Big Stuff With Danielle Colley

Does Everything Happen For A Reason (or is that something a$$holes say?)

Danielle Colley Season 1 Episode 1

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Does Everything Happen For A Reason? 

Conversations on Grief, Healing, and Resilience with Imogen Carn. 


In this compelling debut episode of 'Big Stuff,' host Danielle welcomes her first guest, Imogen. 

As a seasoned podcaster from the "Good Mourning" podcast and trauma informed breathwork facilitator, Imogen offers deep insight into her tumultuous journey through the harrowing experience of losing her mother to suicide. 

Imogen shares her profound story of uncovering the 20-year abusive relationship her mother was trapped in.

We delve into grief, recovery, and the transformative power of forgiveness, and explore various healing modalities that have helped Imogen on her path, including somatic therapies and breathwork. 

This episode also touches on the importance of addressing grief and death openly in a culture which often fears not only dying but also speaking about the dead. 

Imogen shares poignant reflections on resilience, the choice to find meaning in suffering, and her ongoing mission to support others with their healing journeys. 

You will gain insights on how to approach grief, making this episode a powerful resource for navigating the complexities of loss and healing.


You can find Imogen at - 

Good Mourning podcast 

Good Mourning Instagram

Imogen Carn Instagram


RESOURCES MENTIONED -

Books and authors mentioned include - 

 'The Gift' and 'The Choice' by Dr. Edith Egar

 'Grow Around Grief' theory by Dr. Lois Tonkin


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00:00 Welcome to Big Stuff

02:21 A Life-Changing Conversation

03:37 Uncovering a Dark Truth

07:31 The Aftermath and Seeking Justice

14:17 Understanding Coercive Control

23:21 Turning Grief into Purpose

29:12 Starting the Podcast Amidst Grief

29:28 The Evolution of the Podcast

29:45 Finding Light in Darkness

30:15 Honoring My Mom's Legacy

30:52 The Concept of Healing

31:02 Sacred Contracts and Life's Purpose

31:44 Everything Happens for a Reason?

32:20 Navigating Grief and Meaning

36:13 Supporting Others Through Grief?

36:33 Personal Grief Experiences

37:19 Dealing with Others' Grief

38:33 Teaching Grief and Death in Schools

41:12 A Personal Story of Loss

44:42 The Importance of Acknowledging Loss

45:22 Healing and Moving Forward

50:37 The Role of Somatic Therapy

53:35 Future Plans and Community Support