multiple times, who's established original programming, who has the fucking experience, who it's been times where she's lost principal, had principal roles to a girl who just got a white girl who's gotten out of undergrad. How is that fucking fair? Story of my life. Yeah. So it's just like stories like this, everybody's like, oh, I'm shaking in my boots. I'm not. This is a black woman's reality every day. Every day you lose things to mediocre ass white hoes, white women who you know don't deserve it. Yep. I'm and and then living in a country like the United States, where even with all the things stacked up against black women, with every black woman that lost her job once this administration came through, with the lack and cut of DEI, we still are the cream of the crop. We are the most educated demographic, and we are the one demographic in this country that are the high we have the highest rates of entrepreneurship. And still that's not enough. Nope. It's not enough. But you can go get this white hoe off the street who beats her fucking husband who was fucking cheating and swinging, and who had, and you're a baby mama, you have two baby daddies? Girl, please. I know black women who were married to one person, had their kids, and oh, she's a baby mama.

SPEAKER_05

Oh. That shit is crazy. And I'm just like, yo, the bachelor, bachelorette people, who the fuck is doing y'all's screening process? Like, somebody definitely needs to be fired. Like, goodbye. They dropped a ball. I would love to know who sits on their panel of like screeners. And I guarantee you, it's a bunch of white people. I guarantee you, the people who are like picking folks to be on that show, if they if they have any black people, it's probably one.

SPEAKER_06

And they're not listening, they can't be, or it's the whitewash black person. Ain't no fucking way. Some of them like, nah, why not? Nope. No. But even I just, nothing shocks me with them. It's just, ugh. But I just wanted to mention this. Shout out to Rachel Lindsay and every black woman contestant that's been the focus of the bachelorette. Shout out to you, girl. Um since I'm gonna let you take this story over, Jack Harlow. Let's let's get into our dear God. This motherfucker. Somebody they've been calling him uh soulless soul child. The fucking names and the way they've been lighting this man up, I have to find. I think I saved the pictures of my phone.

SPEAKER_05

I have to I was just about to say, where is the um, I don't think I screenshotted it and I should have um the amount of fucking names that they that the internet did behind his bullshit. So Jack Harlow recently uh dropped the album, uh, his new album. I believe it's his second studio album, if I'm no, it's his fourth, it's his fourth studio album. Oh shit. See, I didn't even fucking know that. Because all I knew was the album that had um Fergie's old song on it. I don't even know about the other.

SPEAKER_06

I can you know, uh-uh, you know some more of it. Matter of fact, we're we're gonna go down the rabbit hole of this. Okay. So okay, so his very first album, okay, so he had one, technically one, two, one, two, three, four. Four albums that came out between the years of 2016 to 2019. Those are independent albums. But Sweet Action, the album that came out 2020 was his last solo project. That was the album that made him blow up. That's what was popping. Okay. What's popping. Okay. Okay. That was that song was everywhere. And then in 2020, that same year he got signed. That's the album with his best song to me, is Love is Drove, features Saturn Major, Bryson Tiller. But Face of the City with Lil Baby. Okay. Um Already Best Friends with Chris Brown, that was a big song for him. Okay. So then fast forward 2022, that's the song he got The First Class, the Fergie song. Another big song off of that album for him is uh Churchill Downs with Drake. Okay. Then you fast forward to 2023, he got Jack Man. I don't know shit on Jack Man. But then after 2023, I think right after that, he released the Lovin' Me, which was a big song. I don't like no. Okay, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_10

That's right, that's right.

SPEAKER_06

That's Jack Hart. That was a big song. Um, okay, so now we got Monica. Which, before I let you go, sis, I hate the fucking name, it's it sounds like a moniker for my nigga. That it sounds like a creative way for a white boy to say, my nigga.

SPEAKER_05

Oh my god, Ashley, you are right.

unknown

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_06

Because when I was sitting, I was like, why Monica? Yeah, that's what I was saying. I was like, Monica. I kept saying it. So I just kept, I was like, Monica, Monica, Monica, Monica, my nigga. So they're calling Jack Harlow Charlie Kirk Franklin, Brian McWhite, Stevie Wonderbird. Instead of Jay Dilla, you got Jay Nilla. Instead of D'Angelo, you got D'Anglo as an Anglo-Saxon. You got Arnold Kelly instead of R. Kelly. You got most definitely not Yakoub Kwali. If you know about Dr. Yakoub, who was the evil inventor of white people. You got Music Snow Child. You got Snow Algebra, instead of Snow Legra. You got D-La Soap instead of D-La Soul. You got instead of vanilla ice, you got vanilla rice. You got Lazy instead of Jay-Z. Instead of common, you got Common Sensible. Instead of the weekend, you got the weekend, W-E-A-K-E-N-D. Then you got, instead of a tribe called Quest, you got a tribe called Eh. Instead of Max Well, you got Max Welp, you know? Um, insane. So, they even the album covers have been funny. They took Jack Harlow and put him on the cover of um, was it the Lauren Hill's first album? Instead of a misjudgation, Lauren Hill, they put the misjudgation of Jack Harlow. They they put him on the first album cover of NWA straight out of Compton, but they put instead of NWA, they put HOA and it was straight out of Croutons. That shit tickled me, right? So all of this, go ahead, sis. I'm let you go ahead. I'm taking it over. Go ahead.

SPEAKER_05

What the fu So, okay. The interview. Let's take it to the interview. So Jack Harlow dropping this album, he does the interview. I do not know the platform or who these guys were.

SPEAKER_06

It's these two white, two fucking white men that are involved in culture that shouldn't be, I don't know who it's not even relevant.

SPEAKER_05

And so they pose a question, and I don't remember exactly how the man phrased it, but the way that he the what he was trying to ask was how is it that, or do you see where it is easier for you to basically infiltrate a genre as a white man over like black people trying to like cross over or some shit was like what he was trying to hint at. And so Jack Harlow makes a comment about like, well, yeah, I can see, you know, I could see that. But I mean, like, my music, it has, is it's gotten, I mean, even I, I've gotten blacker.

SPEAKER_06

Do you want me to play the clip? I got it right here. Yes. What the fuck?

SPEAKER_03

Feet wet. Like we were Jelly Roll. Can't talk to Jack Harlow without talking about race. Oh, hope not. I've had a version of this conversation with Post Malone. Our feet wet, like we were mixtapes, so we were MGK. Point that var out. That var is Young Lee apart from me loving hip hop. Eminem. Talked about it with Eminem. Sure. White rappers are afforded more freedom to change their genre at will. True or false? I'm gonna have to think about that. What do you think? I think, yeah, definitely. I think there is something about being a White rapper that first puts the chip on your shoulder, but it wrapping your ass off is really important at the beginning. You prove yourself, you break in, and you didn't retreat into a whiter genre. In fact, you arguably went into deeper into black music. I got black music. Yeah, deeper into blackness.

SPEAKER_06

So is that so I also want to play y'all this portion of the interview. So this was an old interview he had with Ebro, Laura, wrote Ebro, Laura, Styles, and Rosenberg when they were on Hot 97. For you to get blacker, you don't know shit about black music. I want to play y'all this.

SPEAKER_08

Little Brandy and Boston. Very famous. Who's Ray J's sister?

SPEAKER_06

Who's Ray J's sister?

SPEAKER_10

It was 24. I didn't know they were playing everybody. Little Brandy and Randy and Randy.

SPEAKER_06

Um, I also wanted to play you guys this.

SPEAKER_09

Are these more white colors? No, these are black. Oh no, these is this is a central culture.

SPEAKER_04

Dead press. You don't know that. Oh, I know you pissed this.

SPEAKER_00

You cannot put yourself into culture and not know the foundation, dude. It just don't work that way.

SPEAKER_04

So cancel that bitch.

SPEAKER_06

But again, this is black people's problem, in particular black men, because they're the gatekeepers to hip hop. And Diamond and I talked about this. Um first of all, the fact the re the the oh god. The the what am I trying to say? The way that y'all treat black people who go to other genres is fucking beyond me. First of all, there's no such thing as a genre that bla there's no such thing as black people moving genres. You can't move genres when you, as a black American person, have created every single genre of popular music known to man. Country, ours. House music, ours. Rock and roll, ours. Bluegrass, ours. Zidaico, ours. Hip hop, pop my. All of that is our shit. Okay? And y'all got mad in 2024 when Beyonce released, which has turned too recently, Cowboy Carter. Whether you like the album or not, whether you like country music or not, I wanted every black person to support it just for the fact that what she do was what she was doing. And Diamond and I also spoke on, it was just so funny to me how when Beyoncé did her country album, or when black, or like take another example. I got a modern example. You remember when Dustin Conrad, he just released a jazz album. All throughout the production of that album, he collaborated with jazz, our other prominent jazz artists, jazz producers. I looked through, and I love the new feature on Apple Music that came out about a year ago. It's called View Credits. I just, I love it. I love to see who writes, who produces, who engineers. I looked all throughout Jack Harlow's Monica album. I didn't see not one black person. No one in Neil. So when Beyonce did Cowboy Carter, she collaborated with the Willie Nelsons. She collaborated with fucking Dolly Parton. Dolly Parton did, she remade the Dolly Parton song. Dolly Parton was featured on the song. Dolly Parton had an interlude. Yep. She collaborated with V Linda Martell. She collaborated with the Molly Cyrus. She collaborated with prominent black country artists. That's right. So it's just a slap in the face, but again, this is black folks' problem. We let everybody the fucking. Yes. This whole, you're invited to the cookout. No, bitch, you're fucking not. We don't get invited to nation. And frankly, I wouldn't even want to fucking go because it's, I'm not comfortable there. That's not where my soul lies. So why why do we have why why and again, even though, and it's so fucking crazy to me how black men are still the gatekeepers of hip-hop when y'all know y'all niggas ain't even selling. Black women are ruling hip-hop right now with the sales, with the songs, with who's bringing people out outside of a few outliers, it's black women. So this is a niggas' problem. And then the fact that nobody checked his ass, it should have been every rapper should have been on Cold to want to whoop Jack Harlow's that I got black. What the fuck does that even mean? What does that even mean? What is, nigga, you from Louisville, not nigga, but Wigger, you from Louisville, Kentucky. What was your stance on Breonna Taylor? A black woman that I killed in your fucking neck of the woods. And not only that, you had a feature from fucking Standard Major who was royalty out of Louisville, Kentucky, who is a black man who's worked with the greats of Timberland, Aaliyah, Jaywan. And this is how you repay him? Who his wife let you use his fucking songs? Your fucking joke. And then the fact that you named the album fucking Monica, I bet you you couldn't even name a Monica song, let alone a Monica album. But you just wanted a creative way to say my name. Get the fuck out of here. That's exactly what it was.

SPEAKER_05

Um I just, ugh. And then I feel like going back to us as a people, as black people, I just feel like we're just, we're just way too forgiving. We're way too understanding. Because I jumped in the comments. I jumped in the comments, and you had a lot of black people who were like, oh, you know, stop um, you know, downgrading him or going against what he's saying. He's actually like paying homage to our culture. He wants to be a part of us. He's like celebrating us. And I'm like, how the fuck do you get a celebration out of like what the fuck are you talking about? And then I went and listened to the shit for like a good three minutes in my car going through some of the songs. And I was like, blacker, blacker, if you don't get this motherfucking uh coal ass, cream of weak ass, watered down, soggy ass, no fucking seasoning having ass bullshit out of here. How dare you?

SPEAKER_04

Insane.

SPEAKER_06

But even with it, even with all of that being said, sis, I'm gonna shout out some real black man that's out here doing good RB slash Neo Soul. I have a few artists. I want to give a shout out to a Maxwell Hunter, I want to give a shout out to Lucky Day, the Sirs, the Bryson Tillers, the Brent Fayezes, the Masagos, the Eric Billingers, the Vitoes, Jacob Lattimore, Jacob Lattimore is the um, what's his name? I said Lucky Day, Luke James, um uh who else? L Hey, I think I said Vito, um, what's what's my boo name? Aaron Ray. Uh it's a young man, uh October London. It's a guy named Love Him, uh guy named Kamari, Daniel Caesar, the Gibeons, the Leon Thomas's, the Frank Oceans, the L means. Um, you know, I I hate when, oh, oh, there's no good music out here. There's no good music out here that's mainstream, but there's some good music out here. Some Ave Noirs, um, The Fridays, the Blasts. So it's a lot of young brothers doing it. It's a lot of young brothers out here doing it. You don't have to listen to Jack Harlow, baby. I promise. No. Hell no. If you listen to it's because you fucking want to. And that's on you. That shit sounds crazy. It sounds ridiculous. Shit, if you, even if you want to go, and I know I talk a lot of shit because black British people do get on my nerves, but shit. Black British people don't. I said El means. There's a young man out here named O'Deal. He um he gives British Leon Thomas slash Frank Ocean slash Brent Fayez. I love him. Um it's another guy. I think I don't think he's black. I think he's either, he's by, I think he's biracial. His name is Isaiah Falls. He makes amazing music, amazing music. Um, party next door if you want the Canada flavor. So yeah, I just gave you damn near 30 different men, black men that you can support in the RB slash Neo Star space. Yeah. I'm not fucking around with y'all. I didn't I didn't have to say any of the mainstream niggas like the Chris Browns or the Trey Song. No, I'm talking my brothers that can blue. Even though Leon Thomas is very mainstream, some of them were mainstream, but still, I gave y'all options. Yeah. You have to go listen to an album named My Nigga Monica by White Man. You don't.

SPEAKER_05

Wearing a motherfucking goddamn, what the fuck kind of hat is that? What the fuck is that?

SPEAKER_06

That's the music soul child hat from 2000. It's it's the girl, if I wanna know the girl next door with the like nigga, you you trying too hard.

SPEAKER_05

Too hard. Like, might as well have just fucking went and painted your face. Just go do blackface. At this point, go do blackface and just like just do it. Just go ahead and do it and put on a menstrual show. Like, go for it. Because what the fuck?

SPEAKER_06

Girl. So one of the last things I want to talk about is gonna be Nashville and these clubs are fucking tripping. Nashville and Springfield. So a few weeks ago, I think I talked about it, but I went to a club called 1015 in Springfield. Why? Supposedly it's a black-owned club. The picture's online, it shows it as an open bar with a lot of tables, a lot of nice seating. Um, I searched the website and I searched Instagram. Love the vibe. Everybody was saying it was great. First of all, we get there, there's no dance floors, nothing but tables. We go to sit at the table. You have to reserve a table. Since when? I went with two of my girlfriends a few weeks ago. I'm just like, since when? That was never, that's not said on your Instagram or your website, but whatever. We end up ordering a drink. The drink never comes. The people that reserve the table end up coming, so we had to get up. We want to go to a booth, you have to reserve the booth. Fine. There were two seats at the bar, there's three of us. I have on flatter shoes so that my girls can sit down. The bar stools are reserved. I get alright because I'm just like, first of all, I've clubbed in Vegas, New Orleans, Atlanta, New York City. I've clubbed in some of the biggest party cities in America. In Vegas, you have to pay to be breathe in the Vegas club. But standard rule of practice, bar seats are first come, first served. Since when the fuck do you have to pay to sit at a bar?

SPEAKER_05

Never.

SPEAKER_06

So I told my friends, I said, it's time to go. The waiter comes, the waitress comes and she runs after us. You guys are, y'all are stealing. You didn't pay for your drinks. So we never got them. So she brings us in there and she's like, the drinks are nothing. We still didn't get a drink. So we end up paying for, and I wish I wouldn't have fucking paid for it. But she gets upset because none of us tip her. What are we tipping you for? Girl, we didn't even get a drink. I said, fuck you. Fuck this club. I'm out. I seen three people come across my timeline on TikTok. I'm like, this shit is getting too local. They go to the, first of all, Link, they call it the picnic palace. If you know how Link is built, I went, me and my friend went to Link. We left after 20 minutes. It was the most ghetto bullshit I've ever fucking been to. And it's so funny because they said the Titans be in there. I'm like, y'all need to stop going to the club and win a game. But I digress. They're charging people$60 to go in a club in the hood with no seat. You think I'm finna pay$60 a club in Nashville? Fuck no. Y'all are getting ridiculous. And I'm just like, capitalism has got to die. Gas already$20 damn dollars a gallon. You think people finna be paying. What's finna happen is people gonna stop going to black clubs. Black clubs are gonna shut down, or we finna start going to the oldie but goodie clubs. Because it's just like it's it's too fucking much. You have to, and then it's just like, let's not act like when we go to these clubs, I didn't have to worry. I don't even, I can't tell you the last time I've been I go to, I've like been to the club. Diamond knows I'm a party girl. So I I follow a lot of like party groups and I go to their events. You know, they I buy the ticket, I'm going to one bedroom this Friday. I think the last one I went to, I went to see Zach Fox DJ. But I go to like experiences or immersions for with party groups. Because just to go out in the club, you gotta pay for parking. The drinks be expensive. They want you to pay an arm in the leg just to fucking stand around. Nobody be dancing, niggas be acting like bitches, they be all in the way. I'm just like, yeah. But to pay$60 to go out to a club in Nashville, you've got to be fucking that's crazy. And as much as I hate Broadway and partying with white folks, you don't have to pay to get in any of them fucking clubs. Not a one. Not a one. You don't have to pay to get in any fucking club on Broadway.

SPEAKER_04

Rooftop clubs.

SPEAKER_06

Rooftop clubs. Because I was just down there. Y'all top law for fucking part. When Limelight was open, I've never paid to go in the Limelight.

SPEAKER_05

No, I didn't pay to get in Limelight.

SPEAKER_06

Never paid.

SPEAKER_05

Mm-mm. Nope.

SPEAKER_06

But even if you had to pay to go to, as a woman, I don't think I've ever paid any more than$20 to get into$20 to$10 or$20 in in Nashville to get into a club. Same.$20 was the max. And that was a night war. And see, back then clubs were more predictable. You knew, okay, bitch, we paying$20. It's going to be a motherfucking time. You spend times where I've paid to go to places or I've been in clubs. I'm like, this shit's whack as fuck.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, and then leave. And leave, you know, way before the shit is even over. And you like, fuck, now it's late. Where am I? Where else can I get in? Everywhere now is gonna charge me if that or more. So fuck it. I now have to just go the fuck home because I've already given you my money. It's like what going on one o'clock now. If I go in anywhere else, they done probably double the fucking price. So yeah, that shit is a that shit is horrible too when you spend money and going somewhere and it's lame as fuck.

SPEAKER_06

Not to mention, we live in the city. In Nashville, everything closes early. Yeah. 1.30 max. So you have a window. So if it's one o'clock and you like, damn, I still don't know why I'm gonna, you pretty much fucked. Unless you find a house party or but see, people so damn reckless and nasty nowadays. You go to like a hotel party after party, they ain't doing some other shit. Like, look, I'm not trying to fuck a dog or do cocaine or fuck 20 people. I don't know. I just want to twerk. That's it.

SPEAKER_05

And them after hour spots, I know it's like an after-hour spot out here in Nashville, but shit, like I know the last time K-Ron, I don't even fucking know, but I know uh I gotta get the name from K-Ron. K Ron went with one of his uh homeboys that was in town, and he took my car, and I fucking go to get in my car the next day, and I'm like, yo, did somebody hit you at the after-hour spot? Cause like the back of my, like under my car is falling off. And he had to go take my car to go get big. So I'm like, be careful at them out the after-hour spots, because them motherfuckers be drunk, wasted, and will damn near kill your ass in the parking lot.

SPEAKER_06

Just to go stand around in the club and look at each other, because the nigga ain't gonna actually dance.

SPEAKER_05

So yeah, we definitely gotta get some something's gotta give out here. Especially at, you know, at this point in time with don't nobody got no damn money. Don't nobody have no money for that shit.

SPEAKER_06

But but then it's just like this is why I hate it for black people, because it's just like we never really have spaces for ourselves because we can't even maintain our own spaces. Yeah. Because of dumb shit. We're trying to be, we're not Miami, we're not Atlanta. You need to do shit for the black people here. Yeah. And every city has its own club culture, but every black subsector in that city has its own club culture. Nashville club culture, we used to have five, six spots, cool. You know, we you didn't have to dress up like you going to Miami, but everybody look cute, casual, a little gene, a little heel. You got a good drink. You got it, and then we, you know, with us in in Tennessee, everywhere have a good chicken wing or a good catfish sandwich. And you go about your motherfucking business.

SPEAKER_10

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06

Now y'all trying to, the gr I had the I'm ready for y'all Hennessy Captain Crunch wing, grass walls to fucking dissolve. Every grass wall, every Hennessy waffle, every fucking, everywhere has hookah, weed, smoke, I'm fashion.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, that that is definitely sexy.

SPEAKER_06

No customer service. Having give me old Gertrude at the American Legion. Hey, baby, how you doing? You want a stick piece of chicken in the drink? Give me Gertrude. Because you hold me about me having me ready to fight out here. Yeah. All y'all care about is y'all lashes and your weave. You look a mess, and it's just not a fun experience. Amen. Any caboodle. That was our show, sis. You got anything else to add? Anything else to say? No, that's it for me. Me too. Well, it has been another week of Sisters in Sync, and we have synced up, y'all. We are back and we are better. And I look forward to talking y'all next week. Bye y'all. Bye.