Pickles & Pasta with Steph and Jay

Pickles & Pasta EP18 - Friendship, Change, and Coming Home to You

Stephanie Rado Taormina & Jay Schweid Episode 18

Episode 18 - Friendship, Change, and Coming Home to You

In this episode of Pickles and Pasta with Steph and Jay, the duo opens up about what it means to shrink yourself to fit in across friendships, small towns, social media, and work. Steph shares how moving from New York’s fashion world to a quiet Pennsylvania suburb caused her to dial back parts of who she was without even noticing, and how divorce, grief, and building Have Some Fun Today shifted her relationships over time.

Together, they look at how different seasons of life change your circle, why some friendships naturally fade, and why others are worth holding on to. They dig into self-awareness, reconnecting with your creative self, and choosing relationships that support who you are now.


Topics Covered:

  • Shrinking to fit in and the subtle ways we make ourselves smaller
  • Social media self-editing and the pressure to be “just right”
  • Friendship seasons and why some relationships fade or deepen
  • Life transitions like divorce, loss, and reinvention that reshape our circles
  • Returning to yourself through awareness, inner work, and creativity
  • Choosing better rooms and people who match your full energy
  • Rapid-fire fun on favorite times of day, dream business skills, and movie characters they’d befriend

A reflective, candid, and ultimately hopeful conversation about outgrowing old versions of yourself — and finding the people who love you as you really are.