He Ate All The Emergency Snacks And Still Called His Ex

The forecast says ice, but what we’re really tracking is how people act when life slows to a crawl. We kick off with practical storm prep—charging devices, wrapping pipes, backup heat, and smarter grocery runs—then pivot to the kind of relationship truths that only show up when the roads are closed and the Wi‑Fi is iffy. From laugh-out-loud “Believe it, sister” stories to hard-won lessons on boundaries, hygiene, and equity at home, this conversation blends humor with heart and leaves you with a clearer sense of what matters under pressure.

Along the way, we revisit Georgia’s infamous ice week and how family rituals turned stress into memory. We contrast a hotel hide-and-seek side piece, a quarantine partner who ate all the emergency snacks and skipped showers, and a marriage that quietly unraveled over the words “I still need my freedom” before kids. These aren’t just wild tales—they’re red flags and green flags you can use. Ask the hard questions early. Respect the basics. Protect your time and your energy like the essentials they are.

To keep it light, we drop into a “who’s most likely” game that maps our rhythms: planning cozy nights, finding deeper meaning in small things, meditating then napping, pranking, laughing at the wrong moment, and yes, trying something new when the mood music hits. We round it out with school closures, schedule shuffles, a side-eye at grocery-lane entitlement, and sauna etiquette for crowded gyms. We close on gratitude—kids thriving with mentor support, and personal growth through therapy steps and better habits.

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Transcript

Welcome And Storm On The Way

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The Refreshingly Normal Podcast.

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All right, here we go. And three, two, and one. Action. Good evening, everyone. Or good morning, depending on the time that you're listening to us. But we are the Refreshingly Normal Podcast. I am one of your greatest hosts. I am Keith La.

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And I am the greatest of the greatest host, Lou Crisha, better known as Cree.

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Oh, Lou Crisha.

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Lou. Of course.

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All right. So, ladies and gentlemen, today is, what is today? Today is January the 23rd, 4th? Something like that. Oh, 24th, January the 24th. And everybody's prepping for this huge snowstorm, ice storm. Well, ice storm to us, but snowstorm to everybody north of Georgia.

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Right.

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All right. And so if you're out there, well, by now. Oh, today you no, you because we we'll release. Hopefully, you're able to hear it because a lot of people are going to be without power and whatnot. And um, so if you are trapped and you have power, this is the greatest way of all to let time pass by with a smile on your face.

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Jeez.

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Knowing that you're being loved and guided by two of the most enjoyable people on this planet.

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Know it.

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That's right. So um be safe out there.

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And um because in Dallas, there are some people already do not have power. That's great. One of my sorority sisters, she and her family were in their in the car charging their devices.

Power Outages, Safety Tips, And Car Charging

SPEAKER_01 1:58

Yeah. Yeah. So, you know, always, you know, gas your cars up, charge your cars up, you know, if you got electric cars. Um that way if you need to charge your devices, you know, you can go out there, sit in the car, charge them up. Um, don't just sit in the garage with it because you you're gonna have to open your garage a little bit if you you've got a gas car because you're letting those fumes get in there. You know, you don't want to be die. All right. All right, so um, how was your week?

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Um, my week was pretty good. Regular things at work, just updating presentations that are coming up, and um visited a school just to see how Zones was going at their school.

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Okay.

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And I started my part-time uh therapist job. You sure did. Um, I worked Thursday and Friday. And yes, I really um enjoyed it. Um, yeah, just right now doing the paperwork and things that go along with the initial intake and um provisional diagnosis of uh the my new clients.

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The worker woman.

Weekly Check-In And New Therapist Gig

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I'm a worker woman. A worker worker woman. Yes, I am a worker worker woman because literally I worked Friday 8 to 4. And then commuted to your other job. Commuted to my other J-O-B. And I was there from 5:30 to 8:30. I saw three clients back to back to back. And then had an impromptu date night with sure, did some little handsome gentleman stepped up on the scene. So they met me at my second gig, and then we went and had some tiny bites and cocktails, and it was uh a great end to a busy week.

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Bisset.

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And right now, just waiting to see what the weather's gonna do because here we have not gotten any ice or anything.

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Anything.

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Mind you, I canceled my hair appointment because at first they were saying that it was coming at one o'clock, and my hair appointment was at 12:30. So to be safe, I canceled it. And guess what? I could have got my hair done.

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You could have got it done and came back. But hey, but better say.

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So I'm sure probably the day that I rescheduled. We'll see what the weather's gonna be like then. Who knows? But, anyways, that was my week. How was your week?

SPEAKER_01 4:49

My week was good. I was uh being a uh weather forecaster. All my students were like, Coach Hair, you know, Dr. Hare, do you think we're gonna get the rain? I was like, let's see. So I go out there and pull up, you know, all the different forecasts, um, watching the ones on the news and watching the one on YouTube. This one, bring her blanket over here and just put it down right in this area.

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That's what she likes to do.

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And so one of the uh, this guy, I think it's called Ryan on Hey Y'all, Ryan Y'all sometimes. On YouTube? Yeah, yeah. That guy's good. He's real good. I have to look it up. Um he I watched him when he was uh forecasting the storm in Jamaica. And uh right on it, everything he said was, I mean, he was showing live stuff. It was crazy how he had all the street cameras, you know, locked in and But Ryan told us that the ice was coming at one.

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He was wrong.

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But then he also said it's it's coming at one like any other person. He said, but stay tuned because all of this stuff can shift.

SPEAKER_03 5:50

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 5:50

And he did say that, and everything is shifting. I mean, if you if you don't want to be perfect in your job, be a weatherman.

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Yeah, that's true.

Forecast Fandom And Weather Misfires

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And if you don't want nobody to get mad at you for not being right, be a weatherman. You know what I'm saying? So that's the perfect job because probable, likely, could, may not. You know, that's what they say all the time. And so uh, you know, but uh that's that was my um week. Um I'm almost done with my IEPs for the year. I got one next week. Um and then two. Yeah. One next week and then two more left, and I'll be done for the year.

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All right.

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So I'm gonna try to get them uh handled before I think one actually I'm gonna try to get both of them handled before fall break. I mean winter break.

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What? Oh, winter break, okay.

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Yeah, before the winter break. Yeah if I can get them done before the winter break.

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Ooh, you'll be loose.

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Yep, yep, yep. So, you know, since we're talking about the um the winter storm.

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Yes.

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Okay. Um remember that one storm we had, what was it, 2011?

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Okay.

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That was we was in the house we were renting.

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Okay.

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And um that was the one that they really didn't think it was gonna pan out the way it panned out.

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That wasn't Snow McGann, though.

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No, it wasn't Snow McGinnon. That was where the first Georgia was like, oh, yeah, we really can't handle ice like we thought we could.

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Because we literally, I think, was a week off of school.

SPEAKER_01 7:35

Yeah, and and people were like people were panicking because only a few people could get out to the grocery stores. Um, and then no trucks was like the the grocery stores were empty. There was nothing at the grocery store.

SPEAKER_04 7:48

Oh yes, I remember that. No. And then for us, I don't remember us kind of panicking because when you have littles, because the boys were like first grade, I think then.

SPEAKER_01 7:58

Because you were teaching at the Clifford.

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And so when you have littles, you always have food, snacks. Yeah, everything is there. So I don't even remember feeling like we don't have anything. I think we started to want to be more creative to have some different things, but yeah, we had a good time.

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That's when we made the popcorn with candy corn.

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Uh-huh.

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We made the popcorn and then we melted candy corn and something else on, and then we drizzled it over the popcorn. It was so good. And then the boys did a talent show.

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Yeah, they did a talent show.

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And that's the one where we got the picture from Kimoney laying on the thing like he was sunbathing.

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Uh-huh.

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Um, and uh, yeah, we yeah, but that was that was a crucial moment because a lot of people couldn't get anywhere.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, for a whole week it was people, they was just stranded. And you knew people that were uh we knew people, well, we didn't know people, but you heard stories of people who went because they didn't even they didn't know it was gonna get bad like that. They went somewhere to somebody's house or or out of town or whatever, or or in a hotel, and then they got stuck.

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Uh-huh.

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And they were stuck with their side pieces. They sneaky link side pieces, Willie Earl, or whoever they were stuck with, you know.

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Miss Mabel.

Georgia’s 2011 Ice Memories And Scarcity

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Yeah, and they couldn't they couldn't get back home. And then some of the people were stuck with the people and realized I don't like these people. And in reference to that, I have some stories that I would like to read about people who were stuck during like stranded for whatever reason.

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Okay.

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And found out something about that person that they didn't actually know. Or the situation turned out crazy. And it would be one of those things that you would say, I can't believe that. But then you were supposed to say what?

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Believe it, sister.

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That's right. And so let's read a few of these believe it sister questions. I mean stories. Okay. Stir is that ain't it right now. Is it okay? I forgot it ain't wrong.

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Oh my Lord.

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There we go. All right.

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Oh, he's so. Okay.

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Story number one. I'm trying to think, do I want to read it like this? I think I'll read it like this. It's real, just real small.

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Okay.

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So a woman gets snowed in at her work. I mean, at her work trip hotel.

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Okay.

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Okay. Except the city shuts down and flights are canceled for four days. Her husband FaceTimes her constantly. Hey, what's up? Just checking on you. Hey, boom. What's that looking like, girl? I miss you, baby. I miss you 200 buttons.

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But while they're FaceTiming, what did she see?

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No, it's what he didn't see. She had her side dude hiding in the bathroom. By day three, the side piece realizes he's the one being quarantined and demands honesty. Say, yo, I think you need to tell your husband that you over here, you know, slipping around with Big Daddy. She didn't. She refused.

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Okay.

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But guess what?

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What did he do?

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On day four.

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He popped out on the call.

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The husband. Surprise, surprise.

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Surprise, surprise!

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He did a rescue drive to go get his boo.

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Oh!

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And when he got up to the hotel, the sneaky link got surprised. And he snuck out when he found out before he got to the room. Yeah. He snuck out to the fire escape and nothing but his shorts and socks.

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Well, he's lucky they had a fire escape. Because I have never been in a hotel that had a fire escape.

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Like the fire exit, I meant.

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But he had to go out the front door?

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No, before he got to the room, the husband. The husband let her know when I'm at the hotel.

SPEAKER_03 12:06

Oh.

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I'm at the hotel, baby. I'm coming up to see. Cause you know you gotta know the room number. They don't let you guess the channel. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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They don't tell you that.

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What's your room number?

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What?

Believe It, Sister: Stranded Secrets

SPEAKER_01 12:16

You here? Clutch the pearls. And then she said, You got to go. What are you talking about? I gotta go back. My husband here. So he had time to get his shoes on. Oh, my lord. He had to go down the stairs.

SPEAKER_04 12:35

Well.

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What would you do? If you knew.

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Okay, so you were stranded.

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I'm stranded.

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And you are got your sneaky length back.

SPEAKER_01 12:47

Well, you ain't driving on the highway anyway. I ain't letting you go.

SPEAKER_04 12:49

I drive on the highway.

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Oh, but I'm not letting you. If everything's stranded, you don't know. But you would still say he'll be mad if I didn't get on this highway. I better not get on this highway.

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Oh, I don't know.

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Well, that's just me talking for you. That's just me talking for you, excuse me.

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Maybe the husband. Well, it's probably different too because it's a husband and wife. Yeah. The husbands feel like they have to rest.

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Yeah, I definitely, I'll be like, let me get on the road, get in the G.

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But ain't nothing to say because that he escaped.

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He escaped, yeah.

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And the husband doesn't know anything. So what you gonna do?

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Yeah, the side dude learned his place. He learned he really was a side dude.

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Yeah, that's his title.

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The side old side of ice.

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So light on the water. Because they got to escape.

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Yeah, they got to escape. She got away with that one.

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She did. Which means she's gonna do it again.

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She's gonna do it again, old trifling. Tell yourself. Is that xling or that's just trifling?

SPEAKER_04 13:50

Uh, that's xiplin.

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Oh, health of cheese.

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Heifa cheese.

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Yes, uh heifer cheese. All right, here we go. Story number two.

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Okay.

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This couple have already been together for six months. Okay. They were a couple of six months. They decide to quarantine together during a winter storm. No distractions, no leaving, just the two of them. Yeah, just you know, trying to get to know, baby. You know, I ain't never been, you know, but you like this. This is nice. I appreciate you, mama. So by day two, old buddy.

SPEAKER_04 14:31

I was like, I'm tired. It's healthy. Oh, what?

SPEAKER_01 14:34

He ain't showered.

SPEAKER_04 14:36

What?

SPEAKER_01 14:36

He ate all her emergency snacks.

SPEAKER_04 14:39

Thank you, Buddha Tail Cell.

SPEAKER_01 14:41

He calling his ex just to check on her power. I'm just calling to make sure she got because I know she lived over the bottom trees, and you know, they said a lot of ice was down.

SPEAKER_04 14:49

Oh, so he just called to make sure she's all right.

SPEAKER_01 14:51

Yeah, I'm just making sure everything's good. Okay.

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Make sure she got. He ate all your food and got the nerve to check on his eggs.

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And by day three, she realized You got still. The snow didn't trap her. This man did. So by day four, the road's clear. She packs quietly, leaves a note on the counter that says, The storm showed me who you are.

SPEAKER_04 15:21

Raggedy.

SPEAKER_01 15:22

She blocked him before she even hit the driveway, honey. Got up out of there. Personal growth. Believe it, sister.

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Believe it.

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Now, you stand with somebody, they eat all your snacks.

SPEAKER_04 15:38

Listen, first of all, him sitting up there with his little stanky self and ate the snacks. I probably would have been gone the first day. I just would have just made myself myself on up out of them.

SPEAKER_01 15:52

A wise woman once said, You know you can take too many showers.

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Somebody did say that.

SPEAKER_04 15:57

Y'all want to know who said that? My mama. Because she said, We take too many showers. Especially me. You know you can take too many showers, just dry your skin all out. I said, uh, we are fine. We are taking showers the way we need to.

SPEAKER_01 16:16

Yeah, but that shower part got the nah. I gotta, you gotta get in that shower.

SPEAKER_04 16:20

Oh, yeah, you got to get in the shower. What do you think? Because they not going anywhere. But I'm sure if they laid up quarantining, I know they doing something.

SPEAKER_01 16:30

They might. Might not be doing it.

SPEAKER_04 16:31

And well.

SPEAKER_01 16:33

They might be yoked in the Lord.

SPEAKER_04 16:35

Well, even when we lay, even when it's a uh quarantine or a lazy day, before we go to bed, we take a shower.

SPEAKER_01 16:43

You gotta take a shower.

SPEAKER_04 16:44

You've been sitting up all day.

SPEAKER_01 16:46

Gotta take a shower.

SPEAKER_04 16:47

Yeah, you gotta show you.

SPEAKER_01 16:48

Because it sounded like they was at the hotel too.

SPEAKER_04 16:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 16:51

She said she left before he, you know, left.

SPEAKER_04 16:53

And if she's complaining about him not taking a shower, I mean he must have had a little stench.

SPEAKER_01 16:59

It don't matter. You ain't got a stench. You ain't got a stink. You ain't gotta stink. You gotta take a shower.

SPEAKER_04 17:07

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 17:08

That's just, you know what I'm saying. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 17:11

Did he even brush his teeth?

SPEAKER_01 17:13

I was listening to um, what's our girls that we listened to? Kiki and Medina. Yeah, Kiki and Medina. Um, what's their podcast called?

SPEAKER_04 17:22

A cocktail.

SPEAKER_01 17:23

Cocktails, dirty discussions with Kiki and Medina Monroe. Yeah. I got it, didn't it?

SPEAKER_03 17:28

You did.

SPEAKER_01 17:29

But um, they were saying, and it was a letter. It was like an advice letter.

SPEAKER_03 17:33

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_01 17:34

And this person, same thing, like he said, the lady said the guy didn't don't brush his teeth, he only brushes his teeth one time a day, and that's at night. So he don't brush them.

SPEAKER_03 17:49

In the morning?

SPEAKER_01 17:50

Yeah, he don't brush them in the morning. And then he said his gums sometimes be hurting. So he got halatosis. Right. That's what Key said. He said, wait a minute. And so, so she said, of course they're not having sex because she don't want him breathing on top of her with a bad breath. And he don't, you know, brush.

SPEAKER_04 18:09

Why is she with him?

SPEAKER_01 18:10

Right. And he also didn't bathe as often.

SPEAKER_04 18:14

Oh no, I don't need nobody that bad. I don't need a man that bad, child. You have got to get.

SPEAKER_01 18:19

You can be fine as all outdoors. Smelling like outdoors.

SPEAKER_04 18:25

You got to get out of there.

Hygiene, Boundaries, And Dating Non-Negotiables

SPEAKER_01 18:25

You're gonna be outdoors. Either I'm gonna be outdoors getting in my car. Yes. Somebody outdoors.

SPEAKER_04 18:30

Yeah, somebody is.

SPEAKER_01 18:31

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 18:31

And it ain't me. Because I bathe and I brush my teeth twice. Three times a day.

SPEAKER_01 18:37

Oh yeah. I'm getting in that shower several times. Several times.

SPEAKER_04 18:43

Yeah.

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That's that's straight up.

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For real.

SPEAKER_01 18:46

That's yeah. Okay. Okay. And last one.

SPEAKER_02 18:49

Yes.

SPEAKER_01 18:50

Snowed in and snowed out. Uh-oh. Yes, ma'am. All right, so snowed in and snowed out. Okay. It's, I mean, it's not as bad, but it's like, it's a little something.

SPEAKER_03 19:03

Well, what is it?

SPEAKER_01 19:04

Okay, they snowed in for a week. It's a married couple.

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Okay.

SPEAKER_01 19:07

You know, they start talking about what-if scenarios and all that good stuff, right?

SPEAKER_02 19:12

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 19:13

So while they're talking all that, all that good stuff, uh, Cabin Fever turns into deeper conversations.

SPEAKER_02 19:20

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 19:20

Okay. He says, real casual, you know, if we had a baby, I think I still need my freedom.

SPEAKER_03 19:31

What do you mean by that?

SPEAKER_01 19:32

But I guess, you know, when you say freedom, I guess I still need to go hang out with the guys when I need to. Uh-huh. I can't be getting up all times of the night with the you know with the baby. Baby, yeah. I can't be changing no diapers.

SPEAKER_04 19:45

Oh, he can't change no diapers.

SPEAKER_01 19:46

He ain't doing all that, man. His name is Nelly. But, you know, Nelly's talking about he had a nanny.

SPEAKER_04 19:52

He can afford a nanny. Right.

SPEAKER_01 19:54

So if you got a nanny, you ain't gotta change no diaper.

SPEAKER_04 19:56

Because I ain't got to either.

SPEAKER_01 19:57

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Exactly.

SPEAKER_04 19:59

All right.

SPEAKER_01 19:59

You know? But anyway, this man, he was talking about, you know, I still want my freedom. She calmly didn't raise her voice. She just said, Well, then, you don't need a wife. And he was adamant about Come on now, you tripping. He don't need kills, right? When we have kids. Not if he said, but when we have kids, I'ma need my freedom.

SPEAKER_03 20:23

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 20:25

So what guess what they did? What you think they did?

SPEAKER_04 20:28

Okay, so he said, they still strengthen. They still strengthen. Oh, they probably would slept in separate bedrooms.

SPEAKER_01 20:36

They spent the rest of the storm in separate rooms texting. Who you think they was texting?

SPEAKER_04 20:43

They exes. Each other.

SPEAKER_01 20:46

Mm-mm.

SPEAKER_02 20:48

Oh, divorce lawyers.

SPEAKER_01 20:49

Yep. They were texting the lawyers once the Wi-Fi came back. The snow melted and the marriage melted as well.

SPEAKER_03 20:56

Oh.

SPEAKER_01 20:57

Yep. So honesty saves years of travesty.

SPEAKER_04 21:04

But what I will say is those deep conversations should have happened before you said I do.

SPEAKER_01 21:11

Yep. But maybe they were those people who say you can't bring up all this stuff in the conversations in conversation when you're dating. You know how people say that's too soon to bring that up. Wait.

SPEAKER_04 21:22

But when you get to the closer to the I do, you should.

SPEAKER_01 21:25

You should have.

SPEAKER_04 21:26

I mean, like, for instance, you and I dated very quickly, got married very quickly. We had those conversations.

SPEAKER_01 21:34

I'm a conversationalist. Oh, no. So I'm gonna bring up the conversations.

SPEAKER_04 21:37

That's your story.

SPEAKER_01 21:38

I am. I'm gonna bring up those. I bring up conversations all the time. I always speak in the uh wonder realm. All of my conversations. We always have these questions, right? Yes. What'd I say? Give me an example of a question I say.

SPEAKER_04 21:54

Maybe that's where your child gets it from. Hypothetically speaking, do you say that?

Cabin Fever Confessions And Divorce Realizations

SPEAKER_01 21:59

Yeah. Or I'll just say, I don't know where I say.

SPEAKER_04 22:02

What would you do if you got$2 million right now?

SPEAKER_01 22:06

What you gonna do? You gotta spend it before eight o'clock. What you gonna do? Yeah. Stuff like that. And then I'll bring up serious questions like boom, boom, boom, whatever it is. But uh you you hear that, you know, even through all the social media stuff, you hear people saying, No, those questions are too deep to be asking on the first part of your dating.

SPEAKER_04 22:23

Well, it'll save you some money, it will save you money and time. Money and time, because I I don't know how much they spent for their wedding, but they ended up spending thousands at least for a wedding. And to know something they could have found out if they just would have had that conversation. If that scares somebody off you having that conversation, then they were not meant to be because if they do not want to answer those specific questions because those are important questions that decide whether or not somebody is for you.

SPEAKER_01 22:52

I think the guy has the opportunity to ask as many questions as he wants to on a date because And a woman. But I'm what I'm talking about. Can you always and a woman and the angel?

SPEAKER_04 23:01

Well, you say it a man. I'm just saying both of them.

SPEAKER_01 23:06

Let me tell you why.

SPEAKER_04 23:07

Why?

SPEAKER_01 23:08

Because normally in the dating realm, who's paying for the dates? Normally. Don't even think, don't even say nothing. Normally.

SPEAKER_04 23:20

Normally.

SPEAKER_01 23:20

What's the expectation, Cree?

SPEAKER_04 23:22

Normally.

SPEAKER_01 23:22

What is the expectation? Let me say it don't say you don't have to say normally. All you have to say is I'm saying it's normal.

SPEAKER_04 23:28

I'm getting ready to do art in the normal. I'm normal. We are refreshingly normal.

SPEAKER_01 23:33

Cree. All right, ladies and gentlemen, normally it's the man. And the expectation for it is the man. And so if it is the man, he wouldn't save his coins and go ahead and find out is this the person I need to be spending more money on.

SPEAKER_04 23:47

But if the man's gift card that he got from old ladies at work. He might want to save his gift card.

SPEAKER_01 23:55

Exactly. I'm not finna spend all my gift cards on you. I could be saving it because if I'm single, I can take my single behind and use my gift card. Okay. Right. You ain't worth my gift cards. I don't care if it's a gift card, Cash App, or free food at your homeboy restaurant.

unknown 24:12

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 24:13

It's time, and my time is valuable. Whether I swipe it or punch it in, my time is valuable. Thank you. Well, that was our believe it system. All right. So now we all like games, right? What game show did you always want to be on or the one?

SPEAKER_04 24:41

Family Feud! Family Feud. I still want to be on Family Feud.

SPEAKER_01 24:45

My dream game show is Prices Right.

SPEAKER_04 24:48

Oh.

SPEAKER_01 24:49

Has always been the Prices Right. I always thought when I got to California, I was going to be on Prices Right. When I first moved there, I was like, I'm going to be on Prices Right. When I moved there, what I needed. Did you try? No, I didn't.

SPEAKER_04 24:59

Oh.

SPEAKER_01 24:59

And then um because I started I started.

SPEAKER_04 25:02

You gonna be on something you don't even try?

SPEAKER_01 25:04

Because I started learning stuff about it. And I was like, like What you learned about that when you get the prize, you gotta pay the tax on it. Oh yeah. So I was like, psst. You know, at the time I didn't have no money. So I'm like, I want the car, but I gotta pay tax.

SPEAKER_04 25:18

That's like even win.

SPEAKER_01 25:20

I'm winning.

SPEAKER_04 25:21

Oh.

SPEAKER_01 25:22

I know the price is right. I know the price is right. And I was gonna be the number one game I want to do is when that man got a That's the main game I wanted. That one. And the one where you run back and forth and change the prices real quick. I knew that one. Um Plinko is okay. I like that's too. But it's okay.

SPEAKER_05 25:46

Yeah, it's Plinko.

SPEAKER_01 25:48

Plinko ain't strategy. That's all up to them.

SPEAKER_04 25:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 25:50

Yeah. I like that one. The only strategy is that.

SPEAKER_04 25:52

And I want to spend the big wheel.

Dating Questions That Save Time And Money

SPEAKER_01 25:54

Yeah, I was gonna spend the big wheel, get big money. Yeah. And then I knew my um showcase showdown, I was gonna go where I was gonna get a car, a boat, and a trip.

SPEAKER_03 26:06

Oh, and a trip.

SPEAKER_01 26:07

Yep. And then I was gonna win the other person too, because I was gonna be less than$100 away. So I already knew. You already and I actually, when I uh first went there, I sent my information to be uh on the prices right as um one of the what do you call it? Like, like not you know, prices right, they used to always just be girls.

SPEAKER_04 26:32

The ladies.

SPEAKER_01 26:32

But then they started doing guys.

SPEAKER_04 26:33

Oh, I didn't know that.

SPEAKER_01 26:34

Yeah, and so I couldn't.

SPEAKER_04 26:38

So now my my daddy likes to watch Family Feud, but I think he'd be so funny on it because they'll be like asking the question.

SPEAKER_02 26:46

He'd be like, ah, uh, then it'll be like Curtis.

SPEAKER_04 26:53

What did you do?

SPEAKER_01 26:54

Oh man, we didn't even get a chance. It's a bad fishing. Too late, Mr. Curtis. But I said the right answer. Oh shit. Mr. Curtis can't cuss on the tooth. Well, damn. Mr. Curtis can't cuss. He definitely would have been messed up. Yeah. Um the other show was um, but of course you had to be uh famous. I thought I was gonna be that at one point. Hollywood Squares. I was gonna be one of the one of the things in Hollywood Squares.

SPEAKER_04 27:32

I liked um what's the one that's a triangle?

SPEAKER_01 27:39

Um Pressure Luck, is that it?

SPEAKER_04 27:42

I can't think of it.

SPEAKER_01 27:43

Uh the Pyramid, Thousand Pyramid.

SPEAKER_04 27:45

Maybe so.

SPEAKER_01 27:45

It's it's called the Some Thousand Thousand Dollars Pyramid. Yeah. L-O. Because that's the word that's had a few. And pick Pictionary, whatever it was. Oh, yeah. When they used to draw the stuff. Yeah, I like I love that kind of stuff. Nah, I don't know. I'm not a good drawer. I love that. Um, but those are the games. But today we have our own game. Yes. And uh we're gonna ask a few questions. And with these questions, we're we have selection choices. It's either me or you, okay? And I'm gonna read a few, you read a few.

SPEAKER_05 28:18

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 28:18

You know? I'm a reader, you a reader. Would you like to be a reader too? Because I can read. We taught reading um in foley.

SPEAKER_04 28:28

Sure you did.

SPEAKER_01 28:29

In foley high school, foley elementary. Then I, you know, I went to private school to start my start my career off. I went to Gulf Shores. I mean not Gulf Shores. I went to open door Christian school.

unknown 28:40

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 28:41

That's where my cousin knocked my eye off. Half of my eye was on her metal lunch box.

SPEAKER_04 28:48

Ouch.

SPEAKER_01 28:49

Yeah. All right. And we had to we had to recite Bible verses every Friday. You get them on Monday on your little cards, and you had to recite them.

SPEAKER_04 28:57

Okay, I like um your Easter speech.

SPEAKER_01 28:59

Yep, I was good though. All right. So this subject here, the section is let's see, the best. Okay. Who's most likely to questions for couples? Okay. And then there's some juicy ones, funny ones, and spicy ones, and interesting ones.

SPEAKER_05 29:20

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 29:21

All right. So we'll just read a few. We'll read two or three each.

SPEAKER_05 29:25

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 29:26

Let's do three each.

SPEAKER_05 29:27

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 29:28

Okay. Um, I'm going to choose.

SPEAKER_03 29:32

Oh, Lord, Jesus, child.

SPEAKER_01 29:34

Just choose. Who's most likely to get hangry and deny it? All right, just make sure you ain't lying because you are a liar.

SPEAKER_04 29:47

I am not.

SPEAKER_01 29:48

You and my mama.

unknown 29:49

Oh.

SPEAKER_01 29:50

I told you I would not see y'all in heaven. Right. Over small stuff. They're gonna be like, you mean tell me, Lord, you made me go. Just keep on going with your raggedy questions. I didn't eat all his Oreos. Oh my God. Over to Oreos, oh God? Really?

SPEAKER_04 30:09

Really, Jesus? I'm not worried about you. The Lord knows my heart.

Game Night: Who’s Most Likely

SPEAKER_01 30:15

He does. And he knows that mad boy getting ready to get burnt. All right. Who's most likely to plan a cozy night in? All right, all right, all right. We agree.

SPEAKER_04 30:30

Because he's a man of the streets.

SPEAKER_01 30:32

That's right, baby. That's right. I'm a street walker. Who's most likely to see the deeper meaning in something small? All right, all right, all right.

SPEAKER_04 30:46

Because he thanked too hard.

SPEAKER_01 30:47

I be thanking all the time.

SPEAKER_04 30:49

Thanking.

SPEAKER_01 30:49

All right, you read three from that section there. Which one?

SPEAKER_04 30:52

Oh, the one that's up. Okay.

SPEAKER_01 30:53

Yep. Three from that section.

SPEAKER_04 30:55

All right. Who's most likely to remember the little things?

SPEAKER_01 31:09

I said me. I do, I be remembering small, intricate details.

SPEAKER_04 31:15

No, he forgets.

SPEAKER_01 31:16

No, I be remembering stuff. I forget what she uh want me to remember, and then she forgets what I want her to remember. For sure. Y'all get it? Right.

SPEAKER_04 31:29

All right. Who's most likely to secretly plan a surprise?

SPEAKER_01 31:36

I said me.

SPEAKER_04 31:42

I am the surprise person. I surprise you sometimes too. Who does the big good surprises?

SPEAKER_01 31:55

That's not a question I can't answer that. That's not on there.

SPEAKER_03 31:59

My surprises ain't good.

SPEAKER_01 32:00

No, I said that question that you just said isn't on there, so I couldn't participate in the voting.

SPEAKER_04 32:05

All right.

SPEAKER_05 32:07

Um come on.

SPEAKER_01 32:16

What you got?

SPEAKER_04 32:17

Okay, let me tell you that.

SPEAKER_01 32:20

Um not so easy, is it? Uh uh.

SPEAKER_04 32:25

Who most like who's most likely to cry during a movie?

SPEAKER_02 32:32

I'm just kidding.

SPEAKER_01 32:33

Right, you know. I don't cry. I'm a karate man. Karate man cry on the inside of Eddie Murphy said. Oh, Lord. You here, you can just start the you start from the the juice.

SPEAKER_04 32:46

Okay. Juice it.

SPEAKER_03 32:48

Let's get to the juice.

SPEAKER_04 32:50

Juice. Who is most likely to laugh at the wrong moment?

SPEAKER_01 33:03

Where's I'm gonna do it like this. Yes, both of us.

SPEAKER_04 33:07

I was trying to figure out how to do it.

SPEAKER_01 33:08

But we'll keep it in. But we know we shouldn't be laughing, but we'll keep it in. We won't like let like she, okay. Who's most likely to make it to to let that laugh slip and it go out loud first? Right.

SPEAKER_04 33:26

Okay, um, who most likes most likely to be hurt by something unspoken?

SPEAKER_01 33:38

Something unspoken? Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 33:41

Uh I'm saying all right, and Who's most likely to try healing work on their own?

SPEAKER_01 34:03

Yep, yep, yep, yep, yep. All right. Who's most likely to want more affection, but will not say it?

SPEAKER_02 34:18

Oh yeah, you'll say it.

SPEAKER_01 34:23

All right. Um who's most likely to be afraid of being fully seen? All right. Who's most likely to say something inappropriate in front of the other's parents? I'm not.

SPEAKER_04 35:00

Oh, I get it from my mother-in-law. Both of my mamas.

SPEAKER_01 35:04

You just doing what?

SPEAKER_04 35:06

Keeping it real.

SPEAKER_01 35:07

Keeping it real.

SPEAKER_04 35:08

From my mama and mama-in-law. They both like to keep it real.

SPEAKER_01 35:13

Well, I look, I didn't mean to say, look, I was just saying. Oh, you shouldn't have just said. All right, here we go. This is from section of this is the section eight. Okay, section eight. You now you eat with your friend over there. She said, that was the oh, this is funny section. Okay. All right, here we go. No, yes, that was.

SPEAKER_04 35:38

Come on, Tyrone. Get it together.

SPEAKER_01 35:40

See, it ain't working right. Okay, funny. All right, here we go. Who's most likely? Who's most likely to cry laugh at their own joke?

SPEAKER_04 35:56

Because I am hilarious.

SPEAKER_01 35:59

Yeah, okay. Okay. Yes. All right. Who's most likely to send a meme instead of a serious text? You know, I I I'll hit you with a meme real quick.

SPEAKER_04 36:11

Well, he does, and sometimes they're inappropriate.

SPEAKER_01 36:14

They are not inappropriate.

SPEAKER_04 36:16

That one you sent uh to men and footer with the uh lady in the closet and the man in her booty.

SPEAKER_01 36:22

No, that was that was crazy. That was what that was insane.

SPEAKER_04 36:27

Inappropriate.

SPEAKER_01 36:28

That was insane.

SPEAKER_04 36:29

Craziness. I can't even believe that was on Instagram.

SPEAKER_01 36:32

That was insane.

SPEAKER_04 36:33

Somebody need to take that down. Somebody should report it.

SPEAKER_01 36:35

But she had on clothes.

SPEAKER_04 36:37

I don't care. It was too much.

SPEAKER_01 36:39

Yeah, that was why I had I can't believe this.

SPEAKER_04 36:42

It was crazy. I'm telling y'all, it was crazy.

SPEAKER_01 36:45

And it was like she was killing that, man. I bet it's I bet you think it's gone now.

SPEAKER_04 36:49

Yeah, it's got to be gone now.

SPEAKER_02 36:51

If we go back to our better, this video is no longer available.

SPEAKER_01 36:54

All right, so a context, because some of y'all might have seen it. Okay, this lady was just doing like this, right?

SPEAKER_02 36:58

No.

SPEAKER_01 36:59

And she said, You gonna eat today or something like that.

SPEAKER_04 37:01

Yes, it was a man behind her. And he was actually doing it.

SPEAKER_01 37:06

But she was on keeping it. I I thought she was, I didn't, I didn't think he was, he wanted to, but she was like making him. Yes. Yeah. Yeah, that was a lot. Because it was like he was like underneath, and just like she was like being super aggressive on.

SPEAKER_02 37:24

Oh man, that was a lot. She was crazy. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 37:26

Yeah, that was all right. Uh the next one. Um, it's like a few of these, I want to say.

SPEAKER_03 37:38

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 37:39

Like one says.

SPEAKER_04 37:40

Why you can't say it?

SPEAKER_01 37:41

I mean, because uh we don't suppose to say so many.

SPEAKER_04 37:43

Well, just say what you're gonna say.

SPEAKER_01 37:44

Who's most likely to fall asleep mid-movie and deny it?

SPEAKER_04 37:47

Well, we already know.

SPEAKER_01 37:49

Right. All right. Um who's most likely. Who's most likely to prank the other? I like to prank. I like to prank too. We both like to prank. Yeah. I like to prank. I like to prank. Okay. Um, yeah, go ahead. You can read.

SPEAKER_03 38:12

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 38:13

Um where am I? Oh, this one. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 38:17

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 38:20

Oh, sorry.

SPEAKER_04 38:22

Who's most likely to say, we should meditate, then fall asleep?

SPEAKER_01 38:29

I don't fall asleep when I meditate, though. But I'm most likely to say it, but I'm not gonna fall asleep.

SPEAKER_02 38:34

No, I do.

SPEAKER_01 38:36

Yeah. Now, like on sometimes when I'm real like mentally drained and I do a long meditation in my meditation chair, you bought me, I will fall asleep. And I'm sitting straight up. That meditation chair, like literally, I'm sitting, it's real comfortable. I'm sitting up. It has no back on it. So it's kind of amazing how the powers of it happens. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 39:00

Who's most likely to become TikTok famous without even trying?

SPEAKER_01 39:07

I'll probably say you are.

SPEAKER_04 39:08

What would I do? What you think I'd do to become TikTok famous?

SPEAKER_01 39:11

I don't know. I think I just think you it'd be something that somebody finds, oh my God, she's like they said she's hilarious! And then you just become famous.

SPEAKER_04 39:22

Okay, last but not least. Um who would most likely forget where they parked their car?

SPEAKER_01 39:35

You know, we should have said we've done these and we didn't we got we forgot oh, most likely to park the car. Um I'ma say, I'ma say me, because I sometimes be just daydreaming. Um but we should we didn't say, like some of these we didn't say who the selection was. And we forgot we got drivers or audio listeners. So they were like, oh, who was it? Forgot.

SPEAKER_04 40:00

I said I'm hilarious.

SPEAKER_01 40:02

Did you say that for everyone? No, you know what? I'm not even gonna say that. Y'all, y'all, y'all see that.

SPEAKER_04 40:07

Moving on. No, I get to start.

SPEAKER_01 40:09

Okay, go ahead. I was just that's what we did last year. We done found something this person like it likes because she's getting over here all bossy.

SPEAKER_04 40:18

Now we're doing interesting who's most likely questions for couples. Are we a couple?

SPEAKER_01 40:25

A couple of nuts.

SPEAKER_04 40:29

All right.

SPEAKER_02 40:30

Um about this.

SPEAKER_04 40:39

Oh, who's most likely to want to move to a new place for a fresh start?

SPEAKER_01 40:46

Yeah, I said me.

SPEAKER_04 40:48

He would.

SPEAKER_01 40:49

Yep. I don't mind moving, especially now. Once I left California, I can move anywhere.

SPEAKER_04 40:54

Well, we moved. We moved. We both have moved. I moved from Kansas to Dallas to California to here.

SPEAKER_01 41:00

To here. So once I left my spot of Cali, I don't care where I go. I'm, you know, except back home. I don't want to move back home because there's no culture there.

SPEAKER_04 41:11

Yeah, same for same from where I came from. What about this? Who's most likely to randomly take up a new hobby?

SPEAKER_01 41:22

I said me. What'd you say?

SPEAKER_04 41:23

Yeah, I said you because you got lots of hobbies.

SPEAKER_01 41:26

That's right. And I love it. I love the fact that I do have a lot of hobbies. Even if I'm not good at them, I love the fact I got them. I I am good at a lot of things, but some things I'm not good because I don't be consistent in them.

SPEAKER_04 41:39

Yeah. All right. Last but um not least for me. Who's most likely to want a digital detox? Why do you think I want a digital detox?

SPEAKER_01 41:58

Because I feel like you you'd be the main one saying, you know what, I ain't I might need to get off of my stuff.

SPEAKER_04 42:06

I feel like you would say that because you'd be like, oh, I need to meditate. That's why I said it.

SPEAKER_01 42:16

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 42:17

All right. Last three.

Funny And Spicy Rounds

SPEAKER_01 42:18

All right. This is not the last three. We got one more section.

SPEAKER_04 42:22

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_01 42:23

Oh, you would jump. See, that's why you look.

SPEAKER_04 42:26

It doesn't matter.

SPEAKER_01 42:28

It you know what? No, it doesn't matter. It it really doesn't matter. But when you trying to be all under control and didn't know what you was doing, y'all seen it firsthand. All right. So, who's most likely to win a trivia contest? I said me.

SPEAKER_04 42:47

He knows so many random facts.

SPEAKER_01 42:49

Yeah, you gotta know random facts.

SPEAKER_04 42:51

Very intelligente.

SPEAKER_01 42:53

You gotta know random facts. Who's most likely to make f make friends with a celebrity?

unknown 43:03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 43:04

I said me. Oh, okay, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 43:06

Because I'm shy.

SPEAKER_01 43:08

And I just like to talk to people.

SPEAKER_03 43:10

And I'm shy.

SPEAKER_01 43:12

Alright. Who's most likely to create something? No, who's most likely to say, no, and we definitely gonna do that one. Uh-oh. Who's most likely to um break a generational pattern? Yeah. Alright?

SPEAKER_04 43:37

That's I'm not gonna explain why.

SPEAKER_01 43:39

Because you just a generational person. You're the first person in your family to know how to read two lines.

SPEAKER_04 43:47

In in serious, in seriousness, in my immediate household, I am uh the first one to go to college and graduate. Not only did I graduate with my bachelor's, I have a master's and a specialist degree. So breaking curses.

SPEAKER_01 44:10

You are one curse at a time. Spicy questions. Ooh, spice what you should have went to next, but you was too grown. All right. Who's most likely to plan a sexy weekend getaway?

SPEAKER_04 44:32

Well, you said Oh, you glad he got it right. You said you. Because I'm the planner.

SPEAKER_01 44:38

All right. Who's most likely to uh who's most likely now who can read? Yo, mammy. Who's most likely to turn a regular night into an unforgettable one? I said take two.

SPEAKER_04 45:01

Takes two.

SPEAKER_01 45:02

I said me.

SPEAKER_04 45:03

Most of us.

SPEAKER_01 45:04

That's right. All right. Who's most likely to get turned on mid-argument?

SPEAKER_04 45:14

Oh, yeah, because I ain't no turn on.

SPEAKER_01 45:16

Yeah. I'm just I'm always turned on.

SPEAKER_04 45:18

Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 45:19

So argument or what? It's like, uh yeah, we argue, but still, you know. I'll be fine. I'll be fine. I'll shut up arguing right then and there.

SPEAKER_02 45:30

Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_04 45:31

Okay. Um, the last three. Um who's most likely to suggest skinny dipping?

SPEAKER_01 45:45

Me. Oh yes. Yeah. But I wouldn't because you can't swim.

SPEAKER_04 45:50

If it's a pool that's far, maybe don't go six feet.

SPEAKER_01 45:53

It don't matter. You can't swim. I don't like getting in water.

SPEAKER_04 45:56

Oh my gosh. All right. Um, who's most likely to?

SPEAKER_01 46:06

Oh, now who can't read?

SPEAKER_04 46:10

Who's most likely to seduce you without a single word? Oh, you seducer now.

SPEAKER_01 46:24

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 46:25

You a seducer and a producer.

SPEAKER_01 46:27

I am. I'm a seducer. That used to be my name.

SPEAKER_04 46:32

Oh my god. You was what seducer?

SPEAKER_01 46:34

Yeah, when I used to dance. Ladies and gentlemen, coming to the stage. Seducer.

SPEAKER_04 46:41

That was your name. You had on um, I ain't had no name.

SPEAKER_01 46:46

But when I used to, when I used to do those uh Greek, those Greek auctions.

SPEAKER_04 46:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 46:51

Hey. I used to get down with the get down.

SPEAKER_04 46:56

Okay. All right.

SPEAKER_01 46:58

Don't get all. I got this.

SPEAKER_04 47:02

Who's most likely to try something new in the bedroom?

SPEAKER_01 47:09

Yeah, that's right.

SPEAKER_04 47:11

All I'm gonna say is, Aaliyah.

SPEAKER_01 47:14

Ciao, you're right. You know what? I'm gonna look. I'm gonna tell y'all this. Go ahead and tell them the story.

SPEAKER_02 47:20

I'm not gonna tell the story. It's too detailed.

SPEAKER_01 47:23

It's too detailed. All right.

SPEAKER_02 47:26

Aaliyah. Okay, I'm gonna tell it.

SPEAKER_01 47:29

Tell it.

SPEAKER_04 47:30

So when we were dating, forgive us, Lord, for we have sinned.

SPEAKER_01 47:36

That's why we didn't do it on Sundays.

SPEAKER_04 47:40

But when we were dating, uh oh, he always has mood music. That's right.

SPEAKER_01 47:47

If you don't have mood music, you were born after the 90s.

SPEAKER_04 47:55

I was like, mood music came on for you then. Okay.

SPEAKER_01 47:59

See that see how the Lord be look. The Lord knew. The Lord, hey. And so a bedroom DJ, baby.

SPEAKER_04 48:07

Bedroom DJ. So, anywho, Aaliyah's song came on. Aaliyah's song. Nah, I can't even.

SPEAKER_05 48:15

Hey that pretty baby.

SPEAKER_04 48:18

And he.

SPEAKER_01 48:22

And hey, come on.

SPEAKER_04 48:23

And he, I was like, what is going on?

SPEAKER_01 48:26

I feel like I was performing.

SPEAKER_04 48:29

I feel like this is kind of going with the rhythm of the song. So then afterwards, I was like, believe it, sister.

SPEAKER_01 48:41

Believe it, sister.

SPEAKER_04 48:44

Oh, that wasn't. Hey, that pretty thing.

SPEAKER_01 48:47

Yeah, I was, hey.

SPEAKER_04 48:49

He was getting it, y'all.

SPEAKER_01 48:52

You heard it. He was getting it. I was getting it. Hey, I should have mixed it. I be stroking. That's what I be doing. I be stroking to the east. I be stroking to the west. I should have put that on and went on.

SPEAKER_02 49:07

Anywho, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 49:09

Yeah. Hey, rhythm.

SPEAKER_04 49:10

Yeah, that's a thing.

SPEAKER_01 49:12

It's the rhythm of the night.

SPEAKER_04 49:14

Oh, Lord. Child, we got to get to dinner. What's next?

SPEAKER_01 49:17

Oh, go ahead. You read George?

SPEAKER_04 49:19

I remember.

SPEAKER_01 49:20

Okay. All right. All right. So, um, well, that was our believe it, sister. No, I mean, no, no. You done got me flustered. She done got me all flustered. I remember the days.

SPEAKER_04 49:31

It might be a performance tonight.

Storm Prep Checklist At Home

SPEAKER_01 49:33

What you say. What you say. And I got, oh, we got a uh what's uh Jill Scott New one?

SPEAKER_02 49:41

Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_01 49:42

Come on. Or Chris Brown, take it down. The body body roll. Hey. All right. I still got a little rhythm.

unknown 49:52

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 49:52

All right. Um, let's see. So that's it. We're getting ready for this snowstorm. I done prepped the house. I done uh wrapped our pipes up with some little stuff. I done put the little styrofoam thing on the um water faucet outside.

SPEAKER_04 50:07

Um Did you do something on the inside of the?

SPEAKER_01 50:10

That's what I'm saying. I wrapped the pipes. You don't have to wrap them on the outside because we don't have any exposed. The only thing that exposed outside is the uh gas pipe. Okay. And Papa said you don't have to do nothing with that.

SPEAKER_04 50:20

He said, because that's gonna be But we just need to leave those doors open on that uh cabinet though.

SPEAKER_01 50:26

You actually might not even have to do that. He said once you wrap the pipes, yeah, you should be fine. I believe that's it. But I mean we can if you leave, yeah, leave them open and then we have to leave the fireplace on that.

SPEAKER_04 50:36

That's the only sink that we have that is the outside is the outside. Like it's on the wall of the outside of the house.

SPEAKER_01 50:43

Yeah. Yeah, everything else is um interior. Um but you know, we prepped all that. We got gases in the car. Um I'm charging the fire um the flash, excuse me, the flashlight. Um I'm gonna download some movies on my or something on my iPad. That way, if there's something we want to watch, be like, well, at least we can watch something.

SPEAKER_04 51:06

We got the batteries for the fireplace so we can.

SPEAKER_01 51:08

Yeah, batteries for the fireplace so we can flick them on. Uh I saw this lady she did on T. Ladies, ladies and gentlemen, she had 15,000 likes.

SPEAKER_04 51:17

I said, Could you see something about the battery? Yes. Child should have said that.

SPEAKER_01 51:20

I know.

SPEAKER_04 51:21

You need to go on.

SPEAKER_01 51:22

Well, this white lady in a big old house.

SPEAKER_04 51:25

You should have done that.

SPEAKER_01 51:25

Child, you got everything.

SPEAKER_04 51:26

You know what? You should have videoed yourself doing all the things you did today.

SPEAKER_01 51:30

I should have prepped myself.

SPEAKER_04 51:31

See, he don't be ready.

SPEAKER_01 51:32

No, but see, they be having, they be, they have a camera person.

SPEAKER_04 51:35

That's why I be teaching.

SPEAKER_01 51:37

My camera person was too busy running a 10K and my socks getting blistered on her feet.

SPEAKER_04 51:42

Listen, I'm trying to prep. I did a 10K today and then wore his socks. God blesses on my feet, y'all too. Because I keep telling him, why are you wearing my socks? Here's the silver lining. I know on race day, them ain't the socks.

SPEAKER_01 51:58

Why are you wearing my socks?

SPEAKER_04 51:59

I just like how they go up high. I want something like that.

SPEAKER_01 52:01

That's all you I keep asking you every time, why you wearing my socks? You don't like me wearing your socks? All you have to do is say, I want I like them because they go up high. And what do you think will happen?

SPEAKER_04 52:12

You buy me so.

SPEAKER_01 52:13

Exactly.

SPEAKER_04 52:13

Okay, well, that's why. Now you know.

unknown 52:15

Jesus Christ.

SPEAKER_01 52:19

Hey, y'all. It's hey.

SPEAKER_04 52:22

My mama's calling me.

SPEAKER_01 52:24

You got to put her on hold because we almost finished.

SPEAKER_04 52:26

She's talking about weather update, please.

SPEAKER_01 52:28

Oh, okay. But so, but yeah, that's anyway. But uh, I'm excited about the oh, and they and then they cancel school for did we mention that? Yeah, no school on Monday. Which is crazy because Cobb County usually waits to the what they call that? The hour. Yeah, the up to the wee hours of the night. What yeah, what we hours are.

SPEAKER_02 52:47

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 52:48

Um, but yeah, so they did it a whole two days, or a day and a half in advance. So that's cool.

SPEAKER_04 52:53

No school for it.

SPEAKER_01 52:54

And we may have no school on Tuesday if the roads are real icy.

School Closures And Schedule Juggle

SPEAKER_04 52:58

Then I gotta re- I then I have to reschedule my hair appointment again because guess what I scheduled it for? Tuesday.

SPEAKER_01 53:03

And I have to reschedule my therapy appointment. Yep. Uh well, with the intake appointment for myself. Yeah. Yeah. Um, but we'll be fine. Yeah. We'll be fine. All right. So uh what are you looking forward to? And then we'll do. No, let's do the side eye. No, we're looking forward to side eye and then grateful for. Right.

SPEAKER_04 53:24

Um, I am. I'm not sure what I'm looking forward to. I am looking forward to getting my hair done because I have new hair. As I said, I really want to see.

SPEAKER_01 53:36

What kind are you getting? Straight?

SPEAKER_04 53:38

Um, well, you can curl it straight, whatever you want to do.

SPEAKER_01 53:40

But I ain't talking about when I say curl, I mean that's what I mean curly.

SPEAKER_04 53:44

Oh no, it's straight. You gotta curl it just. It ain't curly, no. It's not curly, it's straight. Um, and has a little different color in it than I've had before.

SPEAKER_01 53:52

So is this the year of the of the platinum?

SPEAKER_04 53:55

I don't know. The platinum scary somebody.

SPEAKER_01 53:58

Well, let's get a platinum wig and then that when that way we would wear it out one day.

SPEAKER_04 54:02

Okay. I'll do it like a glue Liz ready to wear.

SPEAKER_01 54:06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 54:06

Okay. I'll order one.

SPEAKER_01 54:07

I just want to see in the platinum. Okay. I think you'd be cool.

SPEAKER_04 54:10

I order one. So I'm really looking forward to that. So hopefully this week I'll be able to get in to get my do done. And I was supposed to have a doctor's appointment on Monday too, but that's not gonna happen. I have my annual with uh blood work.

SPEAKER_01 54:22

Oh, oh. Did you get your blood work done yet? Nope. Oh, they didn't even put it in? Nope. Did you call them to put it in? And put it in? Okay, well, that's fine. Okay. So do you tell them put it in at the end?

SPEAKER_04 54:31

Anyway, what are you looking forward to?

SPEAKER_01 54:32

I'm looking forward to the fact that one day you're gonna listen to me. So I better stop looking for that then. I better steep it one of that. But no, I'm looking forward to um um you know, j one, uh tomorrow's gonna be it's gonna feel different because there's no work on Monday.

SPEAKER_05 54:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 54:51

Uh I wish we knew for sure what Tuesday was gonna be like, because you kind of be anxious, you know, on Monday. Um but I'm looking f I'm just you know looking forward to that. Um and to um catch up with Kimoney, you know, his his weekly excursion, see what's going on with him. Um and that's what pretty much what I'm looking forward to. All right, uh, side eye of the week.

Looking Forward, Side Eye, And Gratitude

SPEAKER_04 55:20

I am side eyeing. I'm ready today. Okay, so y'all know everybody was out doing their grocery thing. Now I wasn't going into the the grocery store I think Wednesday and Thursdays when everybody was really kind of like panicky. So I did my grocery order online. So I was gonna go to Publix and then you just pull up into your little parking space and get your food. But then there were people parked in those spaces that were not getting food. So, anyways, I tried to park as close as I could to the space. It wasn't an actual space, but it was like on the curb to the side. And it was just busy, you know, everybody was in trying to get their stuff, and so I'm here with my hazards on, and it was a lady on the other side with her hazards on. So if you were coming through, you kind of had to kind of go between us. And this woman was driving, and her man or husband or whomever, I guess he got frustrated with he's not even a driver for one. And he flipped me off, y'all, and that just ties my hide. And so I looked at him and I mouthed, so he knew what I was saying. You are so stupid. Yeah, and I guess that's not very kind of me. I shouldn't have matched his energy, but I made sure I gave him eye contact and he looked at me like I was gonna be scared, but uh brother, no, sir. I looked at him until he looked away. So, yeah, that is my side. It's not that serious to be flipping somebody off, and that's how people get hurt.

SPEAKER_01 56:49

That's I told you, you know, there's certain it's a certain kind of pick person that flip people off. And it we all know what they look like and who they are and how they buddy, them kind of it flip just that's the so lame. Yeah, uh flipping somebody off is like the weakest thing to do, but it still pisses people off.

SPEAKER_04 57:07

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 57:08

Um, sometimes for me, it makes me laugh at the person.

SPEAKER_04 57:11

Um That's why I should have laughed because they can do it. That probably would have made it boring.

SPEAKER_01 57:14

Oh, they would they would have made them upset because it because now it makes them now you're really you're really saying you're a weakly. That's what I'm weakly.

SPEAKER_04 57:21

I've got to lock that in my brain. The next time, just laugh at them.

SPEAKER_01 57:24

Yeah, I've done it so many times.

SPEAKER_04 57:26

I always think like that is a flipping somebody off. I mean, like, I would never flip anybody off.

SPEAKER_01 57:31

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 57:31

So, anyways, that is my side of the week for that man who felt that way. And then his wife or girlfriend, or whomever, sister, whoever the woman was, she looked so embarrassed that he was behaving that way.

SPEAKER_01 57:43

Well, she married him, or she with him, or she with him, whoever she was, or unfortunately, you with him.

SPEAKER_04 57:47

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 57:48

You know, I'm sorry. I'm sorry for you.

SPEAKER_04 57:50

That's my side eye.

SPEAKER_01 57:51

It's a good side eye. What's your side eye? My side eyes. Uh today, you know, it uh one it superseded the one I had. But uh today, you know, I went to the gym because everybody was in the gym today.

SPEAKER_03 58:03

Oh, were they?

SPEAKER_01 58:04

And it was crazy because all week it was, you know, around four, around four o'clock, it was real light. Five o'clock, it picked up just a little bit, but it was, you know, not it was not like it was in the fall. You know, in the fall it was a nice number of people. Um, but for whatever reason, man, it was bananas today. I well, I of course I know people thinking, I don't know when I'm gonna be able to get back in here. And then everybody, you know, they were seeing Like you can store up workouts.

SPEAKER_02 58:32

That's not how the body works.

SPEAKER_01 58:34

But still, you know how it is. You know how people do. Um And then everybody was like, depending on the time, they was probably, you know, shutting the city down. Yeah. And so they was trying to compact all the workouts, you know, everybody's trying to compact themselves in there. And um it was it was it was packed. It was crowded. And so, you know, I went into the sauna. The sauna was crowded, um, but I was sitting down, and pretty much if you're sitting down, then you know, you gotta, you know, the there are a few people that stand on the wall. But then they started coming in and people on the wall, and so they just still getting in there.

SPEAKER_03 59:09

Oh no.

SPEAKER_01 59:10

So now they just standing up, you know. So you got people on the wall, people sitting in the thing, and then you got people standing.

SPEAKER_02 59:15

And I'm like I would have got out of there. I would have felt claustrophobic.

SPEAKER_01 59:20

But I knew, you know, a lot of them were, you know, you could tell they don't know the sauna structure. So they're not gonna be able to handle it. So they got out quick. Banners. Yeah, so they got out quick. They was only in there in the middle, ooh shit, oh, it's hot in here. It's sauna. It's supposed to be hot. And like get in the pool and say, dang, I'm wet.

SPEAKER_02 59:36

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 59:37

You know, but they was, it was uh, it was crazy. And then, you know, that one then one crew came in, somebody was unripe.

SPEAKER_04 59:46

They were ripe.

SPEAKER_01 59:47

Well, yeah, they were ripe, but they were unfresh. So I got my little um my little dry I had these little essential oils, and I poured it on there. It's the one that like has lemongrass and and peppermint. And it like some people get mad when you put that on there. Yeah, geez, that was that. Yeah. Everybody's thanking him. Shut up. And so I put it a little bit drops, and one guy's like, but I'd appreciate that. And but that was my side. I was the people that was just trying to get in the sauna.

SPEAKER_04 1:00:16

You and that's sauna.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:17

I love one day I'm gonna get me a sauna. If anybody out there wants to sponsor your boy sauna, the sauna people from um wherever those places saunas be sold at Instagram, whoever, Home Depot, Costco. Hey, I love sauna. I was in there today for over 30 minutes. Uh I've worked my way up now.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:36

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:36

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:37

Make sure you drink plenty of water.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:39

I know. I gotta drink plenty of water. I know for whatever.

SPEAKER_04 1:00:42

So if you're gonna sit in the sauna for 30 plus minutes, then you gotta drink more water.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:46

But you know how our roles reverse. Like I was the one that got, because remember we was in that other house, it was a size house, the uh rental house. You was not a water drinker. You know, and you say, I just can't drink water, then all of a sudden you became a water drinker, and then I look at me drinking water. It's so crazy how our roles have reversed. I was the jogger, the runner, now she's the jogger, the runner. I can't wait till the other role reversed. Yeah, well, I'm the booty smacker, and then she's gonna be like, I was like, oh girl, touch my booty. What you doing?

SPEAKER_03 1:01:16

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_01 1:01:17

Trying to get some.

SPEAKER_04 1:01:19

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 1:01:21

All right. So um what are you grateful for?

unknown 1:01:26

Grateful.

SPEAKER_04 1:01:28

Well, I will say um I'm just grateful for the progress of both of the boys. Like even this uh past week, there were some little challenges with Kahari's classes and hiccups, and he communicated like what was going on, and we were able to kind of help him kind of strategize, but he had to do all the work to get all the figure out what he needed and how to get it to go pick it up and but think of a relationship. Yes. Um he he has a class that's using an old computer software and needed something and he Windows 10, y'all.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:05

They wanted him to use Windows 10.

SPEAKER_04 1:02:07

Yes.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:07

This is a computer school. I mean, well, computer class. Windows 10.

SPEAKER_04 1:02:12

Yes, and nobody has com has Windows 10. It's not even supported by it's just crazy. But anywho, we had to figure out that for him so he wouldn't have to feel like he had to stay on campus to do the work. And so um, anywho, his old computer, favorite, his I would say one of his favorite teachers.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:31

Yep, my frat brother, Mr.

SPEAKER_04 1:02:33

Adams, Mr.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:34

Adams, Mr.

SPEAKER_04 1:02:34

Adams came in and saved the day. He's retired now, but he came in, saved the day, was able to give him a computer uh laptop he had that did have uh uh Windows 10 on it, and um um and then it was so cute to hear him call and say, I called Mr. Adams, and he said, I tell you what, go on and meet me right now over there at that uh Kroger on Dallas Highway. You can meet me there. He so he's I met him there, and he was just so excited. He really, really loves uh Mr. Adams. It just you can tell in his voice, he just was excited.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:08

That's what an alpha man will do for you, man. We always there for you.

SPEAKER_04 1:03:11

Not only just the alpha man, but just a good alpha man teacher.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:15

Yeah, yep, great.

SPEAKER_04 1:03:16

And who's great at uh building relationships with kids and uh he's just good at that. And so, anyways, so grateful for that, grateful for Kimani doing his thing at school and taking on leadership opportunities and speaking in front of people, and yeah, so yeah, I'm just grateful that they both are just progressing and stepping up and becoming just amazing, amazing young men.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:43

Amazing young men.

SPEAKER_04 1:03:44

That's what I'm grateful for.

Gym Crowds, Sauna Etiquette, And Wrap-Up

SPEAKER_01 1:03:45

Yeah, it is good. It makes me proud. Makes me proud, you know what I'm saying? Um to see my C walking around now, you know, doing being good people. Being good people. I am grateful for um the opportunity to um get better uh each week and each day. There are there are things that you know I know I'm not good at, but um you know, even just in daily living, like just you know, like like we say with my little piles and stuff. But I'm just grateful at the fact that, you know, noticing them in certain ways or certain things, you know, just okay, eliminate this, eliminate that. I'm grateful for because there are some people that don't do it. And there's some people that can't do it because you know the mind won't let them, you know. And I do like I said, I get like that, but I and also I think I'm grateful for the fact that I'm about to start trying, you know, I gotta go to the psychiatrist first, and you know, then the psychologist, I mean then the therapist, because that's the the plan that my primary care physician um had set for me, told me to do it in this step here for particular reasons. And so um I'm grateful for that opportunity. I'm grateful for the fact that I was able to meet Dr. Nettie. I don't know where he's at now, but I'm grateful that I did meet him.

SPEAKER_04 1:05:12

Yeah, but I think I thought about it like when I was looking at the contract for therapists, like they probably have he probably has something similar to that. So when we try to reach him, he can't.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:21

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:05:22

He can't respond because of that because he couldn't take his he couldn't take his uh patients with him.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:26

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:05:26

But he'll be back.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:28

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:05:29

Maybe one more year or so, you'll find him.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:31

Yeah, somewhere. Uh-huh. Yep. Um, but that's what I'm grateful for, man. Um, I'm grateful for the fact that uh we have options through this storm. Um you know what I mean? Like people had to go get generators and we're not. I mean, a generator would be good, but it's not necessary. Okay, if our food mess up, okay, mess up.

SPEAKER_04 1:05:53

Well, not even that. I don't know why no one thought about just put your food out. I mean, if you got maybe they don't have coolers, it's cheaper to go buy a cooler and put put your essential foods in the coolers and put them outside. Because it's cold, it's just as cold outside as in your refrigerator.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:09

The blessing of this time, it is gonna be very cold.

SPEAKER_04 1:06:11

It's gonna be cold. So yeah, you could you didn't need it, you didn't need a generator. You could just take some coolers and the things that are important for you to save, your meats and that kind of stuff.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:21

Just got they probably got raccoons in their backyard. They probably don't have fenced in yard.

SPEAKER_04 1:06:25

They ain't gonna be able to open. You think they're gonna open up a cocoon?

SPEAKER_01 1:06:27

Raccoons open up dumpsters. Oh, oh, that's true. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:06:31

Oh well, but anywho, that would be that I would just try to do that.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:35

Yeah. All right. Well, we're gonna get up out of this thing so we can eat. Yeah. And um and prep for our s no, it ain't snow, our ice closures. Um, I don't know, who's who knows? I might even drink a glass of wine today.

SPEAKER_04 1:06:52

I think I'm gonna drink, I only had now this was not a full.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:55

Yeah, it wasn't even that one.

SPEAKER_04 1:06:56

It was a last little bit.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:57

Yeah, that was uh what do they call a tinch?

SPEAKER_04 1:07:00

Just a taint.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:01

That was a tinch.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:01

Just a tinch.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:02

That was just wet my whistle.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:04

So I'm just I'm gonna um go have a little more.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:07

Ooh, DJ that uh bam.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:10

I'm gonna go have a little bit more.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:13

Right. Oh my lord. Well, ladies and gentlemen, um, thank you for joining us again. As you always have, we're gonna get up out of this thing. We'll see you next week. Um, I have been pleased with the way this podcast has been rolling.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:30

You're welcome.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:32

All right, I'm gonna get up out of here. Thank you for tuning in to the refreshingly normal podcast. Um, I am Kefla.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:43

I am Cree.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:45

And we will see you when we see you.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:47

Bye. All right, let's go cook some turkey burgers.

SPEAKER_00 1:08:00

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