Squats & Séances

Strength Lives Where We Soften

Venessa Krentz

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When life demands armor, choosing softness can feel radical. We guide a calm, precise journey that starts with breath, then travels head to toe using brief, controlled muscle tension followed by full release. That simple rhythm—tighten on the inhale, soften on the exhale—teaches the nervous system what safety feels like and shows the mind how to return to the present without force.
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Softness As Real Strength

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Hi Gritties. In a world that often requires us to be rigid, hard, tough to survive, it's important that we remember that real strength lies in our ability to soften, stretch, and be malleable. This is true of our physical bodies and most certainly true of our cognitive function. Today, let's take a few precious present moments to release and soften.

Settle In And Breathe

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Get comfortable sitting or lying down. It's hard to soften and release if parts of the body are voicing discomfort. When you're settled, allow your eyelids to gently close. Take a deep, slow inhale through the nose. And exhale through the mouth as you drop your shoulders. Again, take a slow, steady inhale through the nose. Exhale through the mouth and let your shoulders fall. One more time. Inhale through the nose, pulling the breath down into the body. And as the breath comes up and out through your mouth, let your shoulders fall. Allowing the breath to return to its natural flow. Close your mouth. Witness the exchange of air through your nose for a moment.

Feet To Legs: Tension Release

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Now bring your awareness down to the soles of your feet. Feel your breath reaching all the way down as you inhale to the tips of your toes. On your next inhale, breathe in and squeeze, scrunch and flex your toes, holding tension in your foot. As you exhale, let it go and soften every muscle there. Bring your breath up your legs to your calves. As you inhale, tighten up the muscles in your lower legs. And as you exhale gently, softly through the nose, release the tension and allow them to soften.

Pelvis And Core Soften

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Traveling up further to our quads and hamstrings. Inhale, tighten, flex those muscles and hold tension. And as you exhale, release, soften, let it go. Moving into the pelvis, inhale, squeeze, tighten. Gently exhale, let it go and soften. Moving to the abdomen. Inhale and flex. Pull everything up and in and squeeze. Exhale, soften and expand. Now arriving at the chest and shoulders.

Chest And Arms Unwind

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Inhale, squeeze, stiffen. Exhale, soften, and let go. Moving out to the upper arms, the biceps and triceps. Inhale, flex, squeeze, tighten. Exhale, release, and soften. Moving the awareness down to the forearms. Inhale, squeeze, hold tension, tighten. Exhale, soften, and release. Bringing the breath into the palms of the hands. As you inhale, curl your fists into tight bulbs

Hands, Throat, And Face Melt

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and squeeze. Exhale. Open, release, and soften. Bringing the awareness up the body now to the throat on the jaw. Inhale, deep breath through the nose, top of the breath, hold, feel tension, squeeze your neck, squeeze your jaw. Exhale, drop your shoulders, let your jaw hang loose. Now bringing the awareness into our face. Inhale, squeeze, scrunch, squint, feel tension and hold it. Exhale, let it go, release. And finally, taking a big inhale in through the nose.

Full Body Release And Stillness

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And at the top of the breath, tightening everywhere in the body at once. Hold, squeeze, tighten. Exhale, let the breath out and allow the softness to wash over your entire body. Let's sit in silence for a few moments and allow ourselves to melt into the softness we've created. When you catch your mind wandering, reconnect by bringing your awareness back to the softness and the soles of your feet. I'll watch the time and bring you back soon.

Gentle Return And Closing

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Gently, slowly bring some organic movement back into the body. Open and close your fingers and your toes. Roll your shoulders back and down to move your head side to side. Yes and no. When you're ready, gently allow your eyes to open. Welcome back. Time spent softening allows us to move with greater ease throughout each present moment. Thank you so much for meditating with me.