Lessons in Discernment
Lessons in Discernment is a podcast about healing after emotional abuse—and learning to trust your truth again.
Hosted by Stéphanie St-Jean, a survivor, author and advocate, each episode explores the tender, transformative space between trauma and recovery through storytelling, reflection, and soul-deep conversations.
From EMDR to gaslighting, therapy to self-trust, this podcast is a place to examine the systems we’ve internalized, the language we’ve inherited, and the stories we’re ready to rewrite. Because the most powerful voice in your healing journey is your own.
Find Stéphanie on Substack: lessonsindiscernment.substack.com
Check out her Linktree to view her children's book on self-worth, and download a free digital resource for survivors, by survivors: linktr.ee/lessonsindiscernment
Find Stéphanie on Instagram: instagram.com/lessonsindiscernment
Lessons in Discernment
When Silence Breaks: Discernment After Abuse with Elissa Swihart
What happens after survival? In this deeply moving episode of Lessons in Discernment, I sit down with Elissa Swihart — survivor, advocate, storyteller, and creator of Dismissed True Stories, a podcast amplifying the voices of women silenced or erased by abuse. Elissa is also the founder of Tala’s Closet, a donation-based free store that offers practical support to women and children escaping violence. Her work is healing in action — proof that rebuilding after abuse is not only possible, but transformative.
Together, we explore:
- The moment of clarity that sparks the realization: this isn’t love, this is control.
- How discernment becomes a daily practice in the healing journey.
- The revolutionary power of breaking silence and reclaiming your voice.
- The story behind Tala’s Closet, and how community care can be a lifeline.
This conversation is an invitation to survivors everywhere: your story matters, your truth counts, and you are not alone.
Find Elissa on Instagram: instagram.com/thedvsurvivorsisterhood
Listen to Dismissed True Stories: buzzsprout.com/2353153
Donate to Tala’s Closet: bit.ly/m/thedvsurvivorsisterhood
Find me on Instagram: instagram.com/lessonsindiscernment
Check out my Linktree to view my children's book on self-worth, and download a free digital resource for survivors, by survivors: linktr.ee/lessonsindiscernment
Find me on Substack: lessonsindiscernment.substack.com