Single Black Female New England
Welcome to Single Black Female New England—a bold, unfiltered podcast that dives into the unique realities of dating and daily life as a Black women in the often-overlooked corners of the Northeastern U.S. Hosted by a witty, insightful New England native & a New England transplant, this show explores everything from the joys and frustrations of finding love in predominantly white spaces, to navigating career, community, and culture in a region known more for its foliage than its diversity.
Each week, you'll hear real stories, raw conversations, and candid interviews with other Black women sharing their triumphs, challenges, and unspoken truths. Whether it’s decoding the New England dating scene, confronting subtle racism in the workplace, or celebrating small wins in snowy cities, Single Black Female New England is where lived experience meets laughter, honesty, and sisterhood.
This is more than a podcast—it’s a place for reflection, representation, and real talk.
New episodes drop every [Friday] — tap in, sound off, and stay unapologetically you.
Single Black Female New England
Episode 14: Tubi & Chill? The Uncut Truth About Modern Dating
Welcome back to another unfiltered episode of Single Black Female. This week, we are diving deep into the trenches of the current dating landscape, from the "low-budget" vibes of Tubi dates to the specific anatomical surprises that catch us off guard.
In this episode, we’re breaking down why some men think a "Tubi and Chill" night is an acceptable first date and how to spot a "Selective Provider"—the man who uses his co-parenting responsibilities as a shield to avoid showing up for the woman he’s actually dating.
Inside This Episode:
- Tubi & Chill vs. Netflix & Chill: We discuss the evolution of the "stay-at-home" date. Is he being frugal, or is he just giving you "low-budget" energy? We explore the red flags of a man who won't take you out of the house.
- The "Uncut" Conversation: Let’s talk about it! We dive into the hilarious (and sometimes shocking) moments of encountering men who aren't circumcised. From the initial surprise to the "maintenance" talk, no stone is left unturned.
- The Co-Parenting Cop-Out: We tackle the "Selective Provider." We love a man who takes care of his kids, but why is he using his child support payments as an excuse to never buy you a drink? We discuss the balance between being a great dad and being a present partner.
- Listener Q&A: We react to your wildest dating horror stories involving cheap dates and questionable excuses.
Key Takeaways for the Single Black Female:
- How to set standards for "home dates" early on.
- Navigating the physical surprises of the bedroom with humor and grace.
- Identifying when a man is "financially unavailable" vs. just plain stingy.
"If he’s got money for the 'bundle' but not for the brunch, he’s not the one, sis."
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