Being the Black Sheep
Summary:
Being the Black Sheep is a bold, unapologetic podcast hosted by Janine Stella—self-proclaimed misfit and truth-teller—created for those who’ve always felt like outsiders. It’s a space for fellow black sheep to share the wild, awkward, and unfiltered stories that come from living life on your own terms. With humor, heart, and a little swagger, Janine dives into family drama, questionable choices, and what it really means to embrace your “difficult” personality. Featuring real stories and expert insights, this show is for anyone who’s ever felt misunderstood. If you've been the topic of conversation more than part of it—welcome home. Let’s ruffle some feathers.
Being the Black Sheep
Ep. 9 - Silence of the Lambs: When the Black Sheep Finally Speaks Up!
Let’s be real — speaking up for yourself shouldn’t feel like a crime scene, but somehow it does. One minute you’re calm, cool, and collected, and the next minute you’re “too much,” “aggressive,” or “not a team player.” But here’s the truth: silence might keep things comfortable, but it also keeps you small.
In this episode, I’m talking about what it means to finally stop biting your tongue and start using your voice — even if it shakes. From years of being the family peacekeeper to finally standing up in boardrooms and relationships, this is the story of learning that self-respect doesn’t always sound polite.
We’ll talk about the emotional whiplash that comes with speaking your truth, the guilt trips people hand you when you set boundaries, and the freedom that follows once you stop apologizing for taking up space. Because when the Black Sheep starts to speak, the whole flock starts listening.
Follow the show, drop a 5-star review, and email me your “speak-up” story at info@stellamix.com
— I might share it in an upcoming episode.
Slide into the Black Sheep’s DMs – Janine’s waiting.
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