Molly Stone: Pop Princess energy, Brat Mentality

In this episode Molly explains how she started her spicy site, the dream of chasing her pop star dreams and how she loves having the power over men.  

Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:03

I would never have described myself as someone that was like a dominant person naturally. But I also really don't like being nice to men. They buy it, they buy a bin, a kitchen bin. I haven't done laundry basket yet, but I need to. It depends what mood I'm in as well. Like sometimes I'm more generous.

SPEAKER_01 0:36

Molly Stone, welcome to the Hot Girls Club podcast. Thanks for having me. Thank you for coming. Um, so tell me, how how does it work for you online? What is it that you do and when did it start?

SPEAKER_00 0:50

Uh so about I think six years ago. I'm not entirely, but about, you know, that kind of time, I well, actually before that, I discovered Fin Dom. Someone just told me about it because I was selling my old shoes online. It's kind of a long story, but yeah, I was selling old shoes on eBay, and some guy came along and was like, Can I buy these boots? And then was I actually I don't want them, but keep the money. And then he said, Do you do Fin Dom? And I was like, What's that? So I went and Googled it and I was like, This sounds great. Yes, I do. I do that. I do that, I can very well do that.

SPEAKER_01 1:21

I love that. So you were selling shoes online just because you wanted to make some spare cash?

SPEAKER_00 1:26

Yeah, like shoes that I didn't want anymore. To the girls. No, no, like you wouldn't because I found out I did like a bit of camming and I found out that people like feet and they said, so you had the intention of selling. Yeah, like if you just put stuff on eBay under well-worn, which they got really strict about, I don't know if it's possible now, but you just labelled stuff well-worn and that it would sell it for more. And obviously, otherwise it's going to the charity shop or the bin. Yeah. So I was like, let's make some money. And yeah, some guy just came along and told me about FinDom and then I see. It's annoying because like took me about a year before I made or I'd made a profile, but like a year before I actually started doing anything with it. Okay. It kind of was about not a full year into lockdown, but like I feel like the the main impact of lockdown had already hit. So I kind of missed the main wave of it. But it was still during lockdown that I started. But yeah, I'm like, if only I just started it the day I made that account. I know. You know, like why didn't I do it?

SPEAKER_01 2:25

So why did it take you a year? Was it were you nervous? Were you anxious? Like, what was the reason for not going for it immediately?

SPEAKER_00 2:31

I think I just didn't think it would make me any money. Like, I just didn't think it was worth demanding. No, I obviously, if I knew that it was gonna do this, I would have started ages ago. But yeah, I just thought, oh, it's just one of those things like like almost like a pyramid scheme where you like they're like this so great, and you see people making money, but that's never you that makes the money. Like I see, because it's just it's always like someone really lucky that does really well or whatever, but it's not like elusive.

SPEAKER_01 2:58

You thought I don't really know much about this.

SPEAKER_00 3:00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 3:00

Did you think that maybe the fin sub guys just didn't really exist?

SPEAKER_00 3:05

Yeah, well, yeah, because it's too good to be true, isn't it? Obviously, I had like that guy, and he spent like 300 pounds on me, and I was like, oh my god, like at the time as well, because I wasn't making this kind of money, and I was like just kind of flipping around between film jobs and doing like bar work and that kind of stuff. So I was like, This is nice, bit of pocket money. Yeah, um, so I knew that they existed, but I just thought I got lucky with him, and then I had dealt with like I think I must have had some other people that I found on eBay that I would chat to on kick, but I'd get like nothing out of them. I see, yeah. So they were sort of just in it for the interaction, yeah. They were just chatting away, and I'd try like I might get a fiver out of him, you know. Back then I was just like, it's free money, so whatever. Yeah. But then I started doing my Twitter, and I was like, I'm I met a friend of mine, she was doing OnlyFans, but she was doing like artistic nudes on hers. And because she was in the film industry as well, and everyone knew that she was doing it, I was like, oh, okay, I'm just gonna make an OnlyFans then and do that and like do findomy stuff through that. And I don't know, at first I didn't really know what I was doing, I was just kind of feeling it out. I thought I'm gonna make an OnlyFans and I'm gonna do like implied nudes and topless, maybe, and stuff like that. And then as I just made more money out of the findom, I was like, oh, okay, I don't need to do any nudity now, I can just funnel and go in that direction and that felt natural and yeah, isn't that the beauty of it though?

SPEAKER_01 4:30

I love the fact that you can just like find your way with this, do whatever suits you, yeah, exactly.

SPEAKER_00 4:35

You can drop things if it doesn't work, yeah, or you don't like it. It's just so customizable, and you just get to be authentic to yourself, yeah, which is great. Yeah, exactly.

SPEAKER_01 4:48

Have you always been a bit bossy, a bit dummy? Like, what were you like at school? I was really shy.

SPEAKER_00 4:54

So no, like I am I would never have described myself as someone that was like a dominant person naturally, but I also really don't like being nice to men. So it was like comfortable. I get to be horrible to them, like they pissed me off anyway. Now I get to let it out and I get to be like, no, you don't get that, and you can't do this, and yeah. So it's like doing this job has really like benefited me in so many other ways, I think, because now I'm so much more like assertive. I stand up for myself and I I just don't take as much shit as I used to. Whereas I was definitely a lot softer in the past and just didn't feel like I could say no, you know, like you just don't feel like you're in a place where you can demand things or say no to things because you don't want to be difficult or whatever. But I'm learning that you can. That's fine. Yeah, like you can just be difficult for other people because not if it's difficult for them, that's not my problem. Like, I need to make sure that I'm okay, you know, and get the things that I want.

SPEAKER_01 5:55

And there's there's guys out there who enjoy the difficulty. Oh, they love it.

SPEAKER_00 5:59

Yeah, and that's fun to play with. I love leaning into the brattiness because obviously I have like I am like we're all we're girls, we're bratty, we have our moments, but leaning into it's so fun. So, do you describe yourself as a bratty dom? Yeah, I think bratty is probably because I have like a lot, I know a lot of the girls in the community, or like I've got my little group in the community, and it's interesting seeing all of their different personas because some of them are like way more sexual and way more like I don't know, I say real dominatrices, but you know, like what you picture when you see it see a dominatrice like super strict, like some of them are more like that, yeah, and it's just interesting because we're all kind of getting the same result, but doing it all in differently, yeah, like all in our own way, our own characters. Yeah, I love that, and yeah, it's just cool. Do you find it having outlet? Yeah, for sure, because you can just do anything, and I like being silly with things, and I'm like, I can make stupid videos where I've got my Hoover dust on the floor and I'm filming that and telling them to wank to it, and they buy it. No, they buy it, they buy a bin, kitchen bin. I haven't done laundry basket yet, but I need to. So they'll like tell okay, now you need to just do.

SPEAKER_01 7:17

Yeah. Um what are they actually buying you a film, like a video of specifically?

SPEAKER_00 7:22

Like the d the Hoover dust. I've got like the little thing and it's open and it's just got fluff in it, you know, like Hoover fluff, and I just got the phone, I'm just filming, and you can see a bit of my feet as well. I see. And I'm usually just talking like you're pathetic, blah, blah, blah, you're gonna wank to this, you straight your dick to anything I tell you to, you know.

SPEAKER_01 7:40

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_00 7:41

And those videos do really well.

SPEAKER_01 7:43

Really?

SPEAKER_00 7:44

They do so well, and I just think, wow, if I can film dust, what else can I film? And I just find that really fun because I'm like, let's test it, shall we? Like, how ridiculous can it get?

SPEAKER_01 7:54

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 7:55

Because that I that's what I find the most fun. Like, it's this job is just so ridiculous. It is like the things that I witness, ridiculous. Yeah, like the things that I get to do, ridiculous the money might I make ridiculous ridiculous. It's just so silly. Like, what? Like, I just can't believe it.

SPEAKER_01 8:11

All of the videos that you're talking about, these ridiculous videos, are they things that you've thought up of yourself? I think or is it the subscribers? Do they kind of lead lead the way a bit and ask for things?

SPEAKER_00 8:21

Oh, a lot of them, like, because I'll put stuff if someone buys a custom off me. I might chuck that on the clip store if I think it's something that other people would want to buy. So obviously you get a lot of ideas because most of my ideas come from subs telling me. I can't remember where I came up with filming my bin. It could have been that someone bought a custom of it, and then I thought, right, let's just make this a clip and start.

SPEAKER_01 8:42

You're filming inside what, the the wheelie bin or the inside bin?

SPEAKER_00 8:46

Oh, I've got my kitchen bin. I think I did one of my bedroom bins, so it's got like, you know, cotton rounds and that kind of stuff in it. Like, I I need to do more. I feel like I could definitely milk that more, but I just don't.

SPEAKER_01 8:59

And how many guys out there are into wanking to contents of a bin or a hoop?

SPEAKER_00 9:05

I don't know how many, but like I said, they're irregularly. Yeah, how regularly were you talking? Like daily are you selling daily? I would say definitely because I don't check that often. Like, I just kind of let stuff happen, but I'll see it on my like because Twitter usually will retweet when your clip sells. And I just remember like uh like not that long ago, they were selling like every day, and it will be like the dust one, the bin one, and I was just like, This is so funny. This is like crazy. And you have people online calling me a slag, and I'm like, This is what people are buying though. I know they're buying videos of my bin, and you've got a problem with me. Like, go speak to them, please. Like, why is that anything to do with me? I know, yeah. What what is the what what where is the issue? Yeah, what is the problem? Sorry that your brothers wanna wank to dust. That's do you think it's always sexually charged? Yeah. Do you think? I think so. Yeah, I feel like it is.

SPEAKER_01 10:04

And because you're saying you're giving them a J O I essentially, you know, whilst talking over the camera and saying, you know, you're gonna wank to this or something.

SPEAKER_00 10:12

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 10:13

Then I guess that is the intention, isn't it?

SPEAKER_00 10:15

Yeah, because I think just at the root of it, it always comes down to it being like a sexual urge that they want to feel degraded, you know. Like even if they're buying, they might buy something that they don't even want because I've told them to buy it, yeah. But it's because they're turned on by me telling them what to do. So like it doesn't really matter where it comes, like at the core of it, yeah, there's like sexual satisfaction out of that for them. Because I've got like um, you know, good subs that have been around a really long time and they're way more just like all my almost like friends, you know. So I talk to them, but even like at their core, it's still exciting them in that way. Like if I use one of their like one of my subs cards and I get a coffee, he's like, Thanks for that. Like it just gives him like that little thrill, you know. Tell me about this. So you have subscribers' cards, what on your like Apple wallet? Yeah, on my Apple Pay's so good.

SPEAKER_01 11:10

And you just don't use their credit card to Apple Pay for Yeah, just like boop, boop.

SPEAKER_00 11:15

Got my Starbucks on the way here.

SPEAKER_01 11:17

And then and then what? Do you prove it to them or do they just see that coming out? They see it coming, thank you.

SPEAKER_00 11:22

Yeah, which I think is what's really fun for them because they don't know when it's gonna happen. Yeah, like it's like a little surprise. Yeah. But I'll like I'll respect their budgets because So they give you a budget. Yeah, like one guy, because I only have like two that I'm mainly using at the moment, and one guy, he like the whole card is mine. So he just puts money on there and that's all mine. So if I I can't overspend because it'll be empty. Yeah, yeah. Um, so that works there, and then the other one, he just kind of updates me, gives me like a weekly kind of budget. Depends, like this month is a bit smaller because he's going on holiday and he's like he's treating himself. That's the whole thing with him. Like, we're like growing that. I see. Okay, yeah. Like his yeah, our interactions are more about building his confidence than ruining it, which is okay, different.

SPEAKER_01 12:10

So you can adapt to whatever it is that they're looking for.

SPEAKER_00 12:13

Yeah, he wasn't looking for that to be fair. Okay, it was just kind of it just kind of happened because we just got chatting, and I was like, Oh, you're actually really cool. And then I'm like, Oh, you're still a virgin, and you're like 40, but I'm like, You're actually a nice guy. Okay, give me a credit card details. Yeah, give me that. But he's like so sweet, and I'm like, actually, you yeah, I don't want to be horrible to you. Like, I'll I'll boss him around a bit, but I'm like, actually, I want you to go get the things you want. Like, I want you to find yourself a girlfriend.

SPEAKER_01 12:39

So, does that so that's affected the budget that he's put on this card?

SPEAKER_00 12:42

Do you mind me asking how much oh it's it depends every month. I think he I know that it was like 200 a week at one point, yeah, which is nice because then I do like my food shopping and boring things. Yeah, that I use the car for the boring things because anything that's not a business expense, I'm like, well, that's on Sam's. Yeah, thank you. Like because otherwise I need to get a receipt or something. I don't want to do that. And track it and yeah, exactly. Um yeah, so like 200 a week, but I think this month, I don't really know because he's literally on holiday right now. Okay, it's like his birthday, so he's just trying to figure out. But I mean, I paid for my Starbucks on it. I just kind of I just do bits and I'm like, if if there's money at the end like left over, I'll get it anyway. So it's not like I ever lose anything. Yeah. Um, so yeah, I just like to be on the good side because they are trusting me. And I also need to trust them because I don't know, yeah. I don't know if someone were to turn on you and be like, oh, she's doing fraud or so. I don't, I don't know. So I always want to do it with people that I'm like, we know each other.

SPEAKER_01 13:44

If you're going to the reg regular places, then they can see, can't they? Where you are. Exactly. It tells you.

SPEAKER_00 13:49

So you want it to be with people that you're like, I don't mind if they know.

SPEAKER_01 13:53

Okay, so out of your what what what do you call your fans like collectively? Subs? Yeah, I guess so. Yeah. So out of your subs, do you have people that you've built relationships with that you really trust? Then there's kind of like trust relationship between the two of you.

SPEAKER_00 14:06

Yeah. That's important. Definitely. Like, not loads of them, but you have like the people that you talk to all the time, and like, like I say, Richard, I don't know if you've ever like he's kind of he's in one of my songs, actually, one that's going to be out at the end of this month. He's right at the beginning of it. It's one of his voice notes to me. And he's like, hi guys, Marley, blah blah blah. He's so fucking happy. He's like a um, he's like a Labrador, not a Labrador, but the the energetic, he's like a golden retriever human. He's one of those.

SPEAKER_01 14:34

Oh.

SPEAKER_00 14:34

Um, but he's been around for like four years. I actually think our anniversary is tomorrow. Wow. So he's been around a long time, and I met up with him when I went to New York. He met my mum. Wow, but these have met in person. Only once with Richard because he just lives in America. The other guy, Sam, that I have his card, I meet up with him, not like on a regular basis, but I met him a few times this year because he's not too far from me. Wow. So I've used him for like content, he's come around my house. He claims.

SPEAKER_01 15:02

So, how does that okay? So, what does a meet look like then? When you met Richard, like, tell me the day, like, how did it go?

SPEAKER_00 15:08

Well, I was in New York on holiday because I took my mum and my friend out there, and he flew in because he's like Michigan way. Um, so he met me in the morning. I think he met us. We just met him in the street somewhere, like we met found a meeting point, and then it was just me and my mum and him, and we went out to breakfast. And I knew they'd get on anyway, because like they're like into music, and yeah, Richard loves his music, and my mum's obsessed with it. I was like, you two are you're like you'd be friends, you know. And they were. Um, so we just went out to breakfast. What is Richard like? Tell me how old is he? What does he do for work? He is in his 50s, okay, like late 50s, and he's a painter and decorator, okay. But he does like houses. Yeah. He does he's always working. Is he married? No, he's got kids and stuff, but he's single and he's been single for a really long time. And he's like, he prefers it that way.

SPEAKER_01 15:59

Do you think you're fulfilling, you're filling a gap for him?

SPEAKER_00 16:02

I think it's not like yes, but not in the sense of I'm replacing a relationship. I feel like I'm just I don't want to say a sense of purpose because then it sounds like he's got nothing else going on because he does, but like I think it is that kind of it is like a sense of purpose. And he likes watching, like supporting me and supporting my life and watching me grow. Like, we don't talk about anything sexual, it's so like platonic. Yeah, if my nan read mine and Richards WhatsApp, he probably was that as well. Yeah, I have him on WhatsApp, yeah. And I've got Sam on WhatsApp, I've got like a few people on WhatsApp now.

SPEAKER_01 16:39

Wow.

SPEAKER_00 16:39

Um, but yeah, I feel like I'm not traditional in the sense because most people well, in my head, I imagine when people meet up with their subs, it is very like dom sub, but I'm just quite friendly. Like I've I've done meets where I've like spat in men's mouths and kick them in the balls and stuff. I don't do a lot of it because it's so time consuming, isn't it?

SPEAKER_01 16:59

Yeah, I can imagine, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 17:00

Like, and they don't really want to pay as much as I'm like, but you want me to leave the house, I really don't want to do that. So you can imagine. Like, why would I get up off the sofa right now if I don't have to?

SPEAKER_01 17:11

So, how much would a meet cost someone if they wanted you to spit in their mouth?

SPEAKER_00 17:16

I think now it depends what mood I'm in as well. Like, sometimes I'm more generous, but I feel like if we're feeling really stingy. Oh, it's well, I think like standard for a cash meet, which I would say is about 15 minutes, like I probably would give them more just because you get distracted and you're chatting and whatever. But like I would aim for like 15 minutes, and I'd probably say 300 for that. Yeah. Because I've got to go out and meet them. And it's only for 15 minutes, but all that effort just to get there, yeah. Um I would start there, but it also depends if they're really annoying. Like, if they're really annoying, then I'm gonna charge you more. Like if you've wound me up and you've because they ask so many questions, and it's like, you know, when they dodge paying and you're like, they're like, I want this thing. I'm like, okay, it's this much, and they're like, but how about this? And bah, and what about this? And they just ask like 10 million questions like, do you want it or not?

SPEAKER_01 18:05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 18:06

Pay me now.

SPEAKER_01 18:07

So do you think that they have an ulterior motive in getting you to dom them even more when they're saying, Oh, I don't know if I want to pay that, and you're saying, pay it for me. Do you think it's like a purposeful thing?

SPEAKER_00 18:18

Um, yeah, definitely. Yeah. But whether I don't know if they're like sometimes they are that smart, other times I think they're just they just want to talk as long. Like, it's not that even the content of the talking, it's just the fact that you're still in, you're still chatting to them. Yeah, they've got you one-on-one. But I I don't know, I feel like over the years I've kind of learned to like how to say things because I want to give them as little satisfaction as possible when they haven't paid me. Yeah. So like even in my live streams when I'm telling people to send and I'm not I'm gonna give you 10 seconds, and if you don't pay me, you're kicking out. I won't count down 10 seconds because I know they like it. They like a countdown. So I'm like, it's in my head. They just count in my head. You're not hearing it. Yeah, so things like that. I try and like I'm like trying to be stingy with what I give them. But then yeah, it's it's still like everybody's so like every conversation can be so different. So you're always running into new obstacles on people trying to waste your time in whole new different ways, you know, or like these creative excuses that you haven't come across yet.

SPEAKER_01 19:19

And I suppose over the years you've learned how to handle all the different try, but yeah, like I say, there's always new stuff.

SPEAKER_00 19:25

There's always like a new way that they're trying to trick you into talking to them. Yeah, of course.

SPEAKER_01 19:30

Yeah, let's talk about the music. I don't want to miss that because I feel like this is something big for you. It's like up and coming and it's new. So tell me how did you get started in music? What is it that you're looking to do? All that kind of stuff.

SPEAKER_00 19:45

I'm my goals, I would like to be a famous pop star. I don't know how realistic that is, but I always wanted to do that when I was a kid, and I'm like, why not? Yeah, why not? If I'm gonna do it, that's that's the direction I want to go in. I'll see where I end up along the way in that direction. Yeah, but um, I basically I started I've been singing for like all my life, I guess, but then I was so shy with it. So it wasn't until I was like 19 that I actually started singing in front of people and trying to like encourage myself to do that because even now I find it so scary to sing in front of people. Yeah, I don't know. There's so many other things that I'll do. You do not need to be worried, you've got a beautiful voice. I I wish that I'd just I'm I'm trying to figure out how to get rid of that fear, you know. Like it's like a I just need to practice, I suppose. Um, but yeah, I started working with producers like two years ago, and that just opened the door for me because I liked writing, but then all I could play was a bit of piano, so you can only make so many types of songs on a piano. Yeah. So when I started working with producers, like, oh, I can literally make any genre, yeah, anything, and they can bring that to life, which was so fun. So yeah, I started that like two years ago, kind of by accident, because a friend of a friend, I did some vocals for them and they introduced me to this guy, and he only lived like 10 minutes away. So I was like Perfect. So yeah, so I started working with him loads, making songs, and then met other people and and you've gone down the pop genre. Yeah, would you say pop? Yeah, I think so. Like there's like it's there's variations within it, but I yeah, overall I think.

SPEAKER_01 21:19

And are you blending the two together? Is your music and your findom or femdom businesses are, you know, how personas are they blended together?

SPEAKER_00 21:31

I yeah.

SPEAKER_01 21:32

Yeah?

SPEAKER_00 21:32

Yeah, I would say so, just because I don't obviously people will see it differently because I only I already know me, so what I what people's perception of me on social media is so different to what's in my head, because I'm like I know all these other details, and I just assume they also know those things about me, but they don't. Lots of people are like, wow, I thought you'd be really mean. I'm like, so weird to think that because I'm like such a pussy, you know? Like I'm so nice to people, like too nice a lot of the time. Um, but yeah, I feel like I I'd never I don't have like a really solid Dom persona. I think it's just me with just a bit more of being assertive and brattier and yeah, that's what I've seen of you online, I would say.

SPEAKER_01 22:15

I I wouldn't call you necessarily a dominatrix. No, I mean you are Dom. The two are but you're bratty dom. Exactly. Bratty Dom. The music fits in with it, the genre that you've chosen. It all works so perfectly.

SPEAKER_00 22:28

And it inspires the music as well. Because like the song that's out at the end of the month, that's got Richard in it, and it's got loads of the other girls as well. Yeah. Because I've got like them like spanking themselves and like saying, Good boy, and all these little things. So they're all like scattered through the song. And that's inspired by like being in this industry. It was like one of the first songs I wrote after meeting producers and being like, Oh, I can go in this direction now. Um, and it's just about having like all the hate that you get online and how you need to use that to to like keep going instead of letting it put you off, and then just use that, use the hate as an ingredient. Yeah. And so where can people find your music then? Everywhere, yeah. Like iTunes, Spotify, all like pan, there's so many, there's like a whole list of places that it gets put.

SPEAKER_01 23:14

But it's all right.

SPEAKER_00 23:15

So what would be so you've got separate for music as in like you've got separate social, separate or is it all my Instagram? I is a both. So my Twitter is like that's Fin Dom. And then my Instagram's like both, but probably will eventually tip more into music slash because I want it to be more like influencer-y, yeah. So I can get some brand deal. Like, I would like to move in that direction.

SPEAKER_01 23:39

And it's sort of playing into the hands of Instagram's rules.

SPEAKER_00 23:42

Exactly. It's so much easier to just seem like a normal influencer over there. Yeah. Um, and then I've got TikTok that's kind of a bit of both, but more so findomy. And then I do have like a music TikTok page as well. Nice. Um, but I have a website that's I've got two websites. I've got um it's mollystone.co.uk or dot com. Might have to double check that. And then on the link. Yeah. And then mollyspoilme.co.uk, which has like all of my findom links.

SPEAKER_01 24:12

So like my every social media I have is there. So yeah, amazing. So to finish then, let's just recap where they can find you. So you've got socials, what's your handle on Instagram? Um, it's Mollystone. It's Mollystone, and then you've got a website.

SPEAKER_00 24:25

Yes, I've got mollyspoilme.co.uk and it's mollystone.com or dot co.uk. I need because that's a new one. It's like not quite finished yet. It's like my that'll be my website for the music stuff. Yeah, absolutely. And there'll be links there as well. Yeah, amazing. But yeah, all the socials, most of my Findommy socials are Mollyspoil Me, but yeah, as I've lost accounts over the years, I've had to change those usernames.

SPEAKER_01 24:50

So it's not just a blanket across it. And the same Olivia Fleur Kiss, Olivia underscore Kiss, Olivia, whatever, you know, it's all different. Um, so this is the Hot Girls Club Podcast. Uh, thank you so much for coming on. I'm glad. I'm so happy to be here. I'm very grateful to you. Um, you can find the Hot Girls Club Podcast on YouTube, it's on OnlyFans TV and on Instagram, the HGC Podcast. And I'm Olivia Fleur. You can find all of my content, oliviafleurofficial.com. And I'll see you guys next time. Bye. Bye.